Is it just the distance, or is it something more...

[Uncle O 2]

am not trying to take her friends away from her !! i do respect yo all ! but not nice to share this on here . thats all

its Priavacy things .

[sara535 15]

I now call to order the MENA Insomniac Club. Roll call----------Julianna? Sara? Ash? Angel?

Ya know, a year ago my Jordanian ex came on here typing #### too. Kristen, I know how you will feel when you read this.

If you really care about her, don't try to take away her friends and her support.

Jackie

here!

[Uncle O 2]

Just i need everyone knows that i do LOVE her so much and i do respect and Trust of her always ! If i dont respect or trust of her then why i Do still Care about her and want to spend the rest of my life with her .

[AngelK96 0]

I can remember a time a zillion years ago my husband or fiance at the time would get jealous. At first it was cute than it got annoying so then I start doing the same thing to him. Stop that really fast. Anyways hope everything works out as it should for you two.

[~Jackie~ 30]

We get it ...it's private. You probably think we have NO business to know about you. But if you are going to live in America, you better get used to this open communication. This is not Jordan.

Jackie

Insomniac Club President (self appointed)

[Uncle O 2]

Well its ok lets disscuse this on Here . No problems with me really . Just I do remember , she told me THAT IF WE HAVE PROBLEM SOMEDAY i wish we dont get pplz or friends involve . this point annoying me really . thats all .

But i am ready to disscusee anything with you and with everyone on Here .

[lion_lioness 0]

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[Tunisia216 2]

We get it ...it's private. You probably think we have NO business to know about you. But if you are going to live in America, you better get used to this open communication. This is not Jordan.

Jackie

Insomniac Club President (self appointed)

[Uncle O 2]

Just Jackie ... yeah want to knwo stuff about me ? want me to talk about it ? Its ok ask me nd i would like to answer all your Questions

[~Jackie~ 30]

angel i stole your debka video for my myspace page! I want to go to amman today!

Oh honey I don't need to know anything about you. Really. I have my own to figure out..lol. Good luck to the both of you.

[AngelK96 0]

Just Jackie ... yeah want to knwo stuff about me ? want me to talk about it ? Its ok ask me nd i would like to answer all your Questions

lol oh no!

[Uncle O 2]

HAHAHA Dabkah , i like it and Hey thank you very much .

[merijan 0]

I DONT KNOW . I MAY CALL THIS DRAMA REALLY .

ITS SO NICE TO HELP PEOPLES OUT AND ALL THAT AND GIVES ADVICES . but not like this way .

its Privacy stuff , me and my girl can work it out between us . but not on here !!!

I DO RESPECT YA`LL PROPLES ! AND RESPECT YOUR IDEAS AND OPINIONS !

Well , there are no real personal details about your problems. However, she was looking for some advice. I think many people tried to get her to evaluate her decision. And some shared thier own experiences with living a life with a man who is accuseing you all the time of things you have never done. Your right we dont know all the details. And I think there are many things all women who have been married to Arabs share, and expecially those American women married to Arabs. Cutlural things are rooted deeply in all Arab men no matter how "Modern and westernized " they think they are. I for one can tell you that its hell if your husband acuses you of things you would never do and it can lead to humliation, and degrading things. My ex put me through that. Some things are misunderstandings, and some are personality traits that will never change and can even become abusive. So she may want to consider all things before deciding. Marriage should not be hell , it should not be constant termoil.

Your spouse should be your best friend, confidant, and your pride, respect is the most important part of marriage.

May Allah guide you both.

[Nasturtium 500]

LoL Ahhh, my hot pics.... :devil: I filed them away for future use LOL But only if absolutely necessary.... haha

wait there is a picture of me getting kissed by an Auntie in my signature now.... Is that too hot for VJ?

It may be! Take it down! Or show more cleavage! I don't know which one to pick, what would Abdo do?

At any rate, sharing private things or anything at all between married couples is strongly prohibited within general MENA culture. At the same time, they are filing K-1 and not married. It's her business to post her business or not. It's his business to not want it discussed. i imagine she posted it here to try to get as wide of a sample as she could think of of Americans married to (or engaged to) MENA SOs as possible in hopes of finding out if his behavior was normal. Without knowing exactly what was said and how it went down and witnessing it from both sides, it's impossible to judge what was happening 100%.

ETA: in American culture, false accusations of infidelity are 100% unacceptable, and repeated accusations will almost always lead to dissolution of the relationship.

Edited August 24, 2008 by julianna

[AngelK96 0]

angel i stole your debka video for my myspace page! I want to go to amman today!

Oh honey I don't need to know anything about you. Really. I have my own to figure out..lol. Good luck to the both of you.

No problem

Aren't you still going for ramadan or at the end of ramadan? Anmar will go before me and I will go later because I changed my mind about going, so he bought his ticket already and the flight is sold out now, so now i have to fly by myself