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thank you i already calle immigration and they transfered me to a lawyer but they cant do nothing because he is already a citizen and that is now for the cops not them i asked if it be posible to put a stop to his passport untill the 30th or so after our hearing but they said no so im with nothing but the cops and they cant attend me because they are in a metting of some sort they dont have not one individual to help me , he is hidding behind this so called friend the one who told him to do all this and wount show his face, at work they gave mew the rest of the month free untill my hearing i find all this absurd if he just had the guts to tell me its over that would be it but why wait untill the 30th for the unevitable i love him but after this i dont think i can be with him anymore doesnt mean we can resolved this before then

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Oct 29 2004 Met on LDSPLANET

Oct 30 2004 First phone call....EVERY DAY till this day

Dec 25 2004 I asked him to MARRY me and he said Yes

March 19 2005 took out my passport now i need to wait

April 19 2005 I GOT MY PASSPORT !!!!

April 21 2005 NENNE booked his flight he get here on June 29th YES!!!!

May 9 2005 I-130 Packet and Packet 3 are being sent off to us !!!

May 15 2005 Recived packet 1-3

June 29 2005 Nenne arrived in Puerto Rico

July 2 2005 GOT MARRIEDbadassbuddy_com-inlove2.gif

July 11 2005 Got our Marriage Certificate

Leaving August 17th to Australia and file for DCF !!!

July 19 2005 Got interview date on Sept. 6

August 17th Got to AUSTRALIA !!!

SEPTEMBER 6 DCF (CR1)WE GOT APPROVED !!!!

September 9 2005 Recived VISA in mail

November 24 2005 Nennes POE GUAM

November 26 2005 Arrived in Puerto Rico

Married for 3 years and counting

September 10 2007 sending off the I-571

Sept 2007 sent forms Aug 2008 got 10 yr Green Card

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just got a hold of my lawyer and they cant do anythgin because they order was already in effect and i cant get any of my stuff until the 30th if then .... if he hasnt left the country or whatever

cops NO GOOD lawyer NO GOOD ( no offense to anyone)

i cant make an order againt him cause he when to the judge and gave his side and until then i cant do anything we have to both go and state our case and he decides if its droped or if one get to go to jail for a while with no bond

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Oct 29 2004 Met on LDSPLANET

Oct 30 2004 First phone call....EVERY DAY till this day

Dec 25 2004 I asked him to MARRY me and he said Yes

March 19 2005 took out my passport now i need to wait

April 19 2005 I GOT MY PASSPORT !!!!

April 21 2005 NENNE booked his flight he get here on June 29th YES!!!!

May 9 2005 I-130 Packet and Packet 3 are being sent off to us !!!

May 15 2005 Recived packet 1-3

June 29 2005 Nenne arrived in Puerto Rico

July 2 2005 GOT MARRIEDbadassbuddy_com-inlove2.gif

July 11 2005 Got our Marriage Certificate

Leaving August 17th to Australia and file for DCF !!!

July 19 2005 Got interview date on Sept. 6

August 17th Got to AUSTRALIA !!!

SEPTEMBER 6 DCF (CR1)WE GOT APPROVED !!!!

September 9 2005 Recived VISA in mail

November 24 2005 Nennes POE GUAM

November 26 2005 Arrived in Puerto Rico

Married for 3 years and counting

September 10 2007 sending off the I-571

Sept 2007 sent forms Aug 2008 got 10 yr Green Card

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actually yes his name on here is Aussielad

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Oct 29 2004 Met on LDSPLANET

Oct 30 2004 First phone call....EVERY DAY till this day

Dec 25 2004 I asked him to MARRY me and he said Yes

March 19 2005 took out my passport now i need to wait

April 19 2005 I GOT MY PASSPORT !!!!

April 21 2005 NENNE booked his flight he get here on June 29th YES!!!!

May 9 2005 I-130 Packet and Packet 3 are being sent off to us !!!

May 15 2005 Recived packet 1-3

June 29 2005 Nenne arrived in Puerto Rico

July 2 2005 GOT MARRIEDbadassbuddy_com-inlove2.gif

July 11 2005 Got our Marriage Certificate

Leaving August 17th to Australia and file for DCF !!!

July 19 2005 Got interview date on Sept. 6

August 17th Got to AUSTRALIA !!!

SEPTEMBER 6 DCF (CR1)WE GOT APPROVED !!!!

September 9 2005 Recived VISA in mail

November 24 2005 Nennes POE GUAM

November 26 2005 Arrived in Puerto Rico

Married for 3 years and counting

September 10 2007 sending off the I-571

Sept 2007 sent forms Aug 2008 got 10 yr Green Card

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actually yes his name on here is Aussielad

I got that from your first post. I guess it just surprises me a little that you decided to put this all out there on this forum - but, to each his own!

Good luck to you - hope things get resolved soon.

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Filed: Country: England
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I remember you both from when I was here last time going through the process and sorry to hear that things have not worked out.

Keep strong and don't let the buggars get you down!

Pauline :blink:

My NEW UK Website!!!

[/b]K1 Visa Timeline. USA - England. Through VSC[/b][/b][/u]

30th Dec - Sent I-129F to Vermont

31th Dec - Vermont Received Package

8th Jan - NOA1

16th Jan - NOA2 (8 days)

23rd Jan - NVC receives file

28th Jan - NVC sends petition on to London

02 Feb - London received petition

09 Feb - Packet 3 received from Embassy in London

11 Feb - Package 3 returned to London Embassy (Holds breath now)

4th Mar - INTERVIEW DATE!! - VISA APPROVED!!!!!!

8th Mar - Flight booked to Newark NJ

8th Mar - ARRIVED IN MY BABES ARMS!!!!

10th Apr - MARRIED at Niagra Falls (USA Side)

26 Apri - Received Social Security Number

23rd Apr - Posted AOS and EAD

14 May - NOA for AOS (online 11 May) (and rejection for EAD (forgot to tick a box))!

17th May - sent EAD back

7th Jun - NOA1 for EAD

25 Jun - (AOS & EAD) Fingerprints and bio's at Philly

8th Jul - E-Filed for AP - NOA1 given 3 hours later

4th Aug - RFE for AP (via e-mail) documents lost!

6th Aug - RFE for AP via e-mail

9th Aug - Resent AP with new documents

16th Aug - NOA1 for AP received by post

24th Aug - AP APPROVED (via e-mail)

2nd Sep - AP arrives in mail!

10th Sep - EAD transferred to Vermont

16th Sep - Received NOA1 transfer to Vermont

20th Oct - DENIED EAD! :( entered wrong code -20th May - AOS Interview Date - NOT going. 28th June - GOING HOME TO UK

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Everyone seems to understand OP's life story from start to finish. I don't get it at all. Either way this is her side of the story and it makes me wonder why it all got sooo Jerry Springerish. I am also not sold to the allegations that he's doing it only for the visa. I think this is a classic case of online-dating-mismatch-gone-too-far. I hope you both sort this out and leave each other alone for good. Perhaps take all the he said-she said stuff out of this forum since you and Mr. Aussie are the only ones who know the real issue. We can't do much here and frankly, I hate oscar endings. You both worked and persevered to be together finally and to end the story like this and not being able to part amicably is just too sad.

I wish you a peace of mind.

-LB

- LB

Stay tune for yet another immi-saga in the life of LB & JD. Coming soon ---> AOS Chronicles

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the reason why i put it on here its cause i need some advice cause i cant ask some one who hasnt married some one from another country some how ppl on here know a little bit more on the rules and laws than those who havent thank you regardless i hope that if he does read this he can think more clearly on what hes doing never the less i thank you all for your support i do ask to please keep us in your prayers

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Oct 29 2004 Met on LDSPLANET

Oct 30 2004 First phone call....EVERY DAY till this day

Dec 25 2004 I asked him to MARRY me and he said Yes

March 19 2005 took out my passport now i need to wait

April 19 2005 I GOT MY PASSPORT !!!!

April 21 2005 NENNE booked his flight he get here on June 29th YES!!!!

May 9 2005 I-130 Packet and Packet 3 are being sent off to us !!!

May 15 2005 Recived packet 1-3

June 29 2005 Nenne arrived in Puerto Rico

July 2 2005 GOT MARRIEDbadassbuddy_com-inlove2.gif

July 11 2005 Got our Marriage Certificate

Leaving August 17th to Australia and file for DCF !!!

July 19 2005 Got interview date on Sept. 6

August 17th Got to AUSTRALIA !!!

SEPTEMBER 6 DCF (CR1)WE GOT APPROVED !!!!

September 9 2005 Recived VISA in mail

November 24 2005 Nennes POE GUAM

November 26 2005 Arrived in Puerto Rico

Married for 3 years and counting

September 10 2007 sending off the I-571

Sept 2007 sent forms Aug 2008 got 10 yr Green Card

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If you are a USC, and it appears from aussielad's timeline that he is as well - I'm not sure what laws this forum can help you with moreso than any other. There certainly won't be any immigration issues at play if you are both US citizens.

Regardless, if people here provide you some help and comfort, then I suppose it is worth it.

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This is so sad. Good luck to you.

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2007.02.28........................We Met :)

2007.03.03........................Official-ness

2007.07.............................Engagement

2008.08.18........................Married :)

2009.09.10....................................Turn in I-130

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You'll do OK if you just try to avoid contacting him directly or indirectly. Let your lawyer do that with registered mail, etc., if there is anything to be gained by communicating with him. Based on everything you write, the return of your personal property is up to him -- after all, when you marry your property belongs to you both.

If you have a pastor or priest to talk this over with, all the better. Someone to keep in touch with as the story unfolds the next three weeks.

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This is the second case I've read about on VJ in the last 3 weeks that involves a foreign-born male spouse walking out on his USC wife abruptly. Both shared one common parameter...that the USC (wife) was the one to propose marriage in the first place. Call me old-fashioned, but I'd recommend next time to wait for the guy to do the proposing. Not that it changes anything, necessarily, but it just might alter his perception (erroneously, perhaps) of just what a commitment to marriage should be.

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You can 'catch' me on here and on FBI.

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This is the second case I've read about on VJ in the last 3 weeks that involves a foreign-born male spouse walking out on his USC wife abruptly. Both shared one common parameter...that the USC (wife) was the one to propose marriage in the first place. Call me old-fashioned, but I'd recommend next time to wait for the guy to do the proposing. Not that it changes anything, necessarily, but it just might alter his perception (erroneously, perhaps) of just what a commitment to marriage should be.

I've seen just as many situations where the USC was a male and she walked out...

"Every one of us bears within himself the possibilty of all passions, all destinies of life in all its forms. Nothing human is foreign to us" - Edward G. Robinson.

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