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Does age difference creates problem in interview and what proofs are needed except given below?

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My husband is 10 years younger than me (35-25) and i am a LPR. I filed i-130 for my husband and on 18th March he is having interview on Us Embassy Nepal. Our relationship is true. We have many proofs to proove it.

1) Court Marriage certificate

2) Marriage Photos and Video with my mother, friends and relatives.

3) Western union money transfer history from dec 2010 to july 2013.

4) Call records.

5) My husbands insurance policy where i am Beneficiary

6) Love letters shared on 2010 and some letters of 2013 and 2014

7) Postal Receipts.

8) Touring photos to different parts of Nepal.

And some others.....

Are these enough to proove the relationship? Please help me.

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Are you Nepalese, same religion etc?


“If you know the enemy and know yourself, you need not fear the result of a hundred battles. If you know yourself but not the enemy, for every victory gained you will also suffer a defeat. If you know neither the enemy nor yourself, you will succumb in every battle.”

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How often have you met? The best thing you can do to increase your chances of approval is spend time together.


Bye: Penguin

Me: Irish/ Swiss citizen, and now naturalised US citizen. Husband: USC; twin babies born Feb 08 in Ireland and a daughter in Feb 2010 in Arkansas who are all joint Irish/ USC. Did DCF (IR1) in 6 weeks via the Dublin, Ireland embassy and now living in Arkansas.

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I've read a lot of K1 filers here on VJ with larger age gaps get approved. Yours shouldn't be any different given the proofs that you have.

Also, they wouldn't care about your videos because hard drives, discs, usb devices are not permitted inside the embassy. Just bring photos. If you're going to put them in a photo album, bring those small notebook-sized ones.

Good luck!

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I've seen some 20 to 30 year age gap marriages get approved on VJ board,

but those were mostly older man and much younger woman.

There was also 10+ years older woman getting approved as well.

That said, I do think the much older woman couple will get more scrutiny

than the other way around.

How acceptable is it in Nepal for 25 year old man to marry a 35 year old woman?

How are both sides of the families supporting the marriage?

I think as long as you have sufficient supporting evidence,

you guys should be OK...though he may get grilled during the interview.


10-04-2013 We met online
11-21-2013 We met in person in Shanghai for 2 weeks

12-13-2013 I-129F packet sent via express

12-19-2013 USCIS NOA #1 (text and email) received

12-24-2013 USCIS assigns Alien Registration Number
12-31-2013 USCIS NOA #1 hard copy received
06-02-2014 USCIS web site shows NOA #2 approval
06-06-2014 USCIS web site shows case sent to NVC

06-xx-2014 Fiancee acquired birth, marriage, and police certificates from local police station (wrong)

06-16-2014 NVC creates case with GUZ### number

06-19-2014 NVC sends case sent to Guangzhou, China
06-24-2014 Received packet 3 express mail from embassy
06-25-2014 Completed DS-160 and paid K1 visa fee

06-26-2014 Mailed packet 3 response back to Embassy

06-26-2014 Requested police certificate from Russian embassy

07-08-2014 Received packet 4 email from Embassy

07-17-2014 Picked up Russian police certificate

07-25-2014 Fiancee medical exam (received MMR & Varicella, but they missed required TD shot)

07-31-2014 Picked up medical exam reports

08-01-2014 Request (correct) birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service (GongZhengChu)

08-06-2014 Picked up birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service

08-14-2014 Passed Interview Guangzhou embassy

09-01-2014 Received passport, visa, & sealed envelope

09-13-2014 POE

09-17-2014 Went to CBP office to get (US entry) I-94 updated correctly

09-18-2014 Applied for Social Security Card
09-19-2014 Applied for Marriage License (via online)
09-25-2014 Received Social Security Card
09-30-2014 Picked up Marriage License
10-09-2014 Marriage by Justice of Peace
10-09-2014 Got Certified Marriage Certificate Copies
10-17-2014 Received a letter from SS office that they need the marriage license
10-09-2014 Applied to change the social security card name
10-24-2014 Went back to SS office to provide the marriage certificate documents again!!!
12-09-2014 Submitted AOS, EAD, and AP
12-16-2014 Received 16 emails and 16 text NOA messages
01-05-2015 Received Biometrics appointment letter for (01-12-2015)
01-12-2015 Had Biometrics (fingerprint & picture) - Required Marriage Certificate!!!
02-17-2015 EAD and AP is approved
02-23-2015 Received AP is approval letter
02-25-2015 Received EAD/AP combo card (expires 02/16/2016)
02-27-2015 Applied for SS card name change (they took her SS card)
02-27-2015 Driver's learner permit test was denied since the SS card was given to SS office for name change
03-17-2015 Received SS card with married name
03-17-2015 Started to change all her accounts to married name
03-23-2015 Received potential interview waiver letter
03-27-2015 DMV rejects learner's permit due to "legal status=pending" and vision test failure
04-05-2015 Vision test for learner's permit
04-06-2015 DPS sent us letter that DHS cleared my wife's status to acquire driver's license.
04-10-2015 Passed Driver Learner's Permit
04-22-2015 Received Driver Learner's Permit ID card (expires 02/16/2016)
08-27-2015 Green Card approved
08-31-2015 Received Green Card "Welcome Notice Was Mailed" letter
09-05-2015 Received Green card
10-26-2015 Passed Driver's License Road Test (on 3rd attempt)
11-03-2015 Received Driver's License (expires 02/16/2022)
11-06-2015 Applied to remove conditional work remark on SS card
11-23-2015 Received updated Social Security Card.
- - - - - - - - - - Pending Future Processing - - - - - - - - - -
05-27-2017 File 10 Year Green Card
08-27-2017 2 Year Green Card Expires
05-27-2018 File USC

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We were in long distance relationship from almost 5 years. We used to know eachother when i was there in Nepal. Shared gifts letters ets on Nepal. Later when married when we met. We have letter shared on 2010 and western union receipt frm 2010 aswell. So that is our proof of old relationship. As for family his mother and his some friends came in our marriage ceremony as it wasnt possible to take my every member to Nepal. But my sister is Sponcer to bring him here. We have lots of màrriage photos and touring photos from different parts of NEPAL.

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I am 6 years older than my fiancé :) we were given the K1 visa :) Goodluck!


K1 VISA APPLICATION

10.28.14 - Package Sent

11.06.14 - NOA1

11.21.14 - NOA2

12.10.14 - NVC Received

12.15.14 - US Consulate General Vancouver Received

12.22.14 - Packet 3 Received

01.24.15 - Packet 3 Sent

01.27.15 - Packet 4 Received

02.17.15 - Medicals

03.03.15 - Interview - Approved

03.14.15 - See you California. Thank you Lord.

03.28.15 - Civil Wedding 

05.12.15 - Church Wedding 

SOCIAL SECURITY CARD

04.02.15 - Applied (brought with me completed SS-5, I-94, passport and original marriage certificate)

04.07.15 - Card Received (under married name)

11.13.15 - SSA Requested Removal of Restriction

11.20.15 - New SS Card without Restriction Received

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS & EAD

04.02.15 - Package Sent (EAD & AOS)

04.04.15 - Package Received (Chicago Lock box)

04.06.15 - NOA1 (EAD)

04.07.15 - NOA1 (AOS)

04.17.15 - Biometrics Notice (via Post mail)

04.29.15 - Biometrics schedule

04.22.15 - Successful Walk In for an Early Biometrics

06.19.15 - Approval (based on the card date - EAD)

06.26.15 - EAD Card Received

07.27.15 - NPIW

09.19.15 - Online status approval

09.25.15 - Green Card Received. Thank you Lord!

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS  (CSC)

06.23.17 - Application sent

06.26.17 - Received

06.29.17 - NOA

07.10.17 - Biomentrics Notice (via Post mail)

07.17.17 - Biometrics schedule

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I am 13 years older than my husband. Age wasn't an issue at all


Married March 9, 2013
NOA1 I-130 April 12, 2013

Transferred to TSC Nov 27, 2013
APPROVED March 18, 2014 FINALLY ! ! ! !! 11 MONTHS & 6 LONG DAYS FOR MY NOA2
Case shipped from TSC to NVC March 21, 2014
Rec'd NOA2 hard copy March 22, 2014
Case rec'd & Case Number assigned April 1, 2014
AMAZING !!!
PAID IV and AOS fees online April 5, 2014
Fees show paid/DS 260 avail. /DS260 submitted/AOS&IV pkg sent April 9, 2014
FEDEX delivered @ NVC April 11, 2014
Revised AOS pkg delivered April 15, 2014
AOS & IV rec'd& scanned in @ NVC April 15, 2014
Revised AOS scanned April 18, 2014
AOS checklist for income and IV pkg April 30, 2014 (checklist expected due to Lawyers mistakes)
DS260 accepted April 30, 2014
Checklist for Birth cert/police cert May 1, 2014
AOS accepted May 5, 2014

Birth cert scanned MAY 8, 2014

CASE COMPLETE JUNE 4, 2014 CC letter received via email June 11, 2014

INTERVIEW JULY 15, 2014

Waiver finally FedEx'd to Phoenix Lockbox August 21, 2014

WAIVER APPROVED December 17, 2014

Received Instruction Letter via email December 23, 2014

Final Embassy Appointment January 5, 2015 YAY !

Visa ISSUED January 12, 2015

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Never asked about the age difference. I took with me evidence of on going relationship (the date after our file was submitted to the date of the interview. The interview took 5-10mins only. Don't worry. Just reminder basic fact about your fiancé. And always say the truth :)


K1 VISA APPLICATION

10.28.14 - Package Sent

11.06.14 - NOA1

11.21.14 - NOA2

12.10.14 - NVC Received

12.15.14 - US Consulate General Vancouver Received

12.22.14 - Packet 3 Received

01.24.15 - Packet 3 Sent

01.27.15 - Packet 4 Received

02.17.15 - Medicals

03.03.15 - Interview - Approved

03.14.15 - See you California. Thank you Lord.

03.28.15 - Civil Wedding 

05.12.15 - Church Wedding 

SOCIAL SECURITY CARD

04.02.15 - Applied (brought with me completed SS-5, I-94, passport and original marriage certificate)

04.07.15 - Card Received (under married name)

11.13.15 - SSA Requested Removal of Restriction

11.20.15 - New SS Card without Restriction Received

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS & EAD

04.02.15 - Package Sent (EAD & AOS)

04.04.15 - Package Received (Chicago Lock box)

04.06.15 - NOA1 (EAD)

04.07.15 - NOA1 (AOS)

04.17.15 - Biometrics Notice (via Post mail)

04.29.15 - Biometrics schedule

04.22.15 - Successful Walk In for an Early Biometrics

06.19.15 - Approval (based on the card date - EAD)

06.26.15 - EAD Card Received

07.27.15 - NPIW

09.19.15 - Online status approval

09.25.15 - Green Card Received. Thank you Lord!

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS  (CSC)

06.23.17 - Application sent

06.26.17 - Received

06.29.17 - NOA

07.10.17 - Biomentrics Notice (via Post mail)

07.17.17 - Biometrics schedule

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Just remind yourself of the basic facts about your fiancé. Sorry my phone is acting. Lol :) Goodluck. Do not worry too much. You would be ok :)


K1 VISA APPLICATION

10.28.14 - Package Sent

11.06.14 - NOA1

11.21.14 - NOA2

12.10.14 - NVC Received

12.15.14 - US Consulate General Vancouver Received

12.22.14 - Packet 3 Received

01.24.15 - Packet 3 Sent

01.27.15 - Packet 4 Received

02.17.15 - Medicals

03.03.15 - Interview - Approved

03.14.15 - See you California. Thank you Lord.

03.28.15 - Civil Wedding 

05.12.15 - Church Wedding 

SOCIAL SECURITY CARD

04.02.15 - Applied (brought with me completed SS-5, I-94, passport and original marriage certificate)

04.07.15 - Card Received (under married name)

11.13.15 - SSA Requested Removal of Restriction

11.20.15 - New SS Card without Restriction Received

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS & EAD

04.02.15 - Package Sent (EAD & AOS)

04.04.15 - Package Received (Chicago Lock box)

04.06.15 - NOA1 (EAD)

04.07.15 - NOA1 (AOS)

04.17.15 - Biometrics Notice (via Post mail)

04.29.15 - Biometrics schedule

04.22.15 - Successful Walk In for an Early Biometrics

06.19.15 - Approval (based on the card date - EAD)

06.26.15 - EAD Card Received

07.27.15 - NPIW

09.19.15 - Online status approval

09.25.15 - Green Card Received. Thank you Lord!

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS  (CSC)

06.23.17 - Application sent

06.26.17 - Received

06.29.17 - NOA

07.10.17 - Biomentrics Notice (via Post mail)

07.17.17 - Biometrics schedule

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