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A student visa is a nonimmigrant visa; it would be visa fraud to bring someone to the US with the preconceived intention to have them remain and adjust status.
The proper course of action would be a K-1, or get married and then file for a CR-1.

Hi everyone! March 19th, 2015 filer here. Good luck and a speedy process to all!

Hurray for Greensboro, NC!!!! Welcome!!
To the OP, I think it would be okay to start job searching when you arrive. As others have said, if you land an interview before you get your EAD, just explain that your authorization to work is in progress and on its way. Most applications here have a "date you can start", and you can make it for a few months out. Since it is a professional job, maybe you could include something in your cover letter to explain why the date is set for so long after your application. Good luck with your job hunt!!

I'm in software industry myself.
By the time...
1) you search for appropriate jobs
2) submit resume (tons of them) and patiently wait for someone to contact back
(typically job recruiters will be the first to respond)
3) get scheduled for initial screening interview (by HR or recruiting firm)
4) get scheduled for a quick phone interview with actual hiring department manager
5) get face-to-face interview with the the hiring manager at their company
6) for hiring company to turnaround an offer letter to you
7) for you to negotiate the contract/job terms
these things can easily take 2 to 3 months.
Therefore, I think it's perfectly legit to start the job search.
In recent months, I've seen many EAD approvals occurring in about 2.5 months.
Once you get to the interview, just let them know about the EAD processing,
and since many aren't familiar with the immigration...also explain that you do not
need sponsorship as you are filing for GC on your own.

Request expedite with explanation & proof @ NVC don't withdraw
or have a reception party for dads benefit NOT WEDDING he should
understand

Your transcripts will only prove you went to the same school together, not that you actually met.

Only the US petitioner's finances are considered. The finances of the foreign fiancé are not considered.

you could rent a u-haul and drive down with allayer stuff.

I can't offer you any more advice than other users have provided, I just wanted to chime in and say I'm sorry that this happened to you, and I wish you the very best of luck in this situation.

This sounds like a super messy divorce!! Hopefully you and a good legal team can get it all sorted out. I would start recording any interaction you have with her. Record phone calls, texts, any thing that can be used against her or where she may say something that could make it sound like she is trying to screw you out of money, or anything else. Also be careful of all contact that you have with her.
It is sad that what was such a genuine thing turned so sour. Hopefully you can move on without too much whiplash from the current circumstance.

Ok u need to cover your self firstly voicemail telephone conversation try record on your phone secondly contact uscis let them know whats going on because you r the one whose responsible for her through marriage and affidavit of support, she cant force a child on you because u have to sign acknowledge ment of being the father on the registry of birth , she could lie that she paid u for green card thus implicating u in fraud, if not she could still maintain her green card status falsely stating that she is a battered wife

Can probably guarantee that 99% of people on here have met online.

Miss, the reason people are saying these things is because they believe you're missing the point. And of course, this is all based on what you told us. Based on everything youve said--other than you uncle's issue--you have a relationship that appears to be full of red flags. So while you may have originally brought up your uncle, you opened the conversation to additional information by which everyone here is replying. No one wants you to fail. We're all in the same boat and have our own issues to deal with. But I've learned that people are incredibly frank and honest on VJ because they want to help. There's no sugar coating the immigration process, and the sooner you understand the learn from people, the easier it may make your journey. You may not like what people have to say, but they only want to help.

Terri. I'm going to be real with you.
Granted you may not like a single thing I'm going to say here, but here goes.
I don't really care if your story is legit or fake, okay? I'm not one to question whom one falls in love with and the differences they may encounter.
You have consistently posted misleading and evasively contradictory statements. As this is a site where people generally care about each other and want to help: there are things that YOU need to clear up or this will not continue in a positive manner. Help people help you. Or don't. If you don't then no one will be able to help you or continue taking you seriously.
I can guarantee to you, that the United States government does not care one iota about your hardships or difficulty, how good you think your photos are (real or photoshopped), or the circumstances regarding why you can't be in the same room or have to stand below a balcony with a person you say you want to be your husband. They don't care about roses or towels or love stories. They do not care how much you think you love him and how much you think you can make this work. They don't even care about the money you sent with your application either.
What they care about is fraud, people becoming a burden to their system, and the protection of their citizens.
Under the theme of fraud - many things you have stated raise red flags. Severe red flags, that I don't believe a person viewing your petition would be able to overcome positively without more information. Reality can be painful and harsh, but that's the way things are. The people who have sent petitions in here, and have been waiting for months and years to be with their loved ones, they have endured extreme hardships, painful separations, differences in cultures, and scrutiny. Don't think for a second that people don't understand the reality of hardship, because they do. This is something we take seriously. No one here wants to be hostile with you, but you're making it impossible for a person not to react that way.
I've had my say now, and I think what I've said is fairly reasonable and polite, if you are willing to calm down and actually start answering questions that do in fact pertain to if your case will be successful or not. Because trust me, it isn't about who's uncle ran off with whom right now, or even religious differences that you even need to be concerned about at the top of the list -- it's a whole host of other things. As it stands now, there is a high likelihood your case will not be successful. Sorry, but that's how life is.

According to the I129-F Instructions, you only need one for yourself and one for your fiance.
http://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/files/form/i-129finstr.pdf
"Submit two completed and signed Forms G-325A, Biographic Information; one for you and one for your
beneficiary. Except for name and signature, you do not have to repeat the information given on your Form I-129F."

Unless you are under immediate threat at your neighborhood you will not have much luck. Even when Nigeria with all the silliness there you don't see expediates

Just to clarify (in general, I'm not commenting anything about this particular case): abuse isn't having power over somebody, it's USING the power against the other person that makes it abuse.

Just to clarify (in general, I'm not commenting anything about this particular case): abuse isn't having power over somebody, it's USING the power against the other person that makes it abuse.

Just to clarify (in general, I'm not commenting anything about this particular case): abuse isn't having power over somebody, it's USING the power against the other person that makes it abuse.

If you are doubting your fiance that doesn't seem like a good start.
If USCIS cashed your check they have accepted the application. Incomplete applications are returned to sender. You typically receive the NOA-1 within 2-3 weeks upon submission.
I am not sure what you mean by 'written love story' - USCIS is not interested in those nor are they required for the petition.

Just to clarify (in general, I'm not commenting anything about this particular case): abuse isn't having power over somebody, it's USING the power against the other person that makes it abuse.

Just to clarify (in general, I'm not commenting anything about this particular case): abuse isn't having power over somebody, it's USING the power against the other person that makes it abuse.

People are making this far more difficult than it really is. Simply tell them you met online and leave it at that. Period. If further on down the road they ask where you met online, tell them. They may ask, they may not. I met my husband online and when I attended the interview with him the CO asked where online, we told him and that was the end of it. EHarmony is not an IMBRA

I think you should mention E Harmony. Since a lot of adjudicators are looking to see that the site is legit and not some fly by night operation, the fact that it has such a big name like E Harmony should be seen as something good.

The 90 days begin when you arrive to USA.