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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Egypt
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My dear husband, oh lawd! He has always talked about his lifelong dream of getting a tattoo. I have 2, so that inspires him more to get one.

But, he is scared! Very fearful of getting one!

I have even offered to get a third one with him. He laughs about it, somewhat embarrassed he's scared of it. Then he says "we will see." Then, he sees my brother, my sister-in-law, my younger sister all with tattoos. He feels outta place! My parents encourage him with designs. Then his fear overtakes him.

Any suggestions to help him overcome his fear?

Edited by NY_BX

Don't ever do anything you're not willing to explain the paramedics.

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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maybe it is just not his personality.


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03/02/15 - Received NOA2 with approval dated 02/25/15.

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Let him start with something small on a part of the body that won't hurt as much.

I wouldn't suggest letting him see or hear someone getting their tat done though because this has been known to scare people even more lol.... but start him off with something small...

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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looks like he doesn't really want it, otherwise he would't be making a big deal. my advice, leave it alone. I always ask people who ask me about tattoos that unless you're 100% sure you want it and can't wait to get it, don't get it.




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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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"Family time is very precious and you should cherish every moment of it."

01/20/12 - I-130 sent to Chicago Lockbox.

01/26/12 - NOA1 received and processing at Vermont.

06/28/12 - NOA2 announced on status check.

06/29/12 - NVC received case learned on 07/2/12.

06/30/12 - Hard copy NOA2 received.

07/09/12 - NVC Casefile Number and IIN Issued.

07/16/12 - Receive and Sent DS-3032 via email.

07/17/12 - Mailed DS-3032 via mail, AOS bill received via email, paid online, Optin email sent.

07/18/12 - Optin accepted and new case number, AOS marked paid, emailed AOS packet.

07/24/12 - Assigned as Agent, IV Fee bill received via email, paid online.

07/25/12 - IV Fee marked paid, emailed IV packet.

07/31/12 - Emailed GZO Supplemental Packet 3.

08/02/12 - Case completed and commenced final review.

08/03/12 - Shipped all copies of forms/letters/documents to my wife - arriving on 8/9/12.

08/06/12 - Case completed final review.

08/09/12 - Appointment letter received via email interview date set 9/6/12.

08/14/12 - Medical exam done.

08/15/12 - Medical exam results all normal.

09/06/12 - Submitted required documents at the embassy and interview set next day at 0730.

09/07/12 - Visa approved, click here for review http://www.visajourney.com/reviews/view-dos-cis-reviews.php?entry=10401 .

09/14/12 - Visa received on hand!

10/07/12 - Arrived at NYC! click here for review http://www.visajourney.com/reviews/view-poe-reviews.php?entry=15293

10/20/12 - Received welcome letter from USCIS.

10/25/12 - Green Card received!

"Nothing is more difficult than the art of maneuvering for advantageous positions." - Sun-Tzu

04/27/13 - Submitted DS-160 online for parent-in-laws and sister-in-law.

05/01/13 - Paid DS-160 or MRV Fee Payments on CGI Stanley.

05/03/13 - Made appointment for 05/16/13 on CGI Stanley.

05/16/13 - Arrived at GUZ and impromptu notice on the front it was closed.

05/30/13 - B2 visa interview passed! Read review here http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/433263-b2-visa-was-approved-for-parentinlaw/ <p>

"Good ideas are not adopted automatically. They must be driven into practice with courageous patience." - ADM Hyman G. Rickover

08/08/14 - Mailed I-175 application.

08/11/14 - I-175 arrived at VSC.

08/18/14 - Received NOA1 with date 08/12/14.

08/27/14 - Received biometrics appointment for 09/09/14.

02/27/15 - GC in production from email notification.

03/02/15 - Received NOA2 with approval dated 02/25/15.

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Any suggestions to help him overcome his fear?

does he really want one? tell him to get a dot on his shoulder the next time one of your family members gets a new tattoo. noone will see it and he can feel the needle. then he can decide if he really wants to get a design done.

where is your avatar from? i know a lady that just got that tattooed on her calf.


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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: Australia
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In my opinion, he will get it when he is ready. He may not have found the design he wants yet. i have multiple, including a full back piece that took 49hours to complete over 6 months, I was on a waiting list for my artist for 2.5 years before it started. It hurt like nothing in this world, and it wasn't my first, I had my ribs done and a couple of smaller ones. (I'm in the process of getting the 2 smaller ones removed by laser, one i don't like, and the other my tattooist has said it ruins his back piece design haha)

The point is, its a personal commitment. a person needs to be sure they are ready. It can't be encouraged.

p.s or you could just tell him to suck it up. :P

Edited by SweetDelish

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Ecuador
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Pictures or none of the above ever happened, no man.

I have elephant ears tattooed on the inside of my thighs.
:rofl:, si man. Edited by TBoneTX

06-04-2007 = TSC stamps postal return-receipt for I-129f.

06-11-2007 = NOA1 date (unknown to me).

07-20-2007 = Phoned Immigration Officer; got WAC#; where's NOA1?

09-25-2007 = Touch (first-ever).

09-28-2007 = NOA1, 23 days after their 45-day promise to send it (grrrr).

10-20 & 11-14-2007 = Phoned ImmOffs; "still pending."

12-11-2007 = 180 days; file is "between workstations, may be early Jan."; touches 12/11 & 12/12.

12-18-2007 = Call; file is with Division 9 ofcr. (bckgrnd check); e-prompt to shake it; touch.

12-19-2007 = NOA2 by e-mail & web, dated 12-18-07 (187 days; 201 per VJ); in mail 12/24/07.

01-09-2008 = File from USCIS to NVC, 1-4-08; NVC creates file, 1/15/08; to consulate 1/16/08.

01-23-2008 = Consulate gets file; outdated Packet 4 mailed to fiancee 1/27/08; rec'd 3/3/08.

04-29-2008 = Fiancee's 4-min. consular interview, 8:30 a.m.; much evidence brought but not allowed to be presented (consul: "More proof! Second interview! Bring your fiance!").

05-05-2008 = Infuriating $12 call to non-English-speaking consulate appointment-setter.

05-06-2008 = Better $12 call to English-speaker; "joint" interview date 6/30/08 (my selection).

06-30-2008 = Stokes Interrogations w/Ecuadorian (not USC); "wait 2 weeks; we'll mail her."

07-2008 = Daily calls to DOS: "currently processing"; 8/05 = Phoned consulate, got Section Chief; wrote him.

08-07-08 = E-mail from consulate, promising to issue visa "as soon as we get her passport" (on 8/12, per DHL).

08-27-08 = Phoned consulate (they "couldn't find" our file); visa DHL'd 8/28; in hand 9/1; through POE on 10/9 with NO hassles(!).

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