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    StarGirl got a reaction from mt89 in Husband doesn't want to file papers   
    I feel that I need to back up those who feel that OP's story is well... fishy.
    I am Russian. I have been learning English since I was 7. I have US college degree and US Master's degree. I lived in US for a good while. But by no means my English is so flawless as OP's. I read through all her posts and I couldn't detect EVEN ONE Русицизм. If your English is so perfect after only two years in US, thumbs up girl, you must be genius. If that's the case, I suggest you putting your brains to digging yourself out of the situation you are claiming you are in.
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    StarGirl reacted to Harmonia in Husband Deportation   
    When you put it that way, I agree! How dare he bore you so. You sacrificed bringing him here and married him, and even got him a bank account that he fills with his money earned by working! He should have stayed in his home country.
    I suggest you write to USCIS and tell them about this fraud ASAP. He works, bought a car, and saves money. We don't need people like this in the US. He sounds highly suspect. I think he's up to no good. The first clue is that he STOPPED buying you flowers. That's definitely suspicious.
    Also, he can't assimilate to American life. We ALL eat on the couch, and watch tv all day long. And drink different juices! I think he'll fail with ROC because the juice issue shows your marriage is fake. Who won't drink different juices? Only a fraudster.
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    StarGirl reacted to Randyandyuni in Husband Deportation   
    I will not make a disparaging remark, you are an amazing woman, good luck with your next X, I hear the he 3rd time is a charm.
    Narcissism has a new champion
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    StarGirl reacted to Unlockable in Husband Deportation   
    Try increasing your medication.
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    StarGirl reacted to Cody and Daisy in denied petition   
    I'm going to ignore the fact it does sound like all you want is a green card and focus on your marriage.How have you been surviving?
    Where have you been living?
    If you and your husband have not been together for three years but are trying to be, then I don't understand what you've been doing all this time.
    Things to remember.
    - you are officially out of status and illegal in america.
    - a green card for you is based on a bonafied marriage that is real and works, yours isn't working so high chance for denial again.
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    StarGirl reacted to Villanelle in My husband was denied citizenship due to "lack of moral character" and the fact that he was "inadmissable as a legal resident"   
    Okay.
    So lets start over with just the facts:
    He was on a H1b. (work visa)- He married her and an 130 was applied for. They were divorced. The 130 was pulled/cancelled Dec 2008
    You and he married April 2009. You filed a 130. He received a GC June 2010. Removed conditions. Waited 5 years. Filed the n400. Got denied- based on the fact of moral character and inadmissibility at time of gc issuance.
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    Now we are not privy to all your paperwork. And I really hate when people post things like they said yada yada yada and they told us blah blah blah. Because its like who is they? An officer? A phone rep? A man in a suit in a private office or a lady in the front window? Where did they say yada yada yada and blah blah? On a form in the mail weeks later? In the interview? On the phone?
    Emotions run high in situations like this and people tend to have selective hearing and speak over others. And often words are misused. So friendly tip- you cant misuse a word when dealing/talking/asking a question to USCIS. They wont correct you or ask you to correct yourself like Penguin did. They would just keep repeating back the same robotic answer to you spinning you in circles even if they knew what you meant (we have no record of you applying for citizenship in 2008, again and again Instead of saying dont you mean visa or adjustment)
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    So moving on.
    Because of the lack of info you provided- heres what could happen. They denied the citizenship. It could simply end there. Lots of people are denied citizenship for moral character and thats that. They are able to renew their GCs every 10 yrs w/o issue after being denied citizenship. Being denied citizenship doesnt automatically mean you cant renew your card anymore.
    Whats troublesome is the part about them finding him inadmissible at the time his GC was issued. IF (and they can) decide to go back and revoke the card he obtained through his marriage to you because they feel he was not eligble for it- they would send him a NTA (notice to appear) for immigration court- as Boiler stated only an Immigration Judge can revoke his status.'
    If you do get such a notice you will have to fight it out in court and it will be terribly expensive in lawyers fees and missed work. Immigration court moves slooooow. Lawyers cost lots of money and there are plenty of forms and fees and appeals and missed days of work to eat away at all your rainy day savings...
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    As for the arrrgh outrage. Its great to let it out- vent it out- get it out. If youve got a free consult- tell it to the lawyer but its not going to win your case or make its way into the court, cause aint no one wanna hear it baby. He didnt have to apply. Too bad. He did. He applied. its done. He didnt need her for benefits. Well then. I guess thats it. Hes innocent. Case over. No. Whats done is done. He applied.
    (sorry if the above sounds harsh but read through some court decisions and youll see theres never any ####### like that in cases presented in immigration court).
    Dont matter if the GC hes got is under your 130 now. A record exists where he applied under her name and she swears its fraud. USCISs position is with that 'new evidence' they feel his current GC should not have been approved. (ie if they knew about that then they wouldnt have approved him) You will have to prove if it goes to court that your relationship is legitimate and he is entitled to the GC he has.
    If you clear that up you shouldnt have a problem with the n400 since thats what the denial was based upon.
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    StarGirl reacted to Lainie B in Getting married after 90 days of entering the U.S with a K-1 visa   
    Get married in a courthouse within the 90 days, then have the big ceremony and reception with your family and friends when you are ready. Lots of people do it this way.
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    StarGirl reacted to afoyoswa in Any February 2012 filers?   
    Hmm, the link got messed up: here's the photo again.

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    StarGirl got a reaction from Autumnal in Husband doesn't want to file papers   
    I feel that I need to back up those who feel that OP's story is well... fishy.
    I am Russian. I have been learning English since I was 7. I have US college degree and US Master's degree. I lived in US for a good while. But by no means my English is so flawless as OP's. I read through all her posts and I couldn't detect EVEN ONE Русицизм. If your English is so perfect after only two years in US, thumbs up girl, you must be genius. If that's the case, I suggest you putting your brains to digging yourself out of the situation you are claiming you are in.
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    StarGirl reacted to Laurka in It's not meant to be rude. Just a general observation.   
    I'm not starting this topic to offend anybody or to start a beef just for the beef sake. After several months of being on this very helpful forum (it's a life saver in many cases! ), I have this general observation that people do not even bother to read instructions and guides. It seems they don't even bother to use a search engine to look for answers to their questions, but just bluntly create a new topic to ask their question that has been asked 3 to 5 times the very same day. Sometimes there are several topics one under the other(s) about the same thing. It makes the forum bigger and bigger mess every day.
    I know this process is long, exhausting and above all confusing at many points. It really is and also has been for me. I always try to help whenever I'm logged in and I'm able to help (when I know how), because this is the main purpose of the forum -- to help and support each other. But even earlier today I read posts in a topic from more experienced forum members that the question about Texas lockobx and Texas Sevice Center comes up way too often and perhaps should be pinned somewhere to be visible. When I browse through the K1 forum, I see more and more replies that are only like "Read the guides" or "Follow this link", because these are basic questions!
    It's all there in the Guides, in the Downloads, on the Visa FAQs etc. My plead for new users especially is to first research and read, and then if your question/issue is still not answered or it's very specific to formulate a question on the forum.
    I wish you all a good day and above all as smooth visa journey as possible!
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    StarGirl got a reaction from Bill and Tanya in 5 year ban - file for waiver before i129f?   
    Immigrate2us.net has tons of information about waivers. Also, there you can find names of trusted immigration attorneys who specialize in this part of immigration law. I personally would consider giving two or three of such lawyers a call to hear their opinions. Some of them are giving free first consultation so you can get a clear vision of your situation and act accordingly.
    I hope everything works out for you.
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    StarGirl got a reaction from B_J in 5 year ban - file for waiver before i129f?   
    Immigrate2us.net has tons of information about waivers. Also, there you can find names of trusted immigration attorneys who specialize in this part of immigration law. I personally would consider giving two or three of such lawyers a call to hear their opinions. Some of them are giving free first consultation so you can get a clear vision of your situation and act accordingly.
    I hope everything works out for you.
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    StarGirl got a reaction from san diego in 5 year ban - file for waiver before i129f?   
    Immigrate2us.net has tons of information about waivers. Also, there you can find names of trusted immigration attorneys who specialize in this part of immigration law. I personally would consider giving two or three of such lawyers a call to hear their opinions. Some of them are giving free first consultation so you can get a clear vision of your situation and act accordingly.
    I hope everything works out for you.
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    StarGirl reacted to Theresa0828 in My life, my love, my world, my home, my everything...   
    I am not here to ask advices or anything..
    Just want to share that my husband passed away this morning... peacefully... he had brain cancer and we have been fighting for more than a year now... there was a point in our fight that we thought we are winning... but we lost... i am just thankful that he passed away peacefully... in his sleep, and i got the chance to tell him everyday that i love him... and that he is my love, my life, my world, my home and my everything...
    Whenever I read people here posting marriage not working out, just using me for greencard, giving up... and a lot of things... i am so sad...
    I found the perfect husband... the perfect person... and yet he was taken away from me in such a short time...
    I promise I will honor his name... i will honor our love... and I do not think I could love other person as much as I loved him... and still loving him... my love for him will not die until my last breath...
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    StarGirl reacted to Gary and Alla in Thanksgiving   
    So no one mentioned Thanksgiving. Happy Thanksgiving, a bit late. Sometimes it takes a special day to realize what we need to be thankful for.
    Alla called me this morning very upset that one of her classmate's husband had been in a terrible car accident this morning and was, at that moment, fighting for his life in Intensive care. He is in his 20's. As of an hour ago, no update yet.
    So that didn't happen to us today.
    Then I got to work and learned that a very nice young lady in our office, age 26, has lost her battle against Ovarian cancer and will die soon. There is nothing more they can do for her. Now, she is a very nice young woman and I learned today that she is from a wealthy family and donated ALL her salary to a children's charity (she could not have children) She married a nice young man two years ago. She had no need to work but enjoyed it and gave away ALL her earnings. When she learned she was dying, she came and asked the owners of our company if they would consider adding her favorite charity to their list of donations (they donate some amounts of money in the company name every year)so that the chairty would not lose all the money she gave them. I am not able to match her dignity, I am afraid.
    That did not happen to us today either. I tried to say more to Alla tonight and she said to please wait until tomorrow, enough for one day. These people are about the age of our children. They have parents, about our age. Wow! Is there a worse horror?
    So when all the little trivial bullsh*t gets to you, or those of you that are new to having an immigrant family here get frustrated and tired and just have a bad day, then just think how much worse it could be and how lucky you are.
    Alla mentioned that the other day her and I had a bit of a "scandal" over something and neither of us could remember, today, what it was really that started the scandal. Silly to say bad words or get angry with someone you love when in a moment you could be fighting for your life or find out you will die for no good reason. I know this.
    So be happy. Enjoy what you have and always remember what you did to get your spouse here and how lucky you are to have him/her. That's all.
    Happy Thanksgiving
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    StarGirl got a reaction from P A U L in Which one is RUS passport number??   
    You give them all the digits. Leave the N sign out.
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    StarGirl got a reaction from TnJ in RFE to show we met in person. HELP!   
    As a response to OP's RFE I would write a letter with a narrative of relationship and also resend all the evidence of meeting within past two years. God only knows what happened to his original package.. wouldn't take any chances for second RFE.
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    StarGirl got a reaction from galephys in Russian post and immigration packages   
    I used them to mail packages to US and Switzerland... have no idea why they are not offering choices of more countries on their website. But here what it's said about their services.
    Express delivery:
    - express delivery of correspondence and parcels throughout the Russian Federation
    - express delivery of correspondence and parcels to any place of the world
    maybe call their office to get the rate and to confirm they still are doing it? the last time I mailed with them was in December.
    I hope I am not getting banned from VJ for posting a link )))) http://www.dimex.ws/rus/eng/representation.php?city=2
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    StarGirl got a reaction from Wyld Blu in Husband doesn't want to file papers   
    I feel that I need to back up those who feel that OP's story is well... fishy.
    I am Russian. I have been learning English since I was 7. I have US college degree and US Master's degree. I lived in US for a good while. But by no means my English is so flawless as OP's. I read through all her posts and I couldn't detect EVEN ONE Русицизм. If your English is so perfect after only two years in US, thumbs up girl, you must be genius. If that's the case, I suggest you putting your brains to digging yourself out of the situation you are claiming you are in.
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    StarGirl reacted to Harpa Timsah in Lied on form G325a   
    I don't think this misrepresentation is material, because illegal employment is forgiven for spouses of USCs. This illegal work will NOT decide the difference between denial and approval. Why on earth a lawyer advised to lie when telling the truth would have zero negative effect is beyond me...
    If I were you, I would complete a new G-325A and have it ready to present at interview. You can say "I made an error on my form and wanted to hand in a new one" and see what happens.
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    StarGirl reacted to JohnR! in Citizenship Denied   
    Don't worry. I don't take any comments as disrespectful and I do see your point as well. What we don't know is the relevance of his marriage in his immigration process during the LPR process. It goes without saying that if he obtained his green card through marriage to a US citizen he is up the creek with no paddle. However, if his marital status represented no deciding factor in that process, he can certainly seek to redress the situation by appealing to our legal system. I do not wish to presume to guarantee any results so much as I wanted to point out that it may be well worth his while to have his day in court over this matter. That is the call to which I referred in my previous post.
    On a personal note, I believe we are all here to bounce ideas from each other in a collaborative experience and that is how I took your comments. There is absolutely no disrespect in questioning someone else's point of view and if we all agreed all the time, there would be no edification to anyone.
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    StarGirl reacted to JohnR! in Citizenship Denied   
    If his being married would have had no bearing on his immigration process to the US in the eyes of the USCIS, he should be able to renew his green card and remain a LPR, his fault being lying to an immigration officer in the process of obtaining citizenship. A lawyer might be able to help him straighten the record. However, if his marriage abroad should have prevented him from obtaining LPR status, he might consider leaving the country voluntarily before deportation proceedings are brought about. It can get ugly in these cases.
    Good luck!
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    StarGirl got a reaction from meadowzephyr in is it possible?   
    quote from another thread:
    "REF info:
    When responding to a Request for Evidence it is extremely important that you place the blue coversheet on the top of the response you send to us. The VSC receives thousands of pieces of correspondence each day, if the blue coversheet is not on the top of the response it will be placed in "general" correspondence and NOT sorted as a priority, which may delay your case. Ultimately, it could be sent to the file as supplemental information, not a response to a request."
    I am sure you are aware of this but just in case...
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    StarGirl reacted to Harpa Timsah in fiance overstayed visa, left the country, now what?   
    There is a slight chance he won't need a waiver, if he had D/S in his passport. I personally disagree with this interpretation of the law, but it can and has been interpreted this way in past cases. It sounds from your explanation of his interview that he was denied for immigrant intent, not for a ban per se (they told him to apply for the fiance visa). The tourist visa is not the correct visa for him if he is planning to not only de facto live in the US on it, but also immigrate on it. I would file the K-1 visa and see if he is denied. Be prepared for the waiver no matter what.
    And, the fact that he left of his own volition has nothing to do getting a ban or not. He lived in the US illegally.
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    StarGirl reacted to Saylin in Should I give up or fight for him?   
    Sorry I've been away for a bit. I needed sleep last night, obviously. For all those that have responded since last night, thank you for your kind words. And Takis, that article was very interesting to say the least!
    Anyways, a few updates:
    Before going to bed last night, my husband emailed me. He told me that he had found this thread that I created (he was actually the one who found VJ originally, I've just stuck around a lot longer ). He read through most of it and said he finally woke up and realised what he did. He apologized. He says he knows he doesn't deserve anything, but he's now willing to try to work things out. And that he wants to get back to where we were before all this happened. He mentions that the stuff he said to the girl was wrong, and they're now history. And that he was sorry that it took mentioning divorce and this long thread to finally wake him up to reality.
    We went back and forth in two or so more emails about me obviously not having much trust with him at the moment about what happened with the girl. He apologized and says he now realises that I'm actually worth trying to work things out. That he was too blinded by his lack of feelings to see how amazing I was.
    Once I got to bed, after awhile of us tossing and turning, he began to cuddle me. And in the morning, before leaving for work, he hugged me for awhile and kissed me goodbye. He has done neither of these things in a very, very long time. So I was pleasantly surprised to say the least. And it's an indication that he's trying, so my hopes are up. He also mentioned today he knows what he's going to get me for our anniversary (coming up on May 21). And that he's going to take me out to a nearby city to celebrate. So, possibly a good turn around, we'll see.
    Guess I'll see how the next few days unfold and go from there. Do I trust him completely? No. But I'd like to think I can. And that we can try to work things out, instead of just resorting to divorce. It now seems he's willing to try, which is a good sign, compared to recently.
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