I-485 Interview and Spouse not cooperating.

[Sam222222221211 1]

Need help here ASAP!!!

 

I-485 Interview in less than a month. Spouse not Cooperating with documents.

 

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

 

We do have marriage certificate, Pictures, Motel receipts text messages and call records, some videos.

 

What should I do?? Can someone please help. I am genuine but Spouse is taking advantage and not cooperating at alll.

 

Please help.

[milimelo 4,819]

Umm, you sure you have a real marriage? Why wouldn't you live together with your spouse? Why wouldn't you have a lease together, or the joint bank account? 

[Daphne . 2,110]

What is the reason that your spouse is not cooperating? Is this (still) a bonafide marriage? 

[Crazy Cat 45,137]

4 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

What should I do?

It appears you are adjusting status from a K-1.  Unless your spouse coperates, there is nothing you can do.  You must adjust through your spouse. 

 

4 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

This is not good.  A marriage certificate, alone, does not  prove a bona fide marriage.

[appleblossom 4,814]

5 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Need help here ASAP!!!

 

I-485 Interview in less than a month. Spouse not Cooperating with documents.

 

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

 

We do have marriage certificate, Pictures, Motel receipts text messages and call records, some videos.

 

What should I do?? Can someone please help. I am genuine but Spouse is taking advantage and not cooperating at alll.

 

Please help.

What do you mean you’ve lived together on ‘a few occasions’? Why don’t you live at the same address now? You’ll need a good reason for living apart. 
 

None of the stuff you’ve mentioned shows that you are in a proper marriage. And you won’t get a green card from what you’ve said. 
 

Can you give us more info? Why are you living apart? When did you arrive, when did you marry, and how much time have you lived together since you came to the US? What proof do you have that you’re in a bonafide marriage now? Or are you not in a bonafide marriage? 

[wildbug100420 315]

6 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Need help here ASAP!!!

 

I-485 Interview in less than a month. Spouse not Cooperating with documents.

 

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

 

We do have marriage certificate, Pictures, Motel receipts text messages and call records, some videos.

 

What should I do?? Can someone please help. I am genuine but Spouse is taking advantage and not cooperating at alll.

 

Please help.

Please complete your timelines. Is this AOS from K1?

[Boiler 47,804]

Not cooperating as in not providing the I 864, there is no way forward.

 

Your other comments raise questions, you are seeking to adjust based on a good faith marriage.

[Sam Burns 203]

9 hours ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Need help here ASAP!!!

 

I-485 Interview in less than a month. Spouse not Cooperating with documents.

 

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

 

We do have marriage certificate, Pictures, Motel receipts text messages and call records, some videos.

 

What should I do?? Can someone please help. I am genuine but Spouse is taking advantage and not cooperating at alll.

 

Please help.

Do you really want to be married to this person? They sound abusive

[Cw1977 216]

1 hour ago, Sam Burns said:

Do you really want to be married to this person? They sound abusive

or now not want to go through with this obviously fake marriage 

[Sam222222221211 1]

Hello,

 

Thank you for reply.

 

My Husband is not serious about this at all. He has been un-employed since we filed our petition and we had to take a co-sponsor.

We do not have a Joint lease together or bank statement or cell-phone bill, But our marriage is a Bonafide genuine marriage.

 

He does not has a place to stay so he lives with his friends at times or parents. He visits me and we live together for sometime but then he goes back.

 

For this upcoming interview he is not helping me out with documents. 

 

Can you Advice me if should consider other options like VAWA. I am genuine person but my husband took advantage and now he is running away from responsibilities. 

[Crazy Cat 45,137]

14 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Hello,

 

Thank you for reply.

 

My Husband is not serious about this at all. He has been un-employed since we filed our petition and we had to take a co-sponsor.

We do not have a Joint lease together or bank statement or cell-phone bill, But our marriage is a Bonafide genuine marriage.

 

He does not has a place to stay so he lives with his friends at times or parents. He visits me and we live together for sometime but then he goes back.

 

For this upcoming interview he is not helping me out with documents. 

 

Can you Advice me if should consider other options like VAWA. I am genuine person but my husband took advantage and now he is running away from responsibilities. 

This is one of the major disadvantages of a K-1.  The foreign spouse is totally at the mercy of the US citizen.  VAWA doesn't appear to be an option as there is no indication of abuse.  It could be argued that you don't have a real marriage......as evidenced by " He does not has a place to stay so he lives with his friends at times or parents. He visits me and we live together for sometime but then he goes back."

There is a real possibility that your Adjustment will be denied.....if you get that far.  Your avenues to remain in the US are extremely limited.  You are in trouble, imo.....thanks to your spouse.

Edited Saturday at 07:43 PM by Crazy Cat

[Cw1977 216]

7 minutes ago, Sam222222221211 said:

Hello,

 

Thank you for reply.

 

My Husband is not serious about this at all. He has been un-employed since we filed our petition and we had to take a co-sponsor.

We do not have a Joint lease together or bank statement or cell-phone bill, But our marriage is a Bonafide genuine marriage.

 

He does not has a place to stay so he lives with his friends at times or parents. He visits me and we live together for sometime but then he goes back.

 

For this upcoming interview he is not helping me out with documents. 

 

Can you Advice me if should consider other options like VAWA. I am genuine person but my husband took advantage and now he is running away from responsibilities. 

VAWA cos your part time husband doesn’t want to live with you???!

[Sam222222221211 1]

Need help here ASAP!!!

 

I-485 Interview in less than a month. Spouse not Cooperating with documents and Abusing Physically . This is my second marriage. 

 

We have lived together at few occasions but not all the time. We do not have lease or joint bank statement or credit card.

 

We do have marriage certificate, Pictures, Motel receipts text messages and call records, some videos.

 

Spouse is unemployed, No money or place to stay, Currently Spouse stays with his friends. 

 

Never gave me any money or food. 

 

Can you please advise what do I need to do before the Interview. 

[Boiler 47,804]

Where is the VAWA case?

 

All I have is what has been posted here.

[Crazy Cat 45,137]

I just found another bullet point as to why a CR-1 is superior for the foreign spouse.

Edited Saturday at 07:47 PM by Crazy Cat