Marriage is going in danger situation

[Boiler 43,425]

Laurel is not taking on new cases.

[dwheels76 5,459]

Laurel is not taking on new cases.

Well maybe she can refer him to someone in Houston. Worth at least a call. Or OP you can be a part of the Wednesday live chat. It's free.

[FZSA 23]

is it must to remain live on same address for future ROC process which used during immigration process ??

Or the address where we are living together ?

I cant tolerate her attitude in home , she comes after 11 pm with him and again go back early morning , 7 a days per week

[sarahch 68]

That's a big statement to make on such a little information base. My husband works in a prodominantly female industry, and has caught rides to work. If I had a penny for every time I thought he was having an affair with the woman who drove him, I'd be in the same financial spot as I already am at this moment.

OP, I would try to work things out with her. If you entered the marriage in genuinely good faith, then it's worth working on and working out. If it were me, and all was completely hopeless, I'd return to my native land, back to my friends and family, and try to rebuild life from a country I knew. Sure, it sucks that you've left everything for this woman, but I'm going to assume that you might have more support in your home land.

Based on what the OP has said, I still stand by my statement. I think it is still fishy, the involvement of this third person who she seems to be spending a lot of time with.

Dear OP, I still suggest you look in to what is happening with your wife and try to find the root of the problem, if the marriage was entered in good faith, then by all possible means, i would advise for you to work it out , at least you know you tried , and if not get help of a good lawyer.

[TBoneTX 43,042]

any one knows good lawyer in houston then give me a detail please !!

http://www.fosterquan.com-- largest immigration law firm west of the Mississippi River.

Edited to add: I have no connection with the firm other than having been a client.

Edited October 26, 2014 by TBoneTX

[sara..... 371]

http://www.fosterquan.com-- largest immigration law firm west of the Mississippi River.

Edited to add: I have no connection with the firm other than having been a client.

With out contacting them I would still be going around in circles one of the best as far as im concerned

sara

[Fan_Dancer 171]

She sounds very unhappy. Was it an arranged marriage?

[FZSA 23]

yes ! it was arranged married and now she always say that i was not ready for marriage and i was agreed just because of my mother !!!

so what's my fault ??????? I still love her but cant tolerate her attitude that she goes out of home since morning till night and reply that everything is good between us and let it go as its going !!!!!

we dont talk , donot fight , we dont have any big issue like ( hurting , beating , any kind of police issue ) but i dont know what should i do ??

she does not reply me when i angry !!! but she does not want to listen me in peace !!

Edited October 27, 2014 by FZSA

[Merrytooth 5,748]

As in your previous topic about your friend's arranged marriage, which bears great resemblance to yours, divorce and move on.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/510242-petitioner-doesnt-want-to-live-with-husband/#entry7189007

[meandmine 8]

If i divorce her then how can i prove that marriage was entered in good faith from my side ?

We just have a problem that she wants to live her live alone while married but doesn't want to live as a married wife ....

She does not go anywhere with me , dont talk to me , spend all time out side from 8 am till 11 pm ....

Bhai aap mujay apna number daan.phir baat kertay haan. But don't ask for divorce ,just saber krro. Joint file of income tax is not a problem, start looking for a job if not working.

[Sandra G. 5,016]

Your wife does not love you. DIvorce and move on.

[Penguin_ie 5,984]

***** English only outside the regional forums please ******

[SofisPatience 23]

Salaam alaikum FZSA,

I'm truly sorry for what you are going through. I also appreciate that you shared your situation here with us.

First, as your sister in Islam, I ask you to please consider trying to work out the marriage. Using all means possible, your family, her family, counseling, advisers at the nearest masjid. I will make lots of doua for you and your wife.

Your situation really touched me. I felt as if you could possibly be my husband disguising himself on this site. lol. But my husband is still in Pakistan.

I also entered my marriage in good faith. The entire immigration process and being apart is very hard on both sides. I sometimes become very distant because i don't want to share my feelings with him. I don't want to add more stress to him. But he interprets this as if I am cold and not loving. Communication is so important, inshaAllah I will work on it more now having read your post.

Please keep the faith, inshaAllah khair everything will be ok.

~ Sofi