sheila_ rafael

You friend should take the treats and go to a local court and ask for a restraining order. If the woman doesn't respect it then have her arrested. Usually criminal charges encourages someone to move on.

If you are actually telling a real story, and not just trolling, there is a nightmare ahead.
You will also be liable for immigration fraud prosecution along with the married woman you want to bring to the US as your fiancee.
Choose your next steps carefully.

With all the lies that have already been told and are being prepared to tell there is nothing but trouble ahead.
Do the right thing, and the smart thing, and tell the truth from the beginning.
When she is caught with all the lies, she will have a lifetime ban to US entry.
So, be stupid and live together outside the US. Or, be smart and you can live in the US.

dried mangoes. and if you have some money - pearl earrings. ill be getting my bf's mom some pearl(black) set [necklace. earrings. ring?]. its not that expensive here but hella expensive there. youd be surprise with the price diff. thats what i always bring to my USC friends.

If you want to pursue thing with ICE, pick up the phone and call. Don't wander around VJ building up support. Take your shot with reporting it. That's the only way to know if what you have as evidence is going to make be sufficient. My understanding is that you have to present a strong case for ICE to expend energy.
Also, divorce and move on from the marriage. Trying to exact some sort of "payback" is ultimately a waste of good energy.

I don't want to get into it. It's common sense that if he never gets here, and there is no marriage, and there is no adjustment of status, I-864 is a moot point. It's almost like giving her advice on removing conditions or filing for citizenship. Cant put the cart before he horse if you will.

As you discovered, the ex is more than just an "old friend."
She was cheating on you, she got caught, and now she's lying about it. Case closed.
I have a zero-tolerance policy with partners who are cheaters and liars. For me, the trust that's been broken can't be repaired.

Given what you say here, I would not be surprised if shortly after removing conditions she is gone. I hope I am wrong for your sake, but this just does not "smell" right.

I think an online petition is an inexpensive way to protest this requirement.
I'm not going to respond anymore to people saying it can't be done or they're against others doing something about it. You're on the wrong team, trying to throw cold water and negativity upon something that might be within our power to change by merely signing our name to a petition. I am willing to look into how an online petition could be set up and think about the most efficient way to do it. I think I should poll people first though because my impression is the vast majority of people would rather not be forced to do this. A voluntary program - I have no problem with that. But for us it was a stupid waste of time and money. Maybe I am wrong about how other people feel.
Other productive ideas would be nice, or again if you think I am wrong about the law and can prove why - please do.

Although I believe the Kathryn is being PC with this subject and the OP, I dont believe that the issue lies within his poor English. I think the problem that were having, as the users of this site who make it what it is, full of knowledge and understanding, is that the OP has so many threads started with alot of different scenarios. So we, the users, have no clue what it is hes really looking for.
Yesterday was alot about being asked at an interview if hes had sex with his fiance.
Then it was posts about how they married in a church.
Then its about deportation.
And everything in between.
So please Kathryn, dont berate us, the users of this site, for calling a spade a spade. No one knows where in the process he really is, because he flips from fiance and K1 to already being married. When I first got here, I read, and read and read. Ive seen alot ( and I dont agree with this ) where a new user will ask a question and someone will link the guide lines. I do believe that we have a responsibility to the new people to aide them as much as we can, just like we once were, however, its very difficult for us to do it, when we dont know that situation and cant get a direct question without some random one coming up to threads later.
Most questions that we get from new users are in reference to forms, how to help with filling them out, these are the honest questions and they deserve honest answers. But to ask us, who dont know him, what he should say to a CO about having had sex with his finace, when we dont know if its a fiance or a wife, nor does it sound like theres a petition even sent . . . how are we supposed to answer that ? I call troll, alot of us have, and Kathryn, dont look at it like were the bad people who are belittling or not respecting the OP, look at like this guy isnt respecting our site by ( what I view as ) looking for ways to get into the USA and stay without fulfilling the K1 ... and this goes back to the ... if shes his wife, there is no K1 for him, and I would hope hes had sex with her .. like married loving couples do.

People are attempting to answer your questions, but there seems to be a language barrier here. You've called your significant other a girlfriend, fiance and wife. You've stated you've applied for K1, haven't applied for anything, but have an interview. We can't answer your questions unless we understand your situation, and we don't.

Ok cool so she's your girlfriend, you are engaged and married at the same time...
You also have an interview (what for?) but you didn't apply for a visa yet?
Sorry but that's how I read this nonsense...

he is worried about his green card if he expects his US wife to still continue with the adjustment of status, and thanks her for being a "nice person" why can't he just be a man and divorce her and move back to France to be with the person he REALLY loves?

Well here's the thing. IF she's pregnant (you've asked this several times which indicates to me that she is or thinks she is) and he thinks it's his kid, he needs to list this kid on his immigration paperwork. This means if he remains married to his REAL wife and he files paperwork stating he's had a baby with someone else, they're gunna look REAL hard at his relationship and most likely assume it's fraud.
You also mention that your brother WILL tell his real wife about his affair and marriage (real or not it was a commitment ceremony showing his LOVE for someone else) and in my personal opinion he needs to tell her about all this BEFORE she files for joint ROC so she is given the chance to divorce him (if she wants) so he can file ROC by himself and so she is actually able to make a decision based on ALL the facts. In fact given the possibility of a child, I believe it would look a lot less like fraud if they were to divorce and he file by himself then down the line they see he had a child with someone else while married to his USC petitioner.
Regarding the childs status... he's not going to be a USC before the child is born so there is no immediate US citizenship or anything. He COULD petition the child years later for a visa but it's very important that he declare that he has a child on ANY paperwork that asks for it... bearing in mind this would be a child he has to another woman while married to his petitioner born after a jointly filed ROC... it doesn't exactly scream "legit relationship". He's been very very foolish and VERY mean to his wife.

I really doubt the denial was because the CO doesn't believe they met within the last 2 years. That meeting was proven well enough for the I-129f to be approved. In order for the CO to discount that they would need new evidence not available to USCIS at the time the I-129f petition was approved.
I would agree with the thought that the CO was hoping to see remittance receipts.
I would also agree that not every K-1 Beneficiary is asked for this.
My guess would be that the CO had their doubts about the relationship and was looking for something that was a concrete demonstration of commitment from the USC to the beneficiary.
@ilovejustin, how did you meet justin? Is he a Kano or Filipino? There must be something that put the CO on alert. Only one meeting in person isn't usually an issue in the Philippines. Do you have any "immigration history", previous petition filed for you, previous Visa denial, anything?

Filing the petition and applying for the actual K-1 visa at the consulate in your country are two different procedures and they have two different and separate fees.
The filing fee for the I-129F is $340 and not changing.
The visa processing fee that is paid later for the interview is currently $350 but will go down to $240 on April 13th.
http://www.visajourney.com/news/

i am very convinced that he didnt send the application to USICS.if he did he would have atleast make out time to call them on phone and track the money order after 7 months.Here is the information you need to confirm if actually he sent the application.Here is USICS email no for cases which have passed 5 months.email them and explain to them and they will ask you some security questions via email after which they will notify you if actually an application was sent but remember email them as if your the petitioner thats your husband not you the beneficiary email: SCOPSSCATA@dhs.gov

Young Lady; I did not see your last Post. I will go off what I see here in this post.
I seen a comment that stated: Most likely, there is No Petition Filed... I agree.... That is a HUGE Posibility due to the fact of almost 7 months waiting for a NOA1. That just don't happen.
(It happened to a immediate family member of Mav, 7 months later she found out No Petition was Filed and was lied too.)
If he was concerned he would have traced that Money Order 6 Months ago.
He would have to make a Info-Pass Appointment and not a phone call. Hopefully, there was a NOA1 issued but I see No Avail or concern from the Fiance from this post of yours.
I just don't see how being so busy is an excuse not to trace a Money Order is.
As the above reply stated: Did you sign any documents, supply a birth certificate to submit with the Petition ?