Divorced - Do I need to cancel AOS?

[Bunninuts 55]

My ex and I had irreconcilable differences. We went through the K1 process. He was approved to travel here, we were married earlier this year, I filed for divorce, he went back to his country in Nov, and the divorce was approved within days of him exiting the country. 

 

Do I need to still send USCIS a letter? We had applied for a work auth and a green card. Me being the citizen, am I able to send a letter requesting the requests be canceled? 

 

Thank you for guidance. 

[Crazy Cat 45,864]

To eliminate any ambiguity and any possibility of a future issue if he was to re-enter the US in the future, I would immediately send a letter to USCIS to officially withdraw the I-864 you submitted.  I would also send a copy of the divorce decree along with it.   This will establish a clean paper trail to prevent any future issues....even if there is a low chance of problems. This should be done asap. 

Edited 23 hours ago by Crazy Cat

[Ontarkie 15,088]

~~Thread moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from AOS K1/k3 P&P- as similar topics are discussed here ~~

[Bunninuts 55]

@Crazy Cat Thank you. Do I need to withdraw the work auth request as well? And to be sure, I being the US citizen can make this request? It doesn't have to come from the foreign ex spouse? 

 

Lastly, do you know where I would find where to send this? Do I send to the same address I sent the AOS to? 

 

[Dashinka 26,345]

4 minutes ago, Bunninuts said:

@Crazy Cat Thank you. Do I need to withdraw the work auth request as well? And to be sure, I being the US citizen can make this request? It doesn't have to come from the foreign ex spouse? 

 

Lastly, do you know where I would find where to send this? Do I send to the same address I sent the AOS to? 

 

You as the USC only control the I864 submitted with the AOS package, so that is the only thing you can request be pulled back.  The I765 and/or the I131 should end up being canceled automatically once the I485 is canceled after you pull the I864.

 

Good Luck, and sorry it didn’t work out for you.

Edited 22 hours ago by Dashinka

[Bunninuts 55]

@Dashinka @Crazy Cat

 

I'm about to cry. I have tried to called USCIS to get the address to send to but they hang up on me and won't allow me to talk to anyone. I tried their chat where the rep hung up on me once saying they couldn't give me any specific information. I tried chat again which sent me to the same rep who tried the same thing until I asked why she is refusing to give me a simple address, the US citizen. She gave me an address and I'm not sure it is accurate. I am so frustrated. How do I find the proper address? The only address I have is on the biometrics appointment letter. The letters saying they received the AOS was returned by my mail person and USCIS never sent us new ones. Everything about every step of this has been awful including right now. My youngest child tragically died this year and I am having a hard time taking care of these things. Any help would be greatly appreciated. 

[OldUser 11,135]

Just right to the same address you got your receipts from USCIS.

 

Honestly, all of this is optional. The moment marriage ended and AOS was abandoned, you are not liable for I-864 or anything else.

[Dashinka 26,345]

Send it to the USCIS California Service Center (a search will give the address) or the Portland USCIS field office or boat.  And yes, this is optional, so don’t lose any sleep over it.

 

Good Luck!

[TBoneTX 48,689]

5 hours ago, Bunninuts said:

Everything about every step of this has been awful including right now.

Hugs, prayers, warm wishes, and assurances that things WILL improve.  Have faith.