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The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

The process is horrible, but hardly the most trying event a long-lasting couple will go through. It will end.

Because that's visa fraud.
Sorry you're pissed about the process. ?

Because coming here on a tourist visa with the intent to remain and adjust is fraud?

And guess what?....................
USCIC STILL SUCKS AT PROCESSING OUR PETITIONS
I NEED MY WIFE HERE, ITS F'ING COLD IN NEW YORK!

I lived in Moscow a few years and you are right. There is no place on Earth more materialistic and appearances-driven than Moscow.
You know, it doesn't matter at all, whether OP was scammed or who scams more than who. What matters for OP is that his relationship is over and he should not pursue to fix this relationship.

Some of you really don't think about what you're saying, do you?
Russian women are this.
American women are that.
Filipina women are this.
Stereotyping of any nationality is wrong and unproductive. Bad people - women and men - are everywhere. Even in Canada.
That also means good people are everywhere - women and men.

Darnell I travel around this Country every year (over 15 years) 20/30 times per year to give conference about domestic violence to counselors,social workers and psychologists, to provide them with information about what they can advise or not to the DV victims .The advise you gave here to this woman IT'S DAMN WRONG! . WE domestic violence advocates will not tell/advise to the victims to reconcile /work in their marriage when psychical abuse is happening,and nobody should advise either.
The first thing we have to tell to the victim is LEAVE THE ABUSER NOW,SEEK A SAFE PLACE, and later on you think about your marriage. The person's safety comes first than her/his marriage. This woman is being physically abused ,please never ever suggest/advise to victims of domestic violence to put themselves in danger! to stay in the same house,to talk with the husband.This is a really bad advise.When a victim call the domestic violence helpline,the victim will not hear " honey calm down,seat with him, talk to him,maybe he is in "pain, stress out", nope, the victim will hear GET OUT OF THE HOUSE NOW AND CALL THE POLICE!
If the abuser later on attend one year of anger management classes,individual therapy for at least 6 months, then the abused person might seat and talk to the abuser. THERE IS NO EXCUSE FOR ABUSE such as pain, stress. Domestic violence and abuse is just about the abuser to gain and maintain total control of the victims! it's about POWER AND CONTROL,that is it!
Each year 220.000 women are battered in this Country, around 3.000 women are murdered every year in the USA. I ask you and everyone here if you read ,heard or saw someone being abused please tell the person "GET OUT OF THE HOUSE NOW"!, saying the right thing can save someone's life.
In the US: call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE).

That's exactly where I am. We even seriously considered moving to Poland. I applied for because it makes sense and make traveling easier (except I could go to Brazil with no visa using polish passport unlike my work colleagues ), but it doesn't really change anything.

***** Lead Moderator Notice: The move was correct as it does not pertain to the process of gaining US citizenship. Also, when you make assertions of specific % of approvals/. denials, please back this up with link to credible sources. Lastly, being more polite in your responded will gain you more replies. ******

The application is your father's responsibility. If he can't prove that he has a strong ties to his home country, there is nothing you can do about that.

So you married your current wife when already married.Then obtained a forged document saying you were not married?

No fly list may be the first challenge.

Ultimately you will be marrying here and you'll find out the truth. No one here really knows what she's after.
Only thing people here are saying that most of the arguments you're bringing up make no sense. Neither does the statement of "Fil-West relationships have a high success rate" which I find completely opposite by reading this site.
I guess fact that she's interested in a younger man is a good sign though. But coming back to my question - how do you plan to marry her ?

Just because she works with cars in the Phillipines doesn't guarantee her a job with a dealership in the states. That is just wishful thinking.
I think people are way more concerned about the fact that it's your parents who'll get stuck paying for everything if she is only after the Green Card and you should get a job and show you are able to support your future wife. Doesn't matter that you prefer to stay at home doing nothing when she is your wife (if she's okay with that) but don't let your parents pay for your future wife. They are not the ones marrying her, you are.