how to keep things from getting ugly

[Ban Hammer 12,836]

This is the "hostile" PM. If you find the hostility, please point it out to me.

Is it really necessary to post a million jokes in their own threads? It's really annoying.

It's all about the way you talk about it. I can see why he found it hostile, and why you don't see a problem

Oh come on----Charles-you were in the military for 20 years ! ( I think thats what i remember you saying) You call this hostile????? I know you heard FAR FAR worse ( and to your face not on line) there! I know your skin is thicker than taking "umbrance" at a PM!

Before you bash me-I was in the military too.....I heard worse hostility than this in the chow hall-never mind anywhere else( the field)!

I didn't see anything hostile in that PM.

I IS annoying. Sorry-but it is-and I think you know it is!

"You should have the common sense not to spam the boards with shite jokes in like 50 bazillion threads, then take a huff when people say summat about it. You don't like that? Sorry!"--LisaD

I know you have heard worse than what the others have said or what I am saying now--before-don't be insulted.

It's just she is right-it's annoying!

respectfully and thanks for serving in the military-(I am sure thats what you said once)!

M(tmma)

i didn't like the tone of it. but it's resolved now. and i reserve the right to slam dunk anyone else who is terminally annoying in the ignore bin with her.

[scooby 0]

Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

M.

maybe she did realize that. Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings.

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

Kool!!! Tha'ts good to hear, because some of us like to have fun and lighten things up. It's not meant to be malicious!

Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?!

I'm so confused!

it's called hijacking

Ahhhh ... I see!!! I've never seen a thread hijacked before!!!

It's a new VJ experience for me!!! WooHoo!!! :joy:

you are not a vj veteran until you hijacked a couple of threads

[chri'stina 190]

Well, I never really thought about that aspect to be honest, but I can see your point in that too. Again, I'm guilty as well tho. I would hope she knew, due to comments made right on the thread tho, that it really didn't mean anything against her, or any wishes to offend her.

M.

maybe she did realize that. Or she could have been too embarassed to say how she really feels. Anyway...you are a sweetheart and I know you wouldn't do anything on purpose to hurt anyone's feelings.

I had a convo with her thro' PM a while back...about the thread...she didn't didn't seem upset about it just surprized how it had taken on a life of it's own....

Kool!!! Tha'ts good to hear, because some of us like to have fun and lighten things up. It's not meant to be malicious!

Why are you guys talking about that thread on this thread?!

I'm so confused!

it's called hijacking

Ahhhh ... I see!!! I've never seen a thread hijacked before!!!

It's a new VJ experience for me!!! WooHoo!!! :joy:

you are not a vj veteran until you hijacked a couple of threads

did you get tired of your old screen name dean?

[canadalaura 0]

Wait... was I just called terminally annoying?

[Fandango 1,439]

i didn't like the tone of it. but it's resolved now. and i reserve the right to slam dunk anyone else who is terminally annoying in the ignore bin with her.

Of course you have the right to ignore people, that's not being challenged...I'm just suprised you'd use it for someone saying 'that's annoying' God, that sounds like such pissing contest bravado here, I'm sorry to say....but seriously she's on ignore? Things are that unyielding for you? Actually you should have appreciated her discretion for trying to tell you privately.

omG

Hell...am I on ignore too? Maybe I am. *shrug*

Edited May 8, 2006 by LisaD

[Ban Hammer 12,836]

i didn't like the tone of it. but it's resolved now. and i reserve the right to slam dunk anyone else who is terminally annoying in the ignore bin with her.

Of course you have the right to ignore people, that's not being challenged...I'm just suprised you'd use it for someone saying 'that's annoying' God, that sounds like such pissing contest bravado here, I'm sorry to say....but seriously she's on ignore? Things are that unyielding for you? Actually you should have appreciated her discretion for trying to tell you privately.

omG

Hell...am I on ignore too? Maybe I am. *shrug*

not yet. would you like to be?

[canadalaura 0]

I have never even taked to this person and I am terminally annoying???

Pot... meet kettle. sheesh.

[Leafgal 3]

Wait... was I just called terminally annoying?

You can't be cause of the Canadian thing, we aren't annoying at all ha ha ha.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Umm...I think he said he would stop posting jokes on different threads. Whats the deal with the drama?

[MrMrsKnight 0]

did you get tired of your old screen name dean?

Seriously..... is that him?? The first time I saw that new member I thought it was just him being silly!!!

[Fandango 1,439]

i didn't like the tone of it. but it's resolved now. and i reserve the right to slam dunk anyone else who is terminally annoying in the ignore bin with her.

Of course you have the right to ignore people, that's not being challenged...I'm just suprised you'd use it for someone saying 'that's annoying' God, that sounds like such pissing contest bravado here, I'm sorry to say....but seriously she's on ignore? Things are that unyielding for you? Actually you should have appreciated her discretion for trying to tell you privately.

omG

Hell...am I on ignore too? Maybe I am. *shrug*

not yet. would you like to be?

Hah!

Fill your boots Charles, i'm really not bothered *shrug* Coud you MAKE a bigger deal over this?...sheesh

'Prince' Charles in the house...don't say a disparaging word, he only likes sunshine blown up his butt.

GROW UP!

[chri'stina 190]

did you get tired of your old screen name dean?

Seriously..... is that him?? The first time I saw that new member I thought it was just him being silly!!!

i believe it is

[*Robert* 2]

I have never even taked to this person and I am terminally annoying???

Pot... meet kettle. sheesh.

Somebody got up on the wrong side of the bed this morning!!! (and I don't mean you laura!)

[Ban Hammer 12,836]

Umm...I think he said he would stop posting jokes on different threads. Whats the deal with the drama?

a very good question.

i didn't like the tone of it. but it's resolved now. and i reserve the right to slam dunk anyone else who is terminally annoying in the ignore bin with her.

Of course you have the right to ignore people, that's not being challenged...I'm just suprised you'd use it for someone saying 'that's annoying' God, that sounds like such pissing contest bravado here, I'm sorry to say....but seriously she's on ignore? Things are that unyielding for you? Actually you should have appreciated her discretion for trying to tell you privately.

omG

Hell...am I on ignore too? Maybe I am. *shrug*

not yet. would you like to be?

Hah!

Fill your boots Charles, i'm really not bothered *shrug* Coud you MAKE a bigger deal over this?...sheesh

'Prince' Charles in the house...don't say a disparaging word, he only likes sunshine blown up his butt.

GROW UP!

i'm not the one posting on and on about this. and you are telling me to grow up?

[w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r 123]

Hell...am I on ignore too? Maybe I am. *shrug*

not yet. would you like to be?

He's got an ignore button and he ain't afraid to use it!