Everything is terrible and I am desperate for help

[Boiler 43,569]

You started by stating you wanted to get out of Dodge, go home, divorce and move on.

 

What do you want now?

[Lotts 1,433]

"What do you want now?"

Can you explain why you're being rude?

 

I've asked questions out of desperation, clouded views, and not knowing what is going on. I've also asked questions to see what options are available to me.

 

Several people have mentioned different things to me. VAWA is something I clearly don't know much about and obviously want more information about. Maybe this could be helpful to someone that is in a similar situation and could use this thread as a point of reference. Someone that cannot post questions in fear of being caught or has just has terribly low confidence and doesn't want to feel ridiculed by someone for asking a question.

 

Is that a problem for you, Boiler? 

Edited November 8, 2019 by Lotts

[Sandra G. 5,016]

1 hour ago, HappyAndIKnowIt said:

I understand this is a very easily-understood statement, but what ???  Can someone explain why they wouldn't and  how we know USCIS doesn't accept recorded material ?

How do we you they don't accept recorded material, well in my case I  know VERY WELL  USCIS policies and Law, and they don't accept recorded material for  security reasons.You can transcribe the audio but don't transcribe if in your State is considered illegal to record someone without the person consent.

[SusieQQQ 11,584]

I can see you're getting confused but i still think your number 1 priority should be getting out of this toxic situation, and a very close number 2 should be getting into a supportive environment (from what you've said, that's the UK). You can worry about the other stuff later. Get somewhere safe first. 

 

There is a long main VAWA thread already in existence on VJ btw.

Edited November 8, 2019 by SusieQQQ