Lottaair

I never ever said I was rushing to do the paperwork. Why would I have not taken it with me?? He has nwvwe gone through the process before nor have I. Regardless it's important to sit beside one another and read it together versus being on a video chat. I have never told any of you all any dates and the dates should not matter. Sure I am a bit older than him but at least we are within or under 10 years of one another. And his bold words were if we cannot have kids he is fine with it. The most important thing to him is being with me and taking care of me. He also has told me it didnt matter if he had met me in his country he would still feel the exact same way for me. 
Thank you for your advice.
My confusion now is the fact one person said if he did his interview in English that is not good. And then someone else said he can get a translator. 
Yes he has time to learn English and he told me not to submit anything until he has established his English better. He was going by you tube videos that people say he doesnt need to be fluent. And for the record yes we can have a conversation in English as it has improved and has continued to. But it's not easy when he isnt around anyone else that doesnt speak English.  Soo many of you all have gotten soo much of this backwards to the point I can only laugh. The family support thing is probably the most funniest because it's not relevant. And please note I am very aware of the fees..but on here you all use acronyms and this was NOT something I knew. I know the full terms..simple as that. So please do not tell me what I do and do not know because the fact you all shorten up all this lingo. I have never ever told any of you all what I was gonna do. These conversations turned out to be me defending my relationship instead. 
Has any of you ever heard of t hm e Visa coach?? I got a free consultation from him and I'm trying peice together his info versus the information you all have given me. ..curious to know who on here was even ever successful??? On t uh e first interview seems to be many of you are denied and that's why I watched so many videos of how people put together their packet.  But one thing I can nwb3r find is someone specifically for Morocco on you tube. And the Visa coach said he had a successful rate in Morocco.  So anyway it is a matter of gathering information. I dont need the nasty comments telling me I'm going to be scammed or denied. 
Another thing I hoped to find was someone who I could establish trust with, maybe even a Male who could talk to my finance about this process. I mentioned to him about marriage there and he does not want to be married there and all of you are gonna say bad things about that. But if the man doesnt like it there then he dont. But there is only soo much I can get him to understand until his English is improved upon. But he is not rushing me to do anything...  I have never been married before either. I have explained to him the difference in in the k1 and the spouse. And he insist to be here for marriage. That's no red flag of any sort. before some of you sharpen your horns to dig into that! Lol 

I do not need to know those processes I am aware of the fees and all of that. It is more so personal details. I have watched numerous you tube videos and read many websites.  Thanks though. 

Oh ok see no one told me that! Thank you

Thia comment is in regards to his habits. Has nothing to do with approval process 
Thanks for your support!!
 
As no one clearly never could answer my question on why they were individually denied. 

Maybe jealous..idk
Why you all keep posting irrelevant information 
You are right I have never told any of you anyone said I love you within days.no one rushed anything.  The information you assume now. This is getting to be hilarious now. 

Thia comment is in regards to his habits. Has nothing to do with approval process 
Thanks for your support!!
 
As no one clearly never could answer my question on why they were individually denied. 

Thia comment is in regards to his habits. Has nothing to do with approval process 
Thanks for your support!!
 
As no one clearly never could answer my question on why they were individually denied. 

His email is in French. 
And I just translate. It id modern technology.  Easy to do. His phone is set up in French language. 
Keyboard Arabic and English. 
I have access to his emails. Simple as that. 

Making another visit means my chances decrease for having kids as this adds on to my clock. 
This also increases the wait time .. like a whole year. I really hoped for him to be here in 2019. 
According to my finance he said I had to be there for over 20 days to wait for the paper work. Now I'm confused and feel misguided. 
But how much does it cost?? I did a short term search and I saw a lot of different fees for Morocco.  
If I have to go back again which would be 6mo tha or more because I have to save up ..etc. i would get married because i cannot afford the time or the money just to go over there and look at him. I never had a moment alone with him because of his religion. Me being an American..this was very frustrating. 

His email is in French. 
And I just translate. It id modern technology.  Easy to do. His phone is set up in French language. 
Keyboard Arabic and English. 
I have access to his emails. Simple as that. 

Thia comment is in regards to his habits. Has nothing to do with approval process 
Thanks for your support!!
 
As no one clearly never could answer my question on why they were individually denied. 

My fiance was and is not a sperm donor. I mentioned this because he had a friend who married a woman from France in Morocco. As soon as she was pregnant she left and never contacted him again, thus she just wanted this kids. I am not in that situation. I'd have him regardless if i could have kids or not and he feels the same. I have also asked him if I was not in America would he still love me or want to be with me, he agreed it is because he loves me not the fact i am in America. I am also aware of the supporting issues with him sending money home. I told him I will NOT lose anything to or help him send any money to his home for his family. He understood that. I told him I am and will only support him for his life here in America. I will not be sending any money to help his family. He understands that. He also said he will not let me lose anything here and that this was not fair to me. He understands all of this. 
 
I appreciate all the advice however I did ask some individuals for specific information but it was not given. 
 
I will still stand for the fact he has not had a GF in Morocco and even his cousin here in VA told me the same thing. Regardless if they chose to agree to lie to me, I can see the lack of experience when we were together. He has a lot to learn. But I do need his English at a level to where if he was asked what does his family think of me, that he will be able to say more than, they are happy for us.. LOL

Oh ok see no one told me that! Thank you

Thia comment is in regards to his habits. Has nothing to do with approval process 
Thanks for your support!!
 
As no one clearly never could answer my question on why they were individually denied. 

I dont like there. 

Making another visit means my chances decrease for having kids as this adds on to my clock. 
This also increases the wait time .. like a whole year. I really hoped for him to be here in 2019. 
According to my finance he said I had to be there for over 20 days to wait for the paper work. Now I'm confused and feel misguided. 
But how much does it cost?? I did a short term search and I saw a lot of different fees for Morocco.  
If I have to go back again which would be 6mo tha or more because I have to save up ..etc. i would get married because i cannot afford the time or the money just to go over there and look at him. I never had a moment alone with him because of his religion. Me being an American..this was very frustrating. 

it is the engagement ceremony.  We are at his house with his family. Ate you someone who was approved or denied in Morocco?
What is AOS?
I am not getting married in Morocco.  It's more expensive. Cheaper fees for USA but the marriage is not and plus it takes even longer for him to come here. I am an American American ..ok man and it's my first wedding I'd like my family to see it. I dont have vacation time to go over there as often as you speak not just money. Also if you aren't aware we cant even be alone there it sucks.

Please note that I am new to this I do not know any of the acronyms you just used in your response, therefore I dont understand. 
I cannot afford to keep flying back and forth I'm not rich in any way possible. We are both in our 30's.
He is Muslim and I am not. We are both ok with that. 
He plans to learn English but personally it's not happening quick enough for me.but that's a subject I have to be patient on. 
I read where someone else had a morrocan ceremony also on here..the consulate thought they were already married but it's the traditional engagement. But they were approved It is important in their country. I'd like to have a family soon I cannot do that with us being so far apart. 

With this being said.. this is a friend of his.. not him! 
Someone that married in Morocco and she left after she was pregnant and did not come back ever again. 
This is just a story he told me. 
My fiance is not a sperm donor. 

I am not getting angry and I am FAR from Menopause.. Wow.. that is harsh... LOL
Not desperate either. 

With this being said.. this is a friend of his.. not him! 
Someone that married in Morocco and she left after she was pregnant and did not come back ever again. 
This is just a story he told me. 
My fiance is not a sperm donor. 

I am not getting angry and I am FAR from Menopause.. Wow.. that is harsh... LOL
Not desperate either. 

Making another visit means my chances decrease for having kids as this adds on to my clock. 
This also increases the wait time .. like a whole year. I really hoped for him to be here in 2019. 
According to my finance he said I had to be there for over 20 days to wait for the paper work. Now I'm confused and feel misguided. 
But how much does it cost?? I did a short term search and I saw a lot of different fees for Morocco.  
If I have to go back again which would be 6mo tha or more because I have to save up ..etc. i would get married because i cannot afford the time or the money just to go over there and look at him. I never had a moment alone with him because of his religion. Me being an American..this was very frustrating. 

Making another visit means my chances decrease for having kids as this adds on to my clock. 
This also increases the wait time .. like a whole year. I really hoped for him to be here in 2019. 
According to my finance he said I had to be there for over 20 days to wait for the paper work. Now I'm confused and feel misguided. 
But how much does it cost?? I did a short term search and I saw a lot of different fees for Morocco.  
If I have to go back again which would be 6mo tha or more because I have to save up ..etc. i would get married because i cannot afford the time or the money just to go over there and look at him. I never had a moment alone with him because of his religion. Me being an American..this was very frustrating.