hes gones hes actually gone

[NArocks 13]

Yeah what happened? I hope she's not in Jail that would blow

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

hello everyone IM NOT IN JAIL !!!!!!

the night before i couldnt sleep i had to take come pills to do so, i havent eaten properly but im glad things are kinda looking better for now

i whent to court the cop assinged to the case called me in said this was more a civil dispute and he thinks it can be worked out, later my lawyer whent in and we talked about it again

came out and he was already there he did look sad i dont know if it was because he was by himself or he was angry dont know, they called him in and he talked then they called out my lawyer and he reckens he does wanna be with me, he only has eyes for me he wants this over and done with as much as i do i dont know if he wants a divorce or what.

he told the cop that he was somewhat offended because i had posted something on the internet about our problem wich would be this. the reason why i did it was to see if anyone was going through the same thing and how they had coped with it.

he droped the charges , i didnt git my pic taken (mug shot) finger prints nothing (thank god) apparently i have to get some type of anger managment (wich i will) , he still says he wants his papers , papers that i dont have i also want my stuff back.

if he does read this we had both talked about it about the posibility of there those papers could be and we dont know but if he still says i have them well thats his problem.

will keep you all poested whta happens

[NArocks 13]

Whew thank goodness we was worried as to what happened to you. Hope you find those darn papers and get your stuff back so you can move on

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

thank you at least i can breath better and feel better sleep better , i do hope he get inner peace with everything that has happened

he said that he didnt want to do it but hi boss told him if he didnt do it he was gonna do it for him that is hes argument just hope things get better from this point

[meauxna 15]

thank you at least i can breath better and feel better sleep better , i do hope he get inner peace with everything that has happened

he said that he didnt want to do it but hi boss told him if he didnt do it he was gonna do it for him that is hes argument just hope things get better from this point

Yali & Brett, I'm sorry to barge in after being out of touch for so long but you two are people I'veconnected with in real life. I have to tell you both I am shocked.

Others: I understand about all the armchair quarterbacking that goes on here, but there is more to this couple's story than even first meets the eye. It's a good reminder to ME that we never know the real story and we should probably always assume that there is more than what is posted.

Y & B, really. If it's over it's over (and I am still shocked) so leave each other alone and why aren't either of you seeking help from your ministry. I know it's important to you, maybe it's time to get back to roots.

You've both got my email. Take care of yourselves and there is nothing that justifies this nonsense.

xxmo

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

i know its a shock i can tell you that i dont want this over we have had arrguments in the past like every one else hes the one that left i havent had any contat and trust me i would love to but hes the one doing all this horrible harm other than that why wont he tell me what he wants he never dose and now this, if he did care he wouldnt have been taking his stuff little bit little like a freaking rat but he did ans hurted me as well as my family

[TracyTN 237]

This is sort of why I questioned airing all of it here - didn't see how it could help you, esp. as he is obviously reading it too. Might be time to step away from the keyboard and do what you have to do.

[almaty 19]

sister tracy is spot on...ms butterfly..know you are hurting but airing it here will not get any solutions for you at all..but probably complicate the situation

[Madame-Butterfly 0]

yesterday he called my baby sister asking her if i could send him some money so he could buy food, it does hurt to know that he might not be eating well but it bugs me that to him im a bad person when he wants me to be to take me to court and almost get sent to jail im bad but now that he needs me he has violated therestraning order by getting in contact so i really dont understand him

[diadromous mermaid 36]

But he didn't contact you, he spoke with your sister who then relayed a message. I don't believe that would be construed as a violation of the order.

yesterday he called my baby sister asking her if i could send him some money so he could buy food, it does hurt to know that he might not be eating well but it bugs me that to him im a bad person when he wants me to be to take me to court and almost get sent to jail im bad but now that he needs me he has violated therestraning order by getting in contact so i really dont understand him

[Kathryn41 3,205]

I thought he had a job. . . his "Boss" told him to pursue the course of action that he did. If he has money problems maybe he should be asking his boss for an advance in his paycheque. Actually, I find it appalling that his boss took it upon himself to give that advice rather than suggesting that if you have problems to seek counseling. The fact that his boss was willing to escalate things on his own is definitely out of line. You don't need unqualified outsiders interfering with your marriage - that may be part of the problem.

[meowmeowmeow 0]

omg that sucks.......call a lawyer right away! and the police to ask for advice....so sorry to hear...what a pig!

[Sprailenes 47]

Sounds like you guys had a bit of a volatile relationship.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Inappropriate comments have been removed.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

and more inappropriate comments have been removed and administrative action taken.