how to keep things from getting ugly

[sukie175 0]

i'm also certain that you give a hard time to every top poster each day.

Not that I ever remember - quit while you're ahead and still liked Charles

[jordanianprincess 0]

Does anyone else wish this thread would die?

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

yikes...this thread has become a bit scary

I don't think it's necessary to be annoyed at Nessa for going through old polls and adding in her votes...many people do that kind of thing when they are bored.

Yeah, it was annoying to see so many threads opened within a short time frame by one person, and that has been discussed already, but why the need to go at Charles & Nessas throats even more? People need to chill out.

i agree. too much

i've already started putting certain individuals on ignore. it looks like i'll have to continue.

[meauxna 15]

here are the pm's:

tsk, tsk, charles.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...stom&page=terms

By way of example, and not as a limitation, you agree that when using the Service, you will not:

Post any information obtained or originally transmitted in confidence or with the implied belief that the message was to be kept in confidence without the express permission of the original author of the communication. Additionally any direct communication (with the exception of publicly viewable Posts on the discussion forums) between administrators or moderators and a member are strictly prohibited from being Posted to the discussion forums or retransmitted in any way.

(that's PMs)

Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying the Forums.

Really, bud. Pick your battles! It's all no harm no foul.

[almaty 19]

wow, this thread needs to go away...it is like whipping a dead horse

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

here are the pm's:

tsk, tsk, charles.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.ph...stom&page=terms

By way of example, and not as a limitation, you agree that when using the Service, you will not:

Post any information obtained or originally transmitted in confidence or with the implied belief that the message was to be kept in confidence without the express permission of the original author of the communication. Additionally any direct communication (with the exception of publicly viewable Posts on the discussion forums) between administrators or moderators and a member are strictly prohibited from being Posted to the discussion forums or retransmitted in any way.

(that's PMs)

Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying the Forums.

Really, bud. Pick your battles! It's all no harm no foul.

you missed the point. said person was saying one thing in the thread, and something else in pm. if ewok takes offense to such i'll take my lumps for it.

while you're on a crusade, go after certain others for this one. nessa was given a hard time for old polls. and i'm given grief for posting 15 freaking jokes. so what!

- Restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying the Forums.

i'm having a difficult time believing that this is not a plan to have her and i banned by others.

[sukie175 0]

You know what, I have never even considered putting anyone on 'Ignore' it just means you miss out and we all have different opinions! Ok if someone got very racist, I might but not just because others have politely asked you to be more choosy and circumspect in what I post.

In your shoes I would be pretty mortified to even have to be given this advice!

Edited to add............LMAO I think most of us have more to do than try to get other members banned!

Edited May 8, 2006 by sukie175

[Jenn! 918]

I guess I totally missed what the big deal is here....

yawn

[Dixie_Peach 1]

Does anyone else wish this thread would die?

MEEEEEEEEE!!! i hate to see everybody fighting on VJ...

[almaty 19]

i have never put anyone on ignore either..see it as a sign a person may be too weak to deal with another's viewpoints or statements..no reflection on anyone..a generalized opinion

I guess I totally missed what the big deal is here....

yawn

welcome to the club and vj sister

[Sister Fracas 5]

[ceriserose 1]

I'd only give this a 6 out of 10 for a really good flame.

I need to find more time to get back on here. LOL

[Captain Ewok 1,857]

Please do not post PM's from others. Is there anyway the people in this therad can come to an agreement and relax some? Like I have suggested in the past, we have an ignore feature to block PM's from other members and to also, if you want, not show their posts on the board.

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

was not aware at the time such was forbidden. the reason such was done is i greatly dislike it when someone paints a picture in the thread and what is said in the pm is different, as shown above.

i have blocked certain members who started this bloodbath and will add to that list. i'd also appreciate it if you'd lock this thread in hopes that it dies.

i had no idea that posting jokes for entertainment would annoy some. my apologies for such.

[Jenn! 918]

was not aware at the time such was forbidden. the reason such was done is i greatly dislike it when someone paints a picture in the thread and what is said in the pm is different, as shown above.

i have blocked certain members who started this bloodbath and will add to that list. i'd also appreciate it if you'd lock this thread in hopes that it dies.

i had no idea that posting jokes for entertainment would annoy some. my apologies for such.

Apology accepted. Ok, can you go post some more jokes now to lighten the mood?