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My cousin is married 7 years ago and right now her husband and her is having trouble in financial matters they are young when they got married 24 years old my cousin is 23 years old by then they both finished their nursing and both RN but the thing is a lot of school loan and thats starts fighting when my cousin lost her other job she has 2 job by the way and her husband has 1 lost her 1 job and on call job left she kept applying but its not as lucky yet...sad to say her husband always yell at her in some point she wants baby but he doesnt want and the in law husbands mom always has to say and end up some nasty word to her degrading her and she told to her husband ..husband dont care and instead his mom is right that was husband say.and now he buy a huge lock to lock their appartment she dont want to leave him well she loves him and want to work it out but seems husband is the one trying to tell have divorce but she keep asking him not to divorce her.and they have fight and end beating her she stays still with the husband what i can do to help her to listen...any information or  qhere to call if she decide to leave..i cant let her in the house im staying because im with my in laws only staying.please help.

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~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes, from Off Topic - As similar threads are discussed here.~~



Met Playing Everquest in 2005
Engaged 9-15-2006
K-1 & 4 K-2'S
Filed 05-09-07
Interview 03-12-08
Visa received 04-21-08
Entry 05-06-08
Married 06-21-08
Filed 07-08-08
Cards Received01-22-09
Roc X5
Filed 10-17-10
Cards Received02-22-11
Filed 10-17-11
Interview 01-12-12
Oath 06-29-12

Citizenship for older 2 boys

Filed 03/08/2014

NOA/fee waiver 03/19/2014

Biometrics 04/15/14

Interview 05/29/14

In line for Oath 06/20/14

Oath 09/19/2014 We are all done! All USC no more USCIS


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That is a very long sentence.

“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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Jeez some people on this site are so rude. This person may not have good writing skills. There is no indication that the post is false and it should be treated seriously until deemed otherwise. 


Abbie. - call (or have your cousin call) this hotline number for domestic abuse. They can help.

1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

K1 Visa Application:
129-F Delivered: Lewiston, TX 10/29/2015
NOA1 eNotification: 11/3/2015 (Sent to CSC - yay!)
NOA1 Hard Copy: 11/8/2015 | NOA2 eNotification: : 11/30/2015 | NOA2 Hard Copy: 12/4/2015
NVC Received: 12/10/2015 | NVC Case Assigned: 12/11/2015
Mailed to Embassy: 12/16/2015 (Status shows as Ready)
Received hardcopy Letter from NVC: 12/19/2015
Embassy Received Packet: 12/21/2015
Email from Embassy for Beneficiary Email: 12/24/2015
Replied to Embassy: 12/24/2015
Email from Embassy Regarding Packet 3: 12/28/15
Replied to Embassy: 12/28/15 (at night)
Email from Embassy Regarding Packet 4: 12/29/15 (in the morning)
Interview Date: Jan 13th @ 12:30pm - Approved!
CEAC status changed to admin processing: 1/14/16
CEAC status changed to issued: 1/19/16
US travel docs website shows "out for delivery": 1/20/16
Called by courier regarding delivery attempt: 1/21/16
Passport in hand:1/22/16 (he went to their office to pick it up)
Arrival date into the US: 3/09/16
Married: 06/04/2016
Timeline for AOS
AOS paperwork (including EAD & AP) sent via Express Mail: 10/1/2016
AOS paperwork received by USCIS: 10/3/2016
NOA1 E-notification Date (email and text): 10/5/16, ~11pm Central time, one notice for each application
Check Cashed: 10/6/16
NOA1 Hardcopy Date: 10/11/16
Biometrics Letter Received: 10/28/16
Biometrics Scheduled for: 11/9/16 (Did not try a walk-in, went on scheduled day)
EAD approved on: 11/16/16 (early in the day) / AP approved on: 11/16/16 (late in the day)
AP produced+mailed on:11/18/16 | AP letters (2) received on: 11/18/16
EAD card produced+mailed on: 11/22/16 | EAD card received on: 11/25/16
Social Security card application date: 11/28/16 | Social Security card received on: 12/27/16 (Ordered a new one at the office on 12/19/16)
Interview Waiver! (6 months and 2 weeks past the first NOA1)
Card Ordered notice (text and online): 4/19/17 | I-485 Approval notice (text and online): 4/20/17 | Card Produced + WILL Mail notice 4/27/17

Card Mailed notice: 5/2/2017

Green Card Received: 5/5/2017 

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What? Longest question I have ever read without a question mark :o


K1 from Armenia
I-129F Sent : 2013-01-16
I-129F NOA1 : 2013-01-24
I-129F NOA2 : 2013-05-21

NVC Pkg. Rcv. : 2013-06-03

Interview : 2013-07-16 (APPROVED)

US Entry : 2013-10-05

Got Married : 2013-10-15

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First the victim needs to get away...call the police & get into a shelter

Did they not discuss finances, kids & family before the union ?

Marriage must be taken seriously, get to know the other, keep

family members out of disagreements...things can fall apart

regardless.If not yet a ten yrs GC holder record the abuses &

have proof

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