how do I cancel this whole process and retrive my valuables??

[camden 20]

I'm sure you've weighed out the pros and cons. Good luck on your new endeavor.

[Ebunoluwa 6,136]

You flew through the process from start of filing to case complete in 7 months, which is super fast for a CR1 !!!
The few months waiting for an interview are nothing. If your case goes into AP for an average time length of an additional 5 months

then I would gladly trade with your journey over my 16 months AP, denial and re filing.
I honestly don't think you have anything to complain about at this time.
But if you rather live in the currently unstable country of Egypt with riots and war than waiting a few more month, then go for it.

I can not for the life of me understand your decision to quit 5 minutes before the stroke of 12.

I hope you will not end up with regret and have to start all over again in the future.

You say you do not have the money to visit him again but you have the money to move there ?

Request all originals back from NVC in writing and then you will have them. Easy peasy. Good luck with the move.

[jandp2013 1]

i reached the end soo many times but i knew i had to be strong.our plan b was to move back with him it he dint get his visa an today he got it.in few days he will be here with me

[Jawaree 717]

Sushine, U miss hubby and is frustrated, Y don't U set up

something with family or so as continued domicile address,

your license & maintain a bank account, then go be with hubby

until interview....don't throw it all away, when things get to

U there U will blame hubby & curse the countrys condition

if U R unhappy

Edited October 9, 2013 by Jawaree

[bigdog 376]

Good luck with your life.

[reneegh724 14]

My-oh-my!!! Looks like you are so very close! You can do it, keep waiting, it will TOTALLY be worth it in the end! I'm not sure what country your husband is from/your origin country but when I get depressed and pissed at all the waiting I just think of the military wives all over the world who have to say goodbye to their husbands leaving for a conflict zone and perhaps may not see them for 6 months or 1 year or maybe 2 even. Or worse-- perhaps NEVER see them again... I am not implying that your situation is easy or anything, I know it is not from my own experience, but it could always be worse. I know my fiance is safe, happy, has a roof over his head, and friends and family that love him in Ghana, so that keeps my mind at ease... maybe that thinking could help you get through one day at a time. At least it works for me

This process is terrible, and long, and frustrating but you can do it!

[sunshine1102 10]

You flew through the process from start of filing to case complete in 7 months, which is super fast for a CR1 !!!

The few months waiting for an interview are nothing. If your case goes into AP for an average time length of an additional 5 months

then I would gladly trade with your journey over my 16 months AP, denial and re filing.

I honestly don't think you have anything to complain about at this time.

But if you rather live in the currently unstable country of Egypt with riots and war than waiting a few more month, then go for it.

I can not for the life of me understand your decision to quit 5 minutes before the stroke of 12.

I hope you will not end up with regret and have to start all over again in the future.

You say you do not have the money to visit him again but you have the money to move there ?

Request all originals back from NVC in writing and then you will have them. Easy peasy. Good luck with the move.

I honestly dont know through the long journey of yours if you got to be with your significant other during the time of ur journey, but pretty sure at some point of time you have, becuase you were able to, but again.i dont know and about my move money, if you need me to get technical and in details the ticket to go visit only is over a grand, not including extra money to spend and the one way ticket is 600$ only and we will live back with our family there.

I dont know what kind of job you have but im pretty sure its not a 8/hr job, which im gonna have to.save thouse 600$ from that 8/hr job which is alot easier than 1300$ +....

And Egypt is my home country and I was born there and lived there during all the struggles my country went through and I coped with it fine. and if something would happene to me or my husband's life id rather take my last breath being with him.

the country you have your case processing is.completely different from egypt, the embassy in egypt have always made it complicated for the egyptian applicants no matter what.

there were reasons to why we descided to start the paper work in case your wondering" then why you want to live in the us",and they are personal and no need to share all my life details.

Im definitly not going to waste months or Years of my life and my husband's being away from each other trying to fight for a visa especially if its not meant to be.

well wheather you care for all that I wrote or not, that is not my point, my point here is that everybody cope with situations differently and everybody's life is.different and everybody got their own system in life and its up to them what they.choose and not for anybody to tell them what is right for them or judge their descions or actions especially when they dont know the complete detail of that person's life, because everybody knows what is right for their own life.

god bless you in your journey and hope things go fastet for you and for your hard work and struggle.

[Darnell 8,478]

I suggest you not withdraw anything at NVC, go to your husband, and wait it out over there, with him.

[sunshine1102 10]

I just want to thank you all for the.comforting replies and suggestions. god bless you all on your visas and processings, hopefully everything go smooth for all of you guys that are.waiting, especially long waits.

[Nsempa 2]

Lady, it is what it is. If the reason, the sole reason is the processing time that is causing you to cancel please reconsider.

There is probably more to it than meets the eye. Why give up when you are so close to the end?

[lierre 224]

Don't give it up. Is there any other problem aside from NVC?

[Allymash 7]

dont give up! I know you have been apart for a year but you are so close. I wish you and your husband the best♡

[himher 634]

yea my case been completed on the date I have on my signature 07/22, but this whole time no interview and I called nvc and the lady told me my husband wont even.have an intetview for november, and ive been away from my husband a year I left him in october of last year to come here and start things, and I havent seen him since, and you would think well go see him, well the tickets are.not that cheap and.we are.definitly not that rich or have the financial ability to do so like others. so im not going to hange around here for another 3 or 4 months waiting to just get an interview and then possibly another 10 months if my husband ends up in AP after the interview, so im not going to. waist our live waiting for this, the immigration system in this country sucks and not worth dealing with, I wish I wouldve known!!!

After 6 years of marriage and two little ones I will just quietly tell you this: It seems so dam hard and impossible to overcome when it's in front of you and you are apart. A few years from now though you will laugh about it (if you even remember it).

Whatever you decide good luck.

[QueenE 173]

I hope you listen to everyone else, and practice more patience. I don't know if you truly understand how close you guys are. The wait you have done so far would have been such a waste! I think you are frustrated with this country and on top of that not being with your husband. But there is a reason you both choose to go through the process originally instead of just staying in Egypt in the first place. A lot of people here have had to wait over a year without seeing their loved one, when I was going through my journey I was pregnant and wanted to quit everything and just move to Nigeria to be with my husband so he can be there to see the birth of our first child. I did calm down and used every last strength in me to continue, especially for the sake of our child ( she will have more options as an American Citizen). Our process took 9 months, and we are now waiting for AOS ( which is another long wait). I would suggest maybe trying to focus your energy in figuring out ways to increase your income or taking small steps to starting a career. This will keep you distracted to keep on going. I understand with the income, the state of this country right now, and being away from your hubby is beyond frustrating but please reconsider other options. Think about children you will in the future and the options they will have available to them. Good Luck and may you find peace.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

I hope you listen to everyone else, and practice more patience. I don't know if you truly understand how close you guys are. The wait you have done so far would have been such a waste! I think you are frustrated with this country and on top of that not being with your husband. But there is a reason you both choose to go through the process originally instead of just staying in Egypt in the first place. A lot of people here have had to wait over a year without seeing their loved one, when I was going through my journey I was pregnant and wanted to quit everything and just move to Nigeria to be with my husband so he can be there to see the birth of our first child. I did calm down and used every last strength in me to continue, especially for the sake of our child ( she will have more options as an American Citizen). Our process took 9 months, and we are now waiting for AOS ( which is another long wait). I would suggest maybe trying to focus your energy in figuring out ways to increase your income or taking small steps to starting a career. This will keep you distracted to keep on going. I understand with the income, the state of this country right now, and being away from your hubby is beyond frustrating but please reconsider other options. Think about children you will in the future and the options they will have available to them. Good Luck and may you find peace.

But Madam, the little one will always be a USC regardless where shes born.

In any case you may be trying to avoid the whole "birther" issue when it comes to becoming a President.