April 2015 Support and Rant Thread

[Ketsuban 1,034]

Thank you my angel, I'm trying but I have my some what good and bad days. But I'm doing my best and wont give up. That's what they want us to do to give up and walk away from our loved ones but its not going to happen. Thank you for your prayers you are in mine every day with out fail. Much love and hugs.

Hahaha join the mush brains thank to this process and it doesn't get any better. , just keep calling , praying they do the right thing by you.

I was praying you had your interview by now and it should be first come first serve it would only be fair, but nothing in this process is fair. It seems they pick a person to hold back at every bump in the road. And no it's not easy to be truly happy when people get through in 17 to 30 days and your stuck watching everyone go on their merry way. We are only human and no one like to be picked last!

Congratulations to your wife and it's not your fault your not there it's Immigrations, you will be there for the next one.

Hang in there your close just keep calling don't leave it up to them, let them know your still around, your in my prayers my dear friend.

I'll tell you this is not for my family here, I would pack up my things, my pets and move to Egypt, but I can't. Or better yet move to Ecuador and live happily in Quito. I love Egypt but it's so HOT and the summer is soooooooooooooooooo long!

I want to take this opportunity to thank you from the bottom of my heart, your done with this process and you still find it in your heart to give us your time and wisdom and that means the world to me. I know life goes on and life has a way to take over yet you are here when your needed and your AMAZING. I thank God for you every night. I respect you beyond words even if you never (hope not) come back to this thread. Your contribution in holding us up when we can no longer stand on our own is a gift from God. Love you dearly, thank you a million, zillion times.

Thank you for your kind words and I agree on what you said to ketsuban, so nice to take the time to support others on this journey.

Aww, thank you both. I know how it felt being caught in the process (it's bad enough even when it goes smoothly, IMO), and it was always nice seeing the long-time members here still helping out. I want to return the favour and hang around for a while. There's always people needing help and support during this bureaucratic nightmare. Without this website, I wouldn't have even known what to do. USCIS has its instructions, but they are long and not user-friendly.

I know you guys are probably tired of hearing me say this... and Im sorry, but I dont know if I should worry or not....

Im told to call and get ds261 reviewed to get IV fee invoiced... well I've been calling all week and the only thing they tell me is "is hasn't been added to the case and I can't make any changes"

So do I just keep asking that same thing? or do I sit tight and wait another week?

You submitted it very recently and it can take up to 60 days to get it added to your file. I would say wait until around the 50 day mark and then start pestering them if the IV invoice still isn't unlocked.

[J&N071213 57]

I know you guys are probably tired of hearing me say this... and Im sorry, but I dont know if I should worry or not....

Im told to call and get ds261 reviewed to get IV fee invoiced... well I've been calling all week and the only thing they tell me is "is hasn't been added to the case and I can't make any changes"

So do I just keep asking that same thing? or do I sit tight and wait another week?

I got mine opened by calling within two weeks and telling them I input my email wrong and was afraid since I didn't provide emails when case number was assigned that I wouldn't get correspondence.

[bmwr35s 1]

Today i was Check on NVC website but it show the Case # is not match the Invoice ID so i call NVC after 1 hour hold. they told me my file Case # has been changed. from GUZ to GZO ..Does anyone know why is that ?or anyone has the same thing here?

[Labebesota188 57]

Yes keep us posted!!

Thank You I Will?

[Ketsuban 1,034]

Today i was Check on NVC website but it show the Case # is not match the Invoice ID so i call NVC after 1 hour hold. they told me my file Case # has been changed. from GUZ to GZO ..Does anyone know why is that ?or anyone has the same thing here?

Did you opt in for Electronic Processing?

That is the reason it would have changed.

[TwoChickies 105]

Just wanted to come back and see how everyone's doing and also share some good news. We finally got our CC at NVC on 3/31. Just like Not a Tailor, we missed the window for May interviews it looks like, but we're certainly hoping for an early June! Who knows, maybe we'll get the same interview date.

While I know it's possible to be happy for other's good news, I know it just totally sucks at the same time because a lot of you are going through things I probably can't even wrap my head around. I just want you to know that I think of you all the time and truly hope that things will start moving for you guys. I really do love you all. I don't know what I would do without this group on VJ.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Thank you for your kind words and I agree on what you said to ketsuban, so nice to take the time to support others on this journey.

Your very welcome it's my pleasure to help in any way I can be of service.

Hello VJ

Just wanted to pass by and thank Soloenta and every single one of you that help me so much in this stressful process I will have you all in my prayers hoping for the best to all of you guys??? My Husband and I had our interview on 3/26 he was Approved his visa was issued on 3/30 and we picked it up on 4/1 we will be leaving to the USA on 4/10 I will keep you all posted

Thank you so much my precious angel for your prayers and I will be praying for your safe journey home with your husband again congratulations so very happy for you.

I know you guys are probably tired of hearing me say this... and Im sorry, but I dont know if I should worry or not....

Im told to call and get ds261 reviewed to get IV fee invoiced... well I've been calling all week and the only thing they tell me is "is hasn't been added to the case and I can't make any changes"

So do I just keep asking that same thing? or do I sit tight and wait another week?

You ask as many times as you wish until you feel confident but I Would trust Ketsuban, you just can't go wrong with Ketsuban's advise so I second her.

Just wanted to come back and see how everyone's doing and also share some good news. We finally got our CC at NVC on 3/31. Just like Not a Tailor, we missed the window for May interviews it looks like, but we're certainly hoping for an early June! Who knows, maybe we'll get the same interview date.

While I know it's possible to be happy for other's good news, I know it just totally sucks at the same time because a lot of you are going through things I probably can't even wrap my head around. I just want you to know that I think of you all the time and truly hope that things will start moving for you guys. I really do love you all. I don't know what I would do without this group on VJ.

Thank you so much for coming back it's so appreicated more than you will ever know and I'm thrilled for you just wish you and Not a Tailor would have received an interview date for March. Praying the rest of your journey is a sweet and smooth one. Love you to sweetness, God bless you.

[Avandongen 83]

Thank you so much for coming back it's so appreicated more than you will ever know and I'm thrilled for you just wish you and Not a Tailor would have received an interview date for March. Praying the rest of your journey is a sweet and smooth one. Love you to sweetness, God bless you.

I think many of us come in here just to draw strength from you! I come to read and get updated on how everyone in here's Ap is going, if there is any news on them, see other complaints similar to mine. Most importantly reading your posts gives me a LOT of strength. I can have a bad day, read your positive posts and say to myself,"I got this." Your positive posts and vibes keep many of us strong and I thank you for that and add you to my prayers daily among the others waiting and struggling through this process.

[Soloenta 2,218]

I think many of us come in here just to draw strength from you! I come to read and get updated on how everyone in here's Ap is going, if there is any news on them, see other complaints similar to mine. Most importantly reading your posts gives me a LOT of strength. I can have a bad day, read your positive posts and say to myself,"I got this." Your positive posts and vibes keep many of us strong and I thank you for that and add you to my prayers daily among the others waiting and struggling through this process.

Your so sweet thank you very much I appreciate it. Thank you and I find strength in all of you. God be with us all and will continue to pray for all those that need it. Love you all. ((((((((((Avandongen)))))))))).

[Soloenta 2,218]

I sit here dumfounded, I found out a long time ago that there is a member that used to come here and one that comes here once in a while that has been making fun of my husband and I and the situation we are in. I find it heartless and pathetic that anyone would make fun of another's pain. How low does one have to be to come into a thread and be sweet and loving but yet go to another forum to spew their venom? It's none of you, but I know exactly who it is and where they go to do this. I leave your punishment in God's hands since he is the only one that has the right to punish you and the only one that can punish you like no other.

I have opened my heart to everyone on this thread and forum so that the mistakes we made wont hurt anyone else. Many are denied or put in AP and never return and now I understand why. Although there are great people on this thread I know many of these people come to read and make fun so because of them I will refrain from saying what's going on in our case. You can make fun of me, you can insult and belittle me but not my husband.

God bless those with truly good hearts, those that come here to help and find comfort in each other and rejoice at the blessings God gives us. To you I say thank you from the bottom of my heart and know I truly love every last one of you.

[Avandongen 83]

I sit here dumfounded, I found out a long time ago that there is a member that used to come here and one that comes here once in a while that has been making fun of my husband and I and the situation we are in. I find it heartless and pathetic that anyone would make fun of another's pain. How low does one have to be to come into a thread and be sweet and loving but yet go to another forum to spew their venom? It's none of you, but I know exactly who it is and where they go to do this. I leave your punishment in God's hands since he is the only one that has the right to punish you and the only one that can punish you like no other.

I have opened my heart to everyone on this thread and forum so that the mistakes we made wont hurt anyone else. Many are denied or put in AP and never return and now I understand why. Although there are great people on this thread I know many of these people come to read and make fun so because of them I will refrain from saying what's going on in our case. You can make fun of me, you can insult and belittle me but not my husband.

God bless those with truly good hearts, those that come here to help and find comfort in each other and rejoice at the blessings God gives us. To you I say thank you from the bottom of my heart and know I truly love every last one of you.

Some people are pathetic, always will be. Like you said let them later be in Gods hands. GOD forbid if ever someday something like the pain and suffering you in AP go through shall happen to them let it be a lesson, it might happen to them someday, what they have now may not last forever. Dont let rotten people like that ever change who you are and how you do things (posting and such) cause I can assure you, the strength you people show keeps many of us going strong. You truly are a blessing. Let us and GOD have the last laugh at them someday.

[Soloenta 2,218]

Some people are pathetic, always will be. Like you said let them later be in Gods hands. GOD forbid if ever someday something like the pain and suffering you in AP go through shall happen to them let it be a lesson, it might happen to them someday, what they have now may not last forever. Dont let rotten people like that ever change who you are and how you do things (posting and such) cause I can assure you, the strength you people show keeps many of us going strong. You truly are a blessing. Let us and GOD have the last laugh at them someday.

Love the way you put it and I'll try to keep that in mind. I don't like to have to think what I'm going to post before I do. I find that letting your heart guide you is the best thing to do. God bless you sweet heart and thank you for your kind words.

[Ryan H 3,790]

I sit here dumfounded, I found out a long time ago that there is a member that used to come here and one that comes here once in a while that has been making fun of my husband and I and the situation we are in. I find it heartless and pathetic that anyone would make fun of another's pain. How low does one have to be to come into a thread and be sweet and loving but yet go to another forum to spew their venom? It's none of you, but I know exactly who it is and where they go to do this. I leave your punishment in God's hands since he is the only one that has the right to punish you and the only one that can punish you like no other.

I have opened my heart to everyone on this thread and forum so that the mistakes we made wont hurt anyone else. Many are denied or put in AP and never return and now I understand why. Although there are great people on this thread I know many of these people come to read and make fun so because of them I will refrain from saying what's going on in our case. You can make fun of me, you can insult and belittle me but not my husband.

God bless those with truly good hearts, those that come here to help and find comfort in each other and rejoice at the blessings God gives us. To you I say thank you from the bottom of my heart and know I truly love every last one of you.

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[Not a Tailor 1,370]

That's horrid, Soloenta. What a terrible, horrible person. Karma will catch up with them, don't worry.

[Ketsuban 1,034]

I sit here dumfounded, I found out a long time ago that there is a member that used to come here and one that comes here once in a while that has been making fun of my husband and I and the situation we are in. I find it heartless and pathetic that anyone would make fun of another's pain. How low does one have to be to come into a thread and be sweet and loving but yet go to another forum to spew their venom? It's none of you, but I know exactly who it is and where they go to do this. I leave your punishment in God's hands since he is the only one that has the right to punish you and the only one that can punish you like no other.

I have opened my heart to everyone on this thread and forum so that the mistakes we made wont hurt anyone else. Many are denied or put in AP and never return and now I understand why. Although there are great people on this thread I know many of these people come to read and make fun so because of them I will refrain from saying what's going on in our case. You can make fun of me, you can insult and belittle me but not my husband.

God bless those with truly good hearts, those that come here to help and find comfort in each other and rejoice at the blessings God gives us. To you I say thank you from the bottom of my heart and know I truly love every last one of you.

It's easy for people with weak minds to feel superior to someone who has had bad stuff happen to them. They use it as a crutch to forget how unfulfilled they are. My advice is to pay them no mind and to continue as you have been before - you can't let someone like that hold you back.