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On dec 13 2018 I received a notification that my new card is being mailed. The first time I submitted my roc was in august 25 2017. I had got divorced in march 15 2018. I didn't go to any interviews or anything. I feel lucky because I skipped that part. I didn't submit any rfes regarding the bona fida. I had them prepared.  I did it all without a lawyer, just searching things up online and gathering documents and organizing my package.

8:00 Am they clock in.
8:35 Am they finish their coffee.
8:50 Am they take a 10 min break. 
9:15 Am they are back.
9:40 Am restroom break.
10:00 Am Facebook/ IG time
11:15 Am check thousands of lunch
menu
2:30 Pm they come back from lunch
2:55 PM after lunch break is over. 
3:00 PM they check 1 or 2 cases. 
3:35 PM they restroom break
3:45 PM they coffee break. (Spill the coffee on our cases) 
4:00 PM they send RFE to those cases. 
4:25 PM the system froze. 
4:35 PM system is back online.(a bunch of Case get Received by loal offices) 
4:45 PM they get ready to leave. 
4:59 PM clock out. 

definitely. I think if he is married and is going to change his immigration status then it is his responsibility to let his sponsor " the school" know about it. I think OP went little over with the description of bullying. no Legit university does that. Perhaps to let them know about him changing his status but not him asking permission to get married. 

For the previous comment. This is a forum regarding immigration and my question is regarding that. It does not necessarily mean I am worried about my status more than family issues but also it does not necessarily mean I'll screw myself over and not plan time ahead. My question is based many incidents that I only mentioned a very small portion.

Also, VAWA does not apply to green card holders.

You do not have proof of commingling finances. The chance to have the GC renewed is practically non existent.

You sound like you have a lot of authority in your statement than your initial post portrays.
You were asking if you should "make him..." do this " make him sign.." that and I'm thinking, how are you going "to make" an abusive aggressive horrible man (do.." things out of his own will.
When did all these behaviors start?
If you can "make him" do things why are not able to do things that you wanna do? Like getting a job, getting a driver's license (you could get a state ID, no need to know how to drive).
If you are done with the relationship then it is best to walk away. But if you wanna give it a chance, then channel your energy in building your life together.
Some times people will discourage you from doing things.Like applying for jobs, moving to a new place, etc because they are scared for you. You have to prove to yourself that you've got it and they will be confident in you also.
Your husband doesn't want you to work but you have access to computer, so what do you do with the opportunity? He may not be happy when you apply for a job, he might enough discourage you about getting an interview or even starting your first day but it is all up to you to stay focus and not listen to the chatter. He will believe in your strength when you sail through.
Good luck to you.

Yes, but why wait? The EAD based on AOS is free anyway. Getting it as soon as possible doesn't hurt.

I use Turbotax.

There's no law that says you have to *stay* married to your spouse trough whom you obtained a GC. Things happen, life happens. You can file the petition without your spouse, requesting a waiver for the joint filing. It's best to file with the divorce decree in hand BUT don't let your GC expire without submitting the petition, regardless if the divorce is final or not. See the I751 Waiver Filers thread for more information and scenarios related to divorce. Good luck!

I had two Vawa cases approved, one she was married for 24 hours, the other case the guy was married for 6 days.The length of the marriage doesn't matter for VAWA,but it matters the intent when entering into marriage.
It seems you have a VAWA case,you didn't poSt anything before regarding abuse and we are not mind readers.Join the thread VAWA part 6.

Sorry I think you can't do much more. I'll say be happy she didn't end up with you and probably leave the country in a legal way. I won't recommend staying illegally in the country, but yet 11 million have stayed illegally. ?️

so what is your question?
Do you wanna give him hell or yall are going through this amicably?

Follow the checklist in the letter and Include all real copies of anything you sent in the packages

Just got an update today...
New Card Is Being ProducedOn July 30, 2015, we ordered your new card for Receipt Number MSC**********, and will mail it to the addrss you gave us. If you move, go towww.uscis.gov/addresschange to give us your new mailing address


No other notice saying my green card is approved, and it is my AOS receipt number.

So im assuming ive been approved?

This screams of immigration fraud. So you will need to prove a long term, solid, bona fide relationship. The petitioner (the US citizen submits the paperwork, not the alien spouse) supplies all the needed documentation. Being incarcerated doesn't relieve her of any requirements. She will be the primary sponsor regardless of income. Not having a current income will mean that they need to find a joint sponsor.
Again, prepare for a high level of scrutiny in your case. Arriving on a tourist visa with the intent to immigrate is against the law. Arriving from Nigeria makes the chore that much more difficult.

Actually after last night I have decided to end it with her. I am only s human being and I only have so much capacity to fight for a marriage to be good. yesterday I took her to an art gallery and I mentioned to her before that I may go see my friend afterward who I have not spent time with for almost a month. I told her she was invited due to her previous accusations that I don't invite her because I don't want her to be there. she said she was okay with it. then later on when we got home after the art gallery it was nine pm. I was putting proper clothes on and she said she is feeling tired and if we can go out tomorrow [saturday]. I said yes definitely. then she said that I must be happy that she cant go so I can do my own thing. I said what do you mean be happy ? there is no legitimate reason for me to be happy. I understand you're tired. ill go see him for an hour and return. she said oh thats you do all the time. you wanna go hang out with your friends and leave me here like a slave. you don't want t be around me. I said to her that I was with her the whole day and took her out to the art gallery and even got her dinner. she said that doesn't count. the whole time the daughter was down stairs listening to our conversation. she then said to go abd lick my friend's ###. I am probably gay or something. I said to her not to say this kind of things in front the daughter. it is inappropriate also I am not gay because I go visit a friend. then she kept calling me names like mother ef and worthless and same thing...not care for her and this is all I do. I told her she is selfish for tripping on me for leaving for one or two hours to visit a friend and she has trust issues. she said she will eventually trust me. I said when like ten years from now? I am not going to live like this. it is not my fault. she said she wanted me to stay home with her coz she wasn't feeling good but I dont care. I said you're always not feeling good when I happen to be out of your sight. like she even questions me for my job. asks me if I talk to any attractive girls there and if I'm going to meet someone who will treat me better st my new job. I told her that I can no longer argue as I have my energy drained out. I am leaving the house. then she said oh wow you don't even care.l. and that if I leave then it is my decision to separate and thst is my choice. I said I am not makt a choice. why every thing has to either go your way or it is over. I told her I no longer care and I am leaving. she said f u you go choose the world. come tomorrow and pack ypur stuff to leave.

Actually after last night I have decided to end it with her. I am only s human being and I only have so much capacity to fight for a marriage to be good. yesterday I took her to an art gallery and I mentioned to her before that I may go see my friend afterward who I have not spent time with for almost a month. I told her she was invited due to her previous accusations that I don't invite her because I don't want her to be there. she said she was okay with it. then later on when we got home after the art gallery it was nine pm. I was putting proper clothes on and she said she is feeling tired and if we can go out tomorrow [saturday]. I said yes definitely. then she said that I must be happy that she cant go so I can do my own thing. I said what do you mean be happy ? there is no legitimate reason for me to be happy. I understand you're tired. ill go see him for an hour and return. she said oh thats you do all the time. you wanna go hang out with your friends and leave me here like a slave. you don't want t be around me. I said to her that I was with her the whole day and took her out to the art gallery and even got her dinner. she said that doesn't count. the whole time the daughter was down stairs listening to our conversation. she then said to go abd lick my friend's ###. I am probably gay or something. I said to her not to say this kind of things in front the daughter. it is inappropriate also I am not gay because I go visit a friend. then she kept calling me names like mother ef and worthless and same thing...not care for her and this is all I do. I told her she is selfish for tripping on me for leaving for one or two hours to visit a friend and she has trust issues. she said she will eventually trust me. I said when like ten years from now? I am not going to live like this. it is not my fault. she said she wanted me to stay home with her coz she wasn't feeling good but I dont care. I said you're always not feeling good when I happen to be out of your sight. like she even questions me for my job. asks me if I talk to any attractive girls there and if I'm going to meet someone who will treat me better st my new job. I told her that I can no longer argue as I have my energy drained out. I am leaving the house. then she said oh wow you don't even care.l. and that if I leave then it is my decision to separate and thst is my choice. I said I am not makt a choice. why every thing has to either go your way or it is over. I told her I no longer care and I am leaving. she said f u you go choose the world. come tomorrow and pack ypur stuff to leave.

I just want to post something about mental illness and abuse since the thread is taking that turn.
Suffering from mental illness is not a choice. However how you deal with it is. There are many people that choose to live with someone that suffers from a mental illness. I am uncomfortable saying to someone -oh if your spouse suffers from a condition then flee, run like the wind. Because again many people do stay.
With that said I do believe that if the person is not willing to get any help then you should not stay. This is my personal opinion. Anyone in a relationship with someone that is mentally ill and has a successful relationship has things in common. One being the person is actively seeking treatment. With out that key piece its not going to work.
When I read what the OP posted I see a man who is very committed to his wife and does not seek to leave. He wants things better but it is not something he can do alone. Again Im going to push the book walking on eggshells as parts of it describe how to help the person you love that is suffering from a mental illness be encouraged to get help. It also has a section about 'abuse' and encourages the reader to as described in some posts not tolerate living with abuse and to protect themselves.

My soon to be ex had some problem. Read about boardline personality disorder. If you post your story on bpdfamlies.com moderator and other reader will give you confirmation of this. It is very difficult to live with such people who has bpd issue. Also you need to train yourself to lead a tough life. It is not easy. They will spend all your money and accuse you lot that you are cheating on them. They will accuse you of having affair. And they will behave very childish and very inscure. In short they will drain your life and one day when you stop paying attention on them they will run into other guy and will cheat you. She has serious bpd problem. It is not easy to treat people with bpd. If they regularly visit coucelling and take medication it take years to see improvement. Read book called " walking on eggshell". You will see your own life in that book. Also save your money. Take care buddy.

I was married to this, the first time. Attempt counseling. However, if she doesn't accept the idea, or if she doesn't continue with the program, or if she attempts changes that don't endure, leave without looking back.
Spending time in encounters like these inevitably drain our emotional reservoirs south of a healthy level. This is not a partnership, marriage, or relationship.

You are very welcome.
I believe the two year's conditional starts counting on the day your green card is approved (according to the paper you get from the interviewer that explains conditional status).

Your local office, Dallas, states their processing time as July 9, 2014. That means if you filed after this, you still have to wait before you can do anything. If you filed before that date, you should call the NCSC at 1-800-375-5283 (or file online service request). Of course you can still try and call them even if you filed after the processing time to make sure you are not missing any updates (online status can sometimes be inaccurate), but they will likely tell you that you are still in the normal processing time.

Your AOS is immediate relative(family based), but you are not adjusting from a family based visa. You entered the US with an F-1. Your visa type does not change because you married a USC. You are adjusting from a student visa, and that is why this is the correct forum for your AOS postings.

If it has not changed to "mailed" then your card is still being processed.No tracking number was given for me, mine arrived the next day.
Just relax and wait.