KayDeeCee

You will need to withdraw your petition, meet in person, then file again. You MUST have met in person within the 2 years prior to filing the I-129F. There is no way around this. The instructions are very clear about this.

You could have applied 10-14 days after arriving in the US. If there is at least 2 weeks left before your I-94 expires, you can still apply now. If there isn't, you need to wait for your EAD or green card.

Um what? This is so so wrong. I suggest you study up a bit on all the parts here. Very wrong.

Yes, but she also asked "Do I use my old one, get a new one from my home country or one here?"

1. Yes, 6 total.
2. If your wife currently makes enough for your household size, then she doesn't need a joint sponsor. She will provide a letter from her employer stating position and salary plus a few months worth of her most recent pay stubs. If someone has not filed previous taxes, or does not file because their income is not taxable, then they need to include a statement explaining why they were not legally required to file taxes. If you still use a joint sponsor, make sure they include proof of being a USC or LPR.
3. You can check the forum thread here (yes, it is very long): http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/231026-civil-surgeons-who-dont-rip-you-off/ and call around in your area to find one: https://egov.uscis.gov/crisgwi/go?action=offices.summary&OfficeLocator.office_type=CIV&OfficeLocator.statecode=WA

Besides contacting your embassy for help, see if there is a Catholic Charities in your area. http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/page.aspx?pid=292
They may be able to help with your needing food and other basics at the moment, and possibly could help you with filling out your AOS forms. It could not hurt to try.

Besides contacting your embassy for help, see if there is a Catholic Charities in your area. http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/page.aspx?pid=292
They may be able to help with your needing food and other basics at the moment, and possibly could help you with filling out your AOS forms. It could not hurt to try.

Proof of your medical results was in the sealed envelope you turned in at your POE. The USCIS has them. Unless you have a copy of your medical from the UK, then there is no way to prove it to a CS.
Those are part of the medical, and you do not need another medical exam. If that CS will not do it without charging for and giving you unnecessary tests, then call around to others until you find one that is willing to just do the transcription you need. You can point out what the instructions say for a K-1 in the I-693 instructions. Some do not care what it says though. You might have to call several, and even some farther away from your home.

Besides contacting your embassy for help, see if there is a Catholic Charities in your area. http://www.catholiccharitiesusa.org/page.aspx?pid=292
They may be able to help with your needing food and other basics at the moment, and possibly could help you with filling out your AOS forms. It could not hurt to try.

The only issue that needs to be addressed here is for him to get his baby a US passport after it is born, and to add one more to the household count on his affidavit of support. There is nothing suspicious about having a child, married yet or not.
The CO is not going to think they are trying to commit immigration fraud because they had a child together. What you keep saying has no logic behind it. It only seems to be full of your own personal opinions towards premarital sex and having a child before a couple is married. Good for the OP that your personal feelings on the matter will have no bearing on their immigration process.

If your income is 125% of the poverty level or higher, then leave all the questions about assets blank. No need to fill in anything there, or provide bank statements and such. You only need to fill those out if you need to use assets to make up a shortcoming in current income.
#11 of the I-134 can be filled out just like it appears on the example form here on VJ. Do not check either box and write: "N/A ( K1 visa process for permanent residence )" http://www.visajourney.com/examples/Form-I-134.pdf

If you make enough income to be at or above the 125% of the poverty level, then you do not need to have or list assets such as savings on the I-134. If you make $40k, you have enough for a household size of up to 6. Your savings, or lack thereof, does not matter.

K-2 does not apply in this case. The child would be a citizen through the father.

This is also what Jay-Kay said at the start before the thread got hijacked.

Many abusive people don't want to file for a GC because they fear that by keeping the spouse "un-free" will force them to rely on the USC so the immigrant can't leave. Many men also fear "independent" women (there are a million on this board) so in an extreme version, keeping them chained keeps them dependent on the USC. That way they get a wife at home that depends on them totally no matter what they do.
I find it despicable to attack the OP's use of English as a reason to attack her or her story. The question of her English shouldn't be answered by someone who "lives with a Russian" but by people who actually speak at least two languages. Someone who speaks only one language is not capable, in my view, of understanding what it is like to learn a second language and what is possible. When someone gets attacked they would naturally get flustered and probably reply faster and make more mistakes. For a second language, speaking is not easier than writing for all people.
The OP is very possibly a hurting abused person who needs help, and is making all kinds of excuses because that is what an abused person does. USCIS can make an appropriate determination regarding her story (if she goes that route). It's not up to us.
OP - you got some good info on your options at the start of the thread.

If you make enough income to be at or above the 125% of the poverty level, then you do not need to have or list assets such as savings on the I-134. If you make $40k, you have enough for a household size of up to 6. Your savings, or lack thereof, does not matter.

Here is the guide: http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1k3aos
Just skip the I-131 form though. You have been out of status too long to use AP to re-enter the US should you leave. Don't leave without having a green card first. Your husband will need to fill out an I-864 and provide his most recent tax transcript, letter from employer and pay stubs.
You will need a new medical done, and will need to find a civil surgeon in your area to do that and fill out an I-693 for you.
You may also want to go ahead and file the I-130 along with all your other forms. Since you have already been married for 2 years, then filing the I-130 along with the AOS paperwork can get you a 10 year card instead of the 2 year conditional one. The guide for that is here: http://www.visajourney.com/content/i130guide2
But he needs to provide the I-864 and supporting docs for it.

A visa is to enter the country so you don't apply to adjust your status to a fiance visa while in the US. Your fiance can file the petition for a fiance visa while you'll be visiting him in the US, BUT you will have to come back to your country before the 90 days of your VWP.
Where are you from? It takes about 4-6 months for the petition to be approved (if you meet the requirements), and then few months more to obtain the visa, depending on your country. Some are faster than others.

1. Yes, 6 total.
2. If your wife currently makes enough for your household size, then she doesn't need a joint sponsor. She will provide a letter from her employer stating position and salary plus a few months worth of her most recent pay stubs. If someone has not filed previous taxes, or does not file because their income is not taxable, then they need to include a statement explaining why they were not legally required to file taxes. If you still use a joint sponsor, make sure they include proof of being a USC or LPR.
3. You can check the forum thread here (yes, it is very long): http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/231026-civil-surgeons-who-dont-rip-you-off/ and call around in your area to find one: https://egov.uscis.gov/crisgwi/go?action=offices.summary&OfficeLocator.office_type=CIV&OfficeLocator.statecode=WA

You are a legal permanent resident (once you get approved) and have all the same rights and responsibilities as any other Legal Permanent Resident. The only difference is that your card is only good for 2 years at the start and you fill out a different form to get a new card.
It is designed to prevent marriage fraud; it does not mean you are anything else but a Legal Permanent Resident.

Actually the I-485 asks for the spouses info and A number...
You are a naturalised citizen. The A number is yours for life so yes when dealing with immigration you put it in (they then link your file to your wifes) but for other things (not immigration related) you're right your A number doesn't matter anymore.
On the I-485, page 2, Part 3B it asks for the spouses info (your info) and it asks for your A number (if any) so yes this is where you put your A number.

The bolded part is incorrect. It does not vary. The fee is $240. It just went down from $350 on April 13th.

I-129F filing fee: $340
Visa processing fee: $240
Adjustment of status: $1070
Removal of conditions: $590
Naturalization: $680
Total cost from petition to becoming a citizen is $2920 ($2240 to 10 year green card permanent residence status)

Try getting the detailed information about her condition from the doctor and make an Infopass appointment to ask about getting emergency AP. If they tell you once again that it is not extremely urgent enough, then no, unfortunately she will not be able to travel with you. She cannot leave the US and be able to re-enter without the AP or her green card. EAD and AP take about 2-3 months to receive, and since you only filed April 4th, it is not going to be approved in time without them granting an emergency expedite.

If his most recent pay stubs show his income would average out to be enough, then you would not need a co-sponsor. However, since it is so close, and he had not filed taxes, he may wish to go ahead and have all the documents ready from his mother just in case they would ask for a co-sponsor in your case.
Your dad would fill out the I-864, and your mom would fill out the I-864A. Their income would then be combined on your dad's I-864 to reach the 125% level for their household size plus your husband. Relationship to sponsor, #8 of the I-864A: mom checks c. and spouse. Part 2 #13 is filled out by your dad, your husband would be listed on line a, and he would sign and date it on #14. Part 3 is where your mom would fill in her info and sign and date it.
If your father or mother qualify on their own for their household count + your husband, then only one of them needs to fill out an I-864, even if they file taxes jointly. The I-864A is only used when a household member's income is needed to be combined with the one filling out the I-864 to reach the 125% mark.

If his most recent pay stubs show his income would average out to be enough, then you would not need a co-sponsor. However, since it is so close, and he had not filed taxes, he may wish to go ahead and have all the documents ready from his mother just in case they would ask for a co-sponsor in your case.
Your dad would fill out the I-864, and your mom would fill out the I-864A. Their income would then be combined on your dad's I-864 to reach the 125% level for their household size plus your husband. Relationship to sponsor, #8 of the I-864A: mom checks c. and spouse. Part 2 #13 is filled out by your dad, your husband would be listed on line a, and he would sign and date it on #14. Part 3 is where your mom would fill in her info and sign and date it.
If your father or mother qualify on their own for their household count + your husband, then only one of them needs to fill out an I-864, even if they file taxes jointly. The I-864A is only used when a household member's income is needed to be combined with the one filling out the I-864 to reach the 125% mark.