I have been mulling this over for a Long Time but haven t acted on it because I think the answer is we don t have a strong enough reason. That being said, we are reaching a point where it is becoming very very difficult for us, so I thought I would ask the opinion of folks here.
We are only recently DQ d and have about a 9-12 month wait ahead of us with Montreal Consulate for the interview. I was wondering if we have any grounds to request an expedite?
My Husband (USC) suffers from depression and anxiety which was diagnosed when he was a teenager. He has learnt to Live with it but the last year has been especially tough on him. His cat, who was almost like a daughter to him had to be put down in April last year after battling cancer for a Long Time. Then his father passed away in July, again after battling cancer for a 4 years. My husband lives alone and works from home so because of COVID he went through all this while in isolation. Because of border restrictions and COVID, I couldn t visit him. We were apart for 8 months At a stretch last year when he was going through the worst time of his life.
We managed to get married in October and applied for my immigration visa the next month thinking it would be a 11 month process. But now it is looking to be closer to 20 months.
He did not have the support system he needed when he was going through this difficult time last year because I couldn t be with him. He tells me, and I can see, not having someone there with him has robbed him of his ability to grieve and heal properly. The rest of his family had their spouses with them and they have managed to get through it healthily. But I see him broken, and I feel like it s only getting worse....
Now his mother has been diagnosed with cardiac issues and she went through surgery 3 weeks ago. Luckily, she got through it fine and is recovering, but again, it s been hard on my husband. I think he is unable to deal because he is still traumatised by the death of his father.
I don t want to get into details of how it has affected him, his ability to just get through the day, but I am worried for him. I want to be there for him...
Would the consulate consider any of this a valid reason for an expedite?
I feel a little ashamed asking, because I know everyone has their own reasons why they MUST be with their spouse and I do feel guilty for wanting to skip the queue. But for me, it s getting very very hard to see my husband suffering this way, so I simply wanted to ask if there is any chance...