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From the story and this may be part of the problem. The OP is flat broke and and has been for a while and can't file I-184 or anything because there is no money for the fees.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

Question: Whose biological kids do they belong? You are talking like typical person in abusiveness relationship trying to find excuses to keep going with the relationship. Please don't. Safety first. Emotional well being first. .You are trying to deal with a dangerous person. What happens if you are not there and she does something to the kids or burns the house down? Can you live with that? Do what others have suggested. Calmly, and I mean it... Calmy grant her wish and get her on a plane. If she says, "You don't love me, why would you send me home." Don't argue with her for anything. Absolutely do not argue with her. Walk away. Don't say a word. Stay calm. This way, she loses power over the situation. If she cuts herself. Dial 911. Let the emergency people handle it. They will put her in 51/50 situation.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.

I know right? I'm reading these answers and I'm going.. uh? How is advice being given when you don't even know the facts of the story? How about we start asking the OP questions and quit giving advice until we get some answers.
P.S. I'm going out on a limb and say that no matter what, the OP needs a lawyer ASAP if the OP has been accused of marriage fraud by USCIS.

Apologies, I did not you were the USC. Next question. This is an I-130 and you are living abroad. Have you met the established residency requirements? You can look them up on the internet. This is similar.
http://lawandborder.com/issues-for-u-s-citizens-expats-in-filing-the-form-i-130-immigrant-petition-for-alien-relative/#Proving_the_US_Citizen_Is_8220Domiciled8221_in_the_US

Everyone has their own situation. I am sorry to hear that you are away from home most of the day. That is a problem in itself for any marriage. My personal opinion is 7 weeks is too long. 2-3 weeks max. There is a ton of things she needs to be doing. English lessons maybe? Job resume and searches? Learn the transportation systems and local places? Does she have a driver's license? You guys can share the domestic duties but being home allows her to do an item or 2 a day just to help out. Do some charity work. Check out the ethnic communities and support groups. However, hanging out with the family is just going to cause you a ton of problems. Does she think family comes first before you? Is her family now your family and you're expected to support her support them? Is age a factor where emotional maturity makes her want to spend more time in the comfort of her own family. Check out the Philippine forum. I bet there a lot of threads with similar themes. A word of warning. 2 items. 1) Don't get trapped into financial supporting her family. 2) Don't let her take a job that belongs to a family member or family friend. You are part of a 2 person relationship. Boundaries and lines sometimes have to be drawn for the heath of the relationship. You are trying to cater to her feelings. What? You don't have feelings in this? If she is not at least considering your feelings than she is being a bit selfish.Yes, she uprooted herself but she should have been prepared knowing the situation. Right now what you describe your life as is an extended vacation for the two of you.

Everyone has their own situation. I am sorry to hear that you are away from home most of the day. That is a problem in itself for any marriage. My personal opinion is 7 weeks is too long. 2-3 weeks max. There is a ton of things she needs to be doing. English lessons maybe? Job resume and searches? Learn the transportation systems and local places? Does she have a driver's license? You guys can share the domestic duties but being home allows her to do an item or 2 a day just to help out. Do some charity work. Check out the ethnic communities and support groups. However, hanging out with the family is just going to cause you a ton of problems. Does she think family comes first before you? Is her family now your family and you're expected to support her support them? Is age a factor where emotional maturity makes her want to spend more time in the comfort of her own family. Check out the Philippine forum. I bet there a lot of threads with similar themes. A word of warning. 2 items. 1) Don't get trapped into financial supporting her family. 2) Don't let her take a job that belongs to a family member or family friend. You are part of a 2 person relationship. Boundaries and lines sometimes have to be drawn for the heath of the relationship. You are trying to cater to her feelings. What? You don't have feelings in this? If she is not at least considering your feelings than she is being a bit selfish.Yes, she uprooted herself but she should have been prepared knowing the situation. Right now what you describe your life as is an extended vacation for the two of you.

My fiancee is Japanese. She used a copy of the NOA2 and a printout of the DS-160. This was for the Tokyo Police Department.

I know right? I'm reading these answers and I'm going.. uh? How is advice being given when you don't even know the facts of the story? How about we start asking the OP questions and quit giving advice until we get some answers.
P.S. I'm going out on a limb and say that no matter what, the OP needs a lawyer ASAP if the OP has been accused of marriage fraud by USCIS.

Short answer is many people file AOS years and years after getting married without a problem. A new medical is required. All the other requirements for AOS are the same. I would expect by now you have lots and lots of relationship/marriage evidence. Right? Stop worrying, stalling and just get it done.

Go to the County Clerk's Office and get a certified copy of your Marriage Certificate. That should cover it. Usually they charge @$10 per copy. It's pretty standard across the United States.

Go to the County Clerk's Office and get a certified copy of your Marriage Certificate. That should cover it. Usually they charge @$10 per copy. It's pretty standard across the United States.

For all the people that hate fraud on here, and the OP says USCIS has investigated him/her for marriage fraud/sham marriage, and the OP tacitly admits fraud by asking about getting a waiver for it instead of fighting the allegations, and people want to help? Strange.

Nope, not a thing. radical acceptance. Not your problem anymore. Karma will take care of her at some point. Make your life stress freer and stop obsessing over would you think you should or not do. Truthfully? I think you are paying attention to this way too much. You're tracking her movements. Ya, it's a nice thought about warning the next guy but I'm reading beyond that a touch of bitterness on your part. Understandable but not healthy. Especially, when you are in a new relationship. It's going to taint it.

Contact NVC and the Embassy. You may have to follow up in writing. Ask them what you need to do. As far as 18 months of lies. Sighhh... that's going to need some serious time to think through and so on. You did your part. My own personal experience is I had married a woman a long time ago and I thought she was a wonderful person and so on. Lot's of good moments, some not so good. Then the mask came off and I was dealing with a Borderline/Histrionic Personality disorder situation. She found a victim, married him and then after a while he lies about who she was as a person were exposed. It's taken years to get over that. I would say it's time to get some counseling or a support group, have a beer or 10. Learn from the experience. See if you can hind sight spot the signs that may have told you that something else was going on. Truly sorry you had to go through this.

Contact NVC and the Embassy. You may have to follow up in writing. Ask them what you need to do. As far as 18 months of lies. Sighhh... that's going to need some serious time to think through and so on. You did your part. My own personal experience is I had married a woman a long time ago and I thought she was a wonderful person and so on. Lot's of good moments, some not so good. Then the mask came off and I was dealing with a Borderline/Histrionic Personality disorder situation. She found a victim, married him and then after a while he lies about who she was as a person were exposed. It's taken years to get over that. I would say it's time to get some counseling or a support group, have a beer or 10. Learn from the experience. See if you can hind sight spot the signs that may have told you that something else was going on. Truly sorry you had to go through this.

Contact NVC and the Embassy. You may have to follow up in writing. Ask them what you need to do. As far as 18 months of lies. Sighhh... that's going to need some serious time to think through and so on. You did your part. My own personal experience is I had married a woman a long time ago and I thought she was a wonderful person and so on. Lot's of good moments, some not so good. Then the mask came off and I was dealing with a Borderline/Histrionic Personality disorder situation. She found a victim, married him and then after a while he lies about who she was as a person were exposed. It's taken years to get over that. I would say it's time to get some counseling or a support group, have a beer or 10. Learn from the experience. See if you can hind sight spot the signs that may have told you that something else was going on. Truly sorry you had to go through this.

Contact NVC and the Embassy. You may have to follow up in writing. Ask them what you need to do. As far as 18 months of lies. Sighhh... that's going to need some serious time to think through and so on. You did your part. My own personal experience is I had married a woman a long time ago and I thought she was a wonderful person and so on. Lot's of good moments, some not so good. Then the mask came off and I was dealing with a Borderline/Histrionic Personality disorder situation. She found a victim, married him and then after a while he lies about who she was as a person were exposed. It's taken years to get over that. I would say it's time to get some counseling or a support group, have a beer or 10. Learn from the experience. See if you can hind sight spot the signs that may have told you that something else was going on. Truly sorry you had to go through this.

I have been here my friend i have a kid with the clown too
First be happy she didnt get here that idiot!!
Second you can write the embassy and or NVC.
If and when you do a second petition you will need to file a imbra waiver due to having an approved k 1 in less than two years (if you file less the two years of your k1 approval).
Now kneel and thank god this lovely person didnt get past you and get here and have you on a afdavit or visa.
You lucked out as did i
I interview january 2015 with ex fiancee approved pending DNA TESTING then the looser got a Visa via his dad and dropped mine.
I cancelled
2nd k1 submitted march 2016 approved waiting for visa now interview 8/19 my ex was not even mentioned!??
Good luck

Short answer is many people file AOS years and years after getting married without a problem. A new medical is required. All the other requirements for AOS are the same. I would expect by now you have lots and lots of relationship/marriage evidence. Right? Stop worrying, stalling and just get it done.