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I thought the PI didn't allow co-sponsors. How did this woman even get here?
I was thinking the same thing when I reread the thread.
This caught my eye.
"No, I can not afford any help. I will empty what is left in my 401k (had to use since 2011 layoff, near empty now) to buy her a ticket and fly her home. Other than that, I can not even buy food for the week. So, no, can not afford one."
So, he's been laid off since 2011 and living off of his 401(k)?
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They took his passport which is a good sign but it's possible they did an additional review after the interview and need more information. They have not contacted him to pick up his passport.
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I second the comment on DO NOT FILE FOR THE I - 864 AOS - DO NOT!
From the story and this may be part of the problem. The OP is flat broke and and has been for a while and can't file I-184 or anything because there is no money for the fees.
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Question: Whose biological kids do they belong? You are talking like typical person in abusiveness relationship trying to find excuses to keep going with the relationship. Please don't. Safety first. Emotional well being first. .You are trying to deal with a dangerous person. What happens if you are not there and she does something to the kids or burns the house down? Can you live with that? Do what others have suggested. Calmly, and I mean it... Calmy grant her wish and get her on a plane. If she says, "You don't love me, why would you send me home." Don't argue with her for anything. Absolutely do not argue with her. Walk away. Don't say a word. Stay calm. This way, she loses power over the situation. If she cuts herself. Dial 911. Let the emergency people handle it. They will put her in 51/50 situation.
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Calm down if you can. Get some counseling, get a lawyer, get a divorce, get a restraining order, document everything. She can't destroy you. I don't know where you have been getting your information about possible consequences but stop. It's not true. Do not listen to her threats. Do not ever restrain her in any way. Call the police the moment she makes a threat, throws something or hits you or the kids. Do not, I repeat not let her anywhere near you or the kids without a witness you can trust. Yes, you can divorce even if she is in Asia. Document the history of abuse... calmly. Your story is all over the place. I understand your fears and frustrations but you need to take a bunch of deep breaths and start thinking instead of reacting and venting. With this kind of situation.. your done. Save yourself and the kids. Quit talking about it. Start doing things about it. I might catch hell on this from some other posters, but I know what it's like to live with a psychotic person. Also be aware she may be setting you up for a domestic violence charge to use for future status filings. Don't give her the chance. You already screwed up twice by restraining her.
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Apologies, I did not you were the USC. Next question. This is an I-130 and you are living abroad. Have you met the established residency requirements? You can look them up on the internet. This is similar.
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First things first. What visa you coming in on and who is sponsoring you?
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Regardless of either story, I think the consensus is his B1 B2 is dead and he is out of luck. With a dead B1 B2 and a dead K-1 if he wasn't able to re-validate, slim or no chance on that maybe, any attempt in the near future to obtain another visa is going to be, well, we know how difficult that will be.
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I went to america on K1 VISA and before getting married I came back to my country because we thought we may not be ready this time. 10 days after we both decided yes we are ready and we want to marry one another because we do really love one another and cannot be a part anymore. Is there any chance to me to ask for renew my K1 visa since we still not passed the 90 days of my first entry ?
My K1 visa is already expired but I have a valid B1/B2 visa which I do not want to use it for married. The B1/B2 visa I have is valid still.
Does she need to apply again for me for the second K1 visa ?
Does waiver is reqired for her if she has to apply again for the second K1 VISA?
Is there anyone can help please ?
I am planning on going to surprise my fiance in U.S but I am scared if they denied me to enter the U.S I have a valid B2 B1 visa. I was in U.S 2 weeks ago on my K1 visa but due to my family emergency I had to come back. Now my fiance is really super mad at me and want her to know I love her and care about her. The B2 B1 visa I have I got it before I get my K1 visa.
Is there any chance to not let me to enter? this cause a real problem for me to go there in the future?
OK, there are two different threads with 2 different stories. One has the finance mad and not talking and there was a family emergency. The other has you both decided to call it off and now you want to get back together. Which story is right?
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Work Visa H1B are done and paid for completely by the employer. The requirement is usually that you have to have a skill that can't be done by many people already in the United States. So, a common job will not qualify for an H1B visa. Please look up on the forum for H1B.
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Welcome to the forum and good luck. 13 years is a long time. Some countries are up to 20+ years. Also, you may find that visiting your sister may be more difficult to get tourist visa. You can only try. Chances are, she will have to visit you if you want to see each other. Your children might be able to get student visas later on but you and your husband will be difficult no matter what.
Do you know how soon your sister can become a U.S. citizen if she passes the requirements? You have to add those years to the 13 year time.
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You can try and re validate your K-1, get back to U.S and get married within the remaining limit. Some people say yes, you can do this, some people no.
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1) You don't currently have a working relationship. If this is not fixed then forget it.
2) You have to get back through POE and I'm pretty sure they are going to ask you a few extra questions about why you left and returning.
3) Is there realistically enough time to get this done?
4) We are not relationship counselors and we don't know the details. From previous postings you can pretty much get an idea of what most posters are thinking.
Good Luck on this. If you don't get it done then you have to start all over. K-1 or CR-1.
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Everyone has their own situation. I am sorry to hear that you are away from home most of the day. That is a problem in itself for any marriage. My personal opinion is 7 weeks is too long. 2-3 weeks max. There is a ton of things she needs to be doing. English lessons maybe? Job resume and searches? Learn the transportation systems and local places? Does she have a driver's license? You guys can share the domestic duties but being home allows her to do an item or 2 a day just to help out. Do some charity work. Check out the ethnic communities and support groups. However, hanging out with the family is just going to cause you a ton of problems. Does she think family comes first before you? Is her family now your family and you're expected to support her support them? Is age a factor where emotional maturity makes her want to spend more time in the comfort of her own family. Check out the Philippine forum. I bet there a lot of threads with similar themes. A word of warning. 2 items. 1) Don't get trapped into financial supporting her family. 2) Don't let her take a job that belongs to a family member or family friend. You are part of a 2 person relationship. Boundaries and lines sometimes have to be drawn for the heath of the relationship. You are trying to cater to her feelings. What? You don't have feelings in this? If she is not at least considering your feelings than she is being a bit selfish.Yes, she uprooted herself but she should have been prepared knowing the situation. Right now what you describe your life as is an extended vacation for the two of you.
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I marked my husband as single instead of married by mistake. I receive an RFE from USCIS wanting g and explaination as to why I marked him single.
Well..... because I was 9 months pregnant at the time and in the hospital passing kidney stones.
How do I explain it? Just write a letter telling them it was a mistake that we are still married?
Advice?!?!?!?
Pretty much. Send a copy of the marriage certificate to go with the letter.
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Who knows with the IRS. It's like NVC and USCIS. It could be 4 weeks or 4 months. It's not fraud. It's an honest mistake and explainable. If you want you could probably attach a copy of the amended return with signature and let them know it's been filed or will file. Can't make the decision for you on this one. All I can say is in my opinion the risk is minimal.
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It's a discrepancy to the marriage date but you have the marriage certificate. I can tell you that the IRS usually takes about 12-16 weeks to process amended returns although yours is pretty easy. Chances are that the only thing that will change on the return is the filing status to Married filing separately. If she filed jointly you would have to file an amended return also. I think you could get away with what you have but attach an explanation letter to the transcript.
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Visit and file another K1
Or marry.
+1 on this answer and Facetime, Facetime, Facetime. You don't have enough recent time together. I'm sorry this happened to you. There are many similar threads that say the same thing. Proof of relationship is #1 priority in most cases and not seeing each other for 2 1/2 years is probably what caused the denial.
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Current situation but he might have to explain why it went from additional 2 dependents to 0.
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(603) 334-0700To check the status of your application after receiving instructions from the National Visa Center, send an e-mail to NVCINQUIRY@state.gov, call in the United States (603) 334-0700, or write to: 32 Rochester Ave., Portsmouth, NH 03801-2909. -
I dunno, you may think it's restrictive to get charged for owning a BB gun but yet here in the US you can be shot dead for having one sooo
Pointing something at a police officer that looks anything like a firearm is going to get you shot if the police officer feels threatened. Big difference than finding a BB Gun in a private residence bedroom just lying there.
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Asylum is not available for domestic violence but she certainly needs to find supportive help such as a shelter for battered women.
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Damn, that really is restrictive. My personal opinion is that your brother should never have been charged in the first place. What a bunch of ____ the police were. Did the father have a legal right to own a BB Gun? Doesn't matter. Done is done but remind me never to go near a firearm in Australia.
Hmm, wonder what they would think if the looked under my bed!
Probably lock you up and throw away the key.
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That is certainly a topic for debate. How many divorces happen over argument after argument concerning finances. I've cringed many times when I see people post about how broke they are and scrambling for a co-sponsor and I'm thinking to myself. "You're trying to bring someone into the U.S. and start a life together and you're flat broke and your income potential is not looking too good and you're probably depending on that person to help you out." Love is great but common sense has to kick in somewhere.