Is it just the distance, or is it something more...

[diadromous mermaid 36]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

perhaps, but sometimes people know more than they let on. it's over, time to move on, and being on vj won't help with that process.

Spoken like a true member of the opposite sex "Move on" does not compute in the female mind as it might in many men's.

[Y's_habibitk 2]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

It would be against the TOS to post another person's contribution in a private conversation without their express consent. In this case, it appears to be only Odai's IMs.

I guess Im lost, I didnt see anything like that posted. Thanks for answering though

I just feel bad for all parties involved and it makes me pretty sad that everyone keeps this going without any compassion for the OP's feelings. Posting bits and pieces of what is "privately" known about the situation is only making matters worse IMHO.

If people dont want to read the OP's threads, dont open them.

:surely going to get attacked for this one: lol

Lisa

[Ban Hammer 12,863]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

perhaps, but sometimes people know more than they let on. it's over, time to move on, and being on vj won't help with that process.

Spoken like a true member of the opposite sex "Move on" does not compute in the female mind as it might in many men's.

maybe, but odai is a guy.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Reported (and i very rarely use that button)

jJ

Curious, for the private convo thing?

It would be against the TOS to post another person's contribution in a private conversation without their express consent. In this case, it appears to be only Odai's IMs.

I guess Im lost, I didnt see anything like that posted. Thanks for answering though

I just feel bad for all parties involved and it makes me pretty sad that everyone keeps this going without any compassion for the OP's feelings. Posting bits and pieces of what is "privately" known about the situation is only making matters worse IMHO.

If people dont want to read the OP's threads, dont open them.

:surely going to get attacked for this one: lol

Lisa

I agree with that.

[~Jackie~ 30]

copy/pasted and will forward to my husband.

It brings tears to my eyes to see you type that to me. What a low blow brother.

Odai Alhroub--check your pm. I have something to say to you.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

perhaps, but sometimes people know more than they let on. it's over, time to move on, and being on vj won't help with that process.

Spoken like a true member of the opposite sex "Move on" does not compute in the female mind as it might in many men's.

maybe, but odai is a guy.

You! He is too, but I said "many" men. Not all!

[Uncle O 2]

copy/pasted and will forward to my husband.

It brings tears to my eyes to see you type that to me. What a low blow brother.

Odai Alhroub--check your pm. I have something to say to you.

Jackie u lied about somthing ! thats why i said that ! coz the muslim doesnt say stuff not true ! right ?

so may allah forgive you .

[Ban Hammer 12,863]

yea.......bro show some respect.

Yes DM it looks to be a one-sided conversation, his IM's to her. So maybe not a violation of TOS?

jJ

i just don't get what the point of all of this is. maybe it's just me, but it's like he's trying to salvage his reputation somehow by all of this. why this is important is beyond me.

I think, and it's only from my perspective, he's trying to get a message to his SO. Perhaps all lines of other communication have been shut down! Sad. Really sad.

i'm sure she got the message. the question is, when is he going to get the message?

now off to go look up what "stalker" means.

He appears distraught, I agree. Beyond that, we can only speculate what went on. But there's an ocean between them, and from what I can see he has limited access online in his country. Everyone that has been forced to face an unpleasant ending deserves to know what occurred and what brought it to that point. It's part of accepting. I hope his SO will not ignore his plea.

perhaps, but sometimes people know more than they let on. it's over, time to move on, and being on vj won't help with that process.

Spoken like a true member of the opposite sex "Move on" does not compute in the female mind as it might in many men's.

maybe, but odai is a guy.

You! He is too, but I said "many" men. Not all!

that you did

[~Jackie~ 30]

glad i didnt say what i really wanted to say

I should have used better punctuation.

JA

[LaL 418]

This thread is now closed for violating the TOS. Thank you.