How hard is Turkey?

[RobertM54 36]

My K-1 with a Ukrainian fiance blew up recently. Look in RUB for the details if you are interested. I am one of the few guys who could not make it through the famously easy Kiev embassy. While my case was marginal, I am extremely bitter that the Kiev embassy did not give me the chance to work it out in the USA.

 

Back in 2015, I met this incredible woman as my AirBnB hostess in Istanbul. She is probably 25 years younger than me as a secular Muslim. Every time she shows up in Facebook, my heart jumps. I have no idea if she would be interested in me. But she is still single. 

 

Given 1) I am not going to become a Muslim and 2) I do everything right this time per the relationship fascists at Department of State, 3)and the lady is willing (I have absolutely no idea if she is interested - it was incredibly relaxed and fun when my Ukrainian GF was arriving the next day and she is smart and cute as a bunny - all I know so far.). What are my chances in Turkey?

 

Thanks

 

[gregcrs2 1,778]

Your chances are probably worse than your previous attempt at a K1.  If it turns out that there is "magic" between the two of you, you would be better off retiring and moving there.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

So, you withdrew the K1 because the embassy put you in AP.  And within weeks have dropped Irina, your fiance, and are contemplating another woman?

Yet, you were upset about the embassy's indecision?  Sounds like they made the right decision for Irina.  

 

[Transborderwife 4,666]

Boy people move fast these days.

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Right.  

[Boiler 45,657]

AirBnB operates in the US, perhaps you could find a host nearer to home.

 

If you are not Muslim you would need to convert as she can not marry an infidel..

[LionessDeon 2,060]

Yes, and that would definitely absolve the OP of having to deal with difficult embassies.  Win. Win.