kennym

Child or not, you need to decide what is best for you.. You have no need to prove anything.. if you want to withdraw your Affidavit of support, do it ASAP..
Email the Immigrant Visa Section of the Kingston Embassy and ask them how to withdraw..
Unless someone else has some experience with this.. Anyone??

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

Be careful about the confusion you are creating... While true the I-134 is submitted for the Visa Interview, if she and her BF gets to the AOS stage, then she will be completing the I864 which commits her to potentially a lifetime..
Have you sent the I-134 yet? I suppose you have since the interview is scheduled.. you need to Email the Kingston Embassy, ASAP and tell them you're withdrawing your sponsership... Before the interview... Dont send him any tax documents or financials stuff like paystubs..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

You and only you, know how your BF is...
It's very interesting that he hasn't had his interview yet, and is acting that way.. Seems pretty arrogant..
The fact is; love is blind, nobody can say anything that you dont already know.. Just remember, if he gets here and you submit the I864 (Affidavit of Support) on his behalf, you're stuck no matter what.. Ask yourself if you feel confident enough in him to sign up for that kind of responsibilty potentially for the rest of your life..
Put asside the heebee jeebees and the butterflies and the romantic memories and think clearly for a bit, then be honest with yourself and make a descission and stick to it..
You gotta be carefull with someone that arrogant at this stage of the game..

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

If the story here is factual...it sounds as if there is no innocent party in this relationship. Niether is showing respect for the other.
In my opinion a true loving relationship requires "respect" for your partner.

I’m so sorry I hope you feel better soon
Relax your mind don't make decision when you’re mad or upset.
goodluck

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

VJ Moderators... Seiously??
This OP has got to be a troll...

Please. The bickering is detracting from the purpose. You have each stated your opinion. Now stop and let the OP choose which suggestions are salient to her. Thank you.

what should you do?
Well, you have a few options..
Option 1 - You can work out a way to be a team
Option 2 - you can divorce
Option 3 - Do nothing
Aside from that, what other options do you feel you have?
I guess, I dont understand the question... You seemingly have a wife who plays head games, and it makes you unhappy.. You say finances are causing stress.. well me too.. but we work together, or not.. That's fairly simple..
Stay together and change things, stay together and dont change things, or dont stay together...
this is a immigration forum, and we lack tha ability to provide specific advise about how to fix relationships.. As an immigration forum, we cant fix what is broke being we dont know you, we can make suggestions, but it's meaningless, since we dont know you.. all we can do is give general advice..
fix it, or don't fix it...
Does that clear up your options?

what should you do?
Well, you have a few options..
Option 1 - You can work out a way to be a team
Option 2 - you can divorce
Option 3 - Do nothing
Aside from that, what other options do you feel you have?
I guess, I dont understand the question... You seemingly have a wife who plays head games, and it makes you unhappy.. You say finances are causing stress.. well me too.. but we work together, or not.. That's fairly simple..
Stay together and change things, stay together and dont change things, or dont stay together...
this is a immigration forum, and we lack tha ability to provide specific advise about how to fix relationships.. As an immigration forum, we cant fix what is broke being we dont know you, we can make suggestions, but it's meaningless, since we dont know you.. all we can do is give general advice..
fix it, or don't fix it...
Does that clear up your options?

Excellent Advice.. Especially the part about getting the Husband to pay the for the attorney..
Murysa, here is some excellent suggestions to follow up with..
Maybe you can give us at least an idea of what city you're in (dont know if it will compromize your security) so somebody can recommend a lawyer possibly..
In this country, you are not expected to know the legal system, that's why we have lawyers.. everyone is entitled to legal help and you should not be in court alone for something as important as this.. I understand money is an issue, but it seems there are options to address this.. I am not familiar with this, but I wouldnt want to be in court alone, and I am a fairly educated person as well..
Kenny