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Please listen to those that have had experience. We know that you love her. You got married right? But, as painful as it may seem, there are times to walk away. You are divorced. You cut the ties already. That was the hard part. Now you just have to cut the rest.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

Please listen to those that have had experience. We know that you love her. You got married right? But, as painful as it may seem, there are times to walk away. You are divorced. You cut the ties already. That was the hard part. Now you just have to cut the rest.

i would say you are very lucky to have been divorced by her. please be grateful for it. living with a bipolar is like walking on eggshells.
i have had the experience of dealing with bipolars. they can be very charming, loving one time but can suddenly and without reason become mean and paranoid.
for your own sanity and well-being, please have nothing to do with the type , again. it's mental illness that will always be there. it does not get cured. the symptoms are just minimized or controlled by the meds. but it is still there. in fact, her anger , leaving you and then changing her mind are but examples of her seesawing, volatile emotion. .

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

CR-1 But, take it from someone who lived with a person for 15 years that was on medication for a number of mentally related issues. There was some good times and some love but the bad times far outweighed the good. In the end, 10 years of huge fights and chaos and the last 5 years were hell resulting in divorce and a daughter who will suffer for years due to her mom's past treatment. Please , please, please do a lot of research about Bipolar and join a support group to learn what it's really like to live with a Bipolar person. Staying on the proper medication is just one thing you need to worry about. You already had one divorce... don't make a second mistake for the same thing.

This paragraph says it all. As far as the CO is concerned no matter what other evidence you say, they think you are married. It's not a criticism but a known situation repeated many many times in other threads on here. India, Vietnam, other countries. The advice to K-1 applicants is the same for these countries. Engagement parties are thought of as wedding parties. His family says you're married, you wore wedding traditional dress and jewelry. You need to accept this, find a way to get married legally and file for a CR-1.

Personal Opinion - Don't wear it. I know it may seem like a heartfelt symbolic gesture but not worth it.

This paragraph says it all. As far as the CO is concerned no matter what other evidence you say, they think you are married. It's not a criticism but a known situation repeated many many times in other threads on here. India, Vietnam, other countries. The advice to K-1 applicants is the same for these countries. Engagement parties are thought of as wedding parties. His family says you're married, you wore wedding traditional dress and jewelry. You need to accept this, find a way to get married legally and file for a CR-1.

This paragraph says it all. As far as the CO is concerned no matter what other evidence you say, they think you are married. It's not a criticism but a known situation repeated many many times in other threads on here. India, Vietnam, other countries. The advice to K-1 applicants is the same for these countries. Engagement parties are thought of as wedding parties. His family says you're married, you wore wedding traditional dress and jewelry. You need to accept this, find a way to get married legally and file for a CR-1.

This paragraph says it all. As far as the CO is concerned no matter what other evidence you say, they think you are married. It's not a criticism but a known situation repeated many many times in other threads on here. India, Vietnam, other countries. The advice to K-1 applicants is the same for these countries. Engagement parties are thought of as wedding parties. His family says you're married, you wore wedding traditional dress and jewelry. You need to accept this, find a way to get married legally and file for a CR-1.

Time and again you will see it on the threads where there is a problem with an Asian culture fiance. You are marrying the family, not just the fiance and you need to understand to your fiance, they come first every time and also be prepared that there is the possibility that they will want to financially support there family. It is expected a lot of times. It's not just Asian cultures. Blood is blood. My ex wife's father was out for a visit. One of the dogs annoyed him for some reason and he very deliberately picked up the salt shaker, pour some salt into his hand and threw the salt into the dog's eyes to make the dog go away. Right in front of both of us. I didn't say a word but, looked right at my ex wife to say something. She never did. She wouldn't go against her father and call him out on his animal abuse behavior. You have to understand the relationship dynamics of not only who you are dating/married to but what is involved with their family. Oh and never believe someone that says they don't need their family or friends just you.

Time and again you will see it on the threads where there is a problem with an Asian culture fiance. You are marrying the family, not just the fiance and you need to understand to your fiance, they come first every time and also be prepared that there is the possibility that they will want to financially support there family. It is expected a lot of times. It's not just Asian cultures. Blood is blood. My ex wife's father was out for a visit. One of the dogs annoyed him for some reason and he very deliberately picked up the salt shaker, pour some salt into his hand and threw the salt into the dog's eyes to make the dog go away. Right in front of both of us. I didn't say a word but, looked right at my ex wife to say something. She never did. She wouldn't go against her father and call him out on his animal abuse behavior. You have to understand the relationship dynamics of not only who you are dating/married to but what is involved with their family. Oh and never believe someone that says they don't need their family or friends just you.

You also have to remember that physically striking a partner, in the U.S., is grounds for a domestic violence charge. I told me ex wife, she had a temper, you can yell, scream, swear at me, call me all kinds of names or even hit your head against the wall in frustration, but if you ever lay a hand on me, I'll call you a cab and show you the door. The closest she ever came was throwing something at the wall when I was leaving the room. The marriage was pretty much done by then anyway.

I'm being pretty harsh here but as a parent I see this as a huge disaster in the making. What is your GF mom thinking about all this?
My opinion is you need to stop playing house and do this the right way instead. I don't mean getting married either. Let her go home and file for K-1 or go there and get married and file for a CR-1. Maybe you should pack up and move there for a while. If she is that much into you as you say then her life should be OK and living in her country should be be OK as long as you are with her. Right? This sounds like emotional manipulation with the intent to immigrate fraudulently.

I'm being pretty harsh here but as a parent I see this as a huge disaster in the making. What is your GF mom thinking about all this?
My opinion is you need to stop playing house and do this the right way instead. I don't mean getting married either. Let her go home and file for K-1 or go there and get married and file for a CR-1. Maybe you should pack up and move there for a while. If she is that much into you as you say then her life should be OK and living in her country should be be OK as long as you are with her. Right? This sounds like emotional manipulation with the intent to immigrate fraudulently.

I'm being pretty harsh here but as a parent I see this as a huge disaster in the making. What is your GF mom thinking about all this?
My opinion is you need to stop playing house and do this the right way instead. I don't mean getting married either. Let her go home and file for K-1 or go there and get married and file for a CR-1. Maybe you should pack up and move there for a while. If she is that much into you as you say then her life should be OK and living in her country should be be OK as long as you are with her. Right? This sounds like emotional manipulation with the intent to immigrate fraudulently.

My fiancee is Japanese. She found many blogs and sites in Japan that answered a lot of her questions and concerns. With a little effort, I'm sure your wife can too. If anything, you can post a question here that she might have in the Japan portal section. She can write in Japanese and someone can respond in Japanese. The main forum is English Only.
http://www.visajourney.com/portals/index.php?country=Japan