Aussielad

This sounds like something out of 90 day finance but with the episode of the ex marine marrying that really rich lady from Indonesia who hates him having to pay child support and kicks out his own daughter out of their place.

This sounds like something out of 90 day finance but with the episode of the ex marine marrying that really rich lady from Indonesia who hates him having to pay child support and kicks out his own daughter out of their place.

This sounds like something out of 90 day finance but with the episode of the ex marine marrying that really rich lady from Indonesia who hates him having to pay child support and kicks out his own daughter out of their place.

what little understanding you have......closed minded......we aren't in Pakistan you know? where the woman has to walk behin the man like a dog on a leash.

I think a lot of people are thinking that it's pretty awful that your wife is taking the hit for your "poor decisions" but you're not willing to take the hit for your "poor decisions".


Either way, actions have consequences. If you fly out before the charges are dropped, I would just eat the money loss and protect your wife from having any issues at the border.

But, I doubt you'll do that.

To be fair you both bought into a dream and not reality.

Have you ever watched "90 day fiance" ....watch it on youtube with the episodes of Jorge and Anfisa (she is from Russia and her behavior and that your describing of your wife is almost IDENTICAL)...that will give you a better idea of what might be happening...I wish you the best of luck..

Have you ever watched "90 day fiance" ....watch it on youtube with the episodes of Jorge and Anfisa (she is from Russia and her behavior and that your describing of your wife is almost IDENTICAL)...that will give you a better idea of what might be happening...I wish you the best of luck..

Have you ever watched "90 day fiance" ....watch it on youtube with the episodes of Jorge and Anfisa (she is from Russia and her behavior and that your describing of your wife is almost IDENTICAL)...that will give you a better idea of what might be happening...I wish you the best of luck..

Have you ever watched "90 day fiance" ....watch it on youtube with the episodes of Jorge and Anfisa (she is from Russia and her behavior and that your describing of your wife is almost IDENTICAL)...that will give you a better idea of what might be happening...I wish you the best of luck..

Have you ever watched "90 day fiance" ....watch it on youtube with the episodes of Jorge and Anfisa (she is from Russia and her behavior and that your describing of your wife is almost IDENTICAL)...that will give you a better idea of what might be happening...I wish you the best of luck..

i feel like the word gold digger seems to fit the picture here 

Sounds like you married a family of freeloaders.

You are a great man, they dont don't deserve you. Let them go back to Russia

Highly recommend you start watching “The First 48” on A&E about real homicides - reality tv. Your wife will see another side of American life. 
 
https://www.aetv.com/shows/the-first-48

Well I guess get her a factory job, where she ain't gonna speak much.

She does not think she’s “too stupid” to work, but rather that she’s too good to work. If you mispresented your financial situation then it’s kind of on you, but not really because for better or for worse is supposed to mean just that. If you were straight up but she’s a delusional gold digger then it’s on her. Either way, do whatever you need to to get yourself out of this complete cluster f***. This is going nowhere pleasant for you. 
 
I say this as a mother (both a biological one and a step one), the girl’s crying about how she hates her home country is not your problem. I repeat, not your problem. She’s a child and doesn’t get to make the decisions until she’s an adult and running her own life. Tough toenails as my old man used to say to me when I’d try that kind of stuff on. 

Can I ask a totally blunt question? Forgive me if it’s rude, well it will be but an honest answer probably informs your next steps: did your wife move to be with you, or did she move to live an “American lifestyle”? 
 

They want the American Dream, not what you can provide.

I once heard that sex is only 10% of a marriage. Until there's a problem, then its 90%.

And a strong connection makes for more and better sex.  It's a chicken-and-egg thing. 

2nd time I wanted to rep you today but you already have to many. Can I skim some off of you?

Divorce and move on, sounds like you were used for a way out, an investment by her family.

What's the point in chasing down a guy who doesn't want to be with you ?
Are you desperate ? Move on to someone who does want to be with you.
Believe people when they say they don't want you....the first time.
 
There is no marriage happening, there is not even a relationship and no basis to enter with the K1.
If he changes his mind then let him fix it or petition you again in the future.
 
It's just silly to run after someone who doesn't care.
 

I don't see any hostility here, just sincere opinions.   We all realize how difficult and life changing this process is and 10 times that when something goes wrong.  Which is why people are pointing out the fact that the chances at this point don't look very good.   If the OP can stay legally, welcome and more power to the OP.  However you aren't going to find much sympathy on here if the OP plans to overstay.