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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Czech Republic



before anyone answers this post I would like to ask that you to be charitable in your response. Just because you may not understand my choices, does not give sufficient reason to respond in a rude / patronizing way.


I sent in the i-129f application in July and my case is still being marked as "received."


I have decided that I cannot be with my boyfriend for various reasons, mostly for things he has done in our relationship that are red flags. I do not trust him very much anymore, and would not want to raise children with someone who I do not trust, despite the fact that I do love/care about him.


We are in a stable place in our relationship, and I don't think he has any big suspicions of me wanting to break up. He has some mental health issues, and I am scared by ways he has reacted in previous situations to disappointments, that if I were to break up with him he might put his life in danger or do something he would regret.


Therefore I think the whole thing would be much easier if I could just tell him that we cannot be together because the visa was denied. I do not want to take the risk in waiting, just in case the visa is approved, therefore I would like to write to USCIS and withdraw my application.


My question is, if I withdraw the application, is there any way my boyfriend could find out? I mean, say he went to the embassy, could they tell him that I withdrew the case, that it was not denied?


I know that honest is the best policy. It is hard for me to be dishonest, but I am scared of how my boyfriend will react, and if you knew our story you would probably understand my reasoning, and why it is best for both of us this way.


So in short, the question is: Is there any way my boyfriend can find out that I withdrew the i-129f application if i do so and then tell him that it was simply denied?


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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Denmark

No the embassy will not know anything about the I-129F before it gets transferred to them. If he doesn’t have the case number he can’t look it up either. They will only send you a letter as the petitioner of the I-129F. 





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Filed: AOS (pnd) Country: Canada

I think you are wise to end this especially before children.  Trust your head.  Good luck.  

K1 filed September 4, 2015

K1 Issued Feb 25, 2016

Entered the US June 3, 2016

Married June 13, 2016

AOS filed June 28, 2016

Paperwork received June 29, 2016

NOA dated July 11, 2016 for 485, 131, 765

RFIE mailed August 13, 2016

RFIE sent express August 22, 2016 ***Make sure you all use the latest forms from USCIS or RFIE***

RFIE accepted August 24, 2016

EAD Card is being produced September 13, 2016

Green Card is being produced November 17, 2016

AOS Approved November 18, 2016


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If he has the receipt number, he can check it online. Otherwise, the only way to get the info is from you.


That said, nothing good comes from hiding the truth.




7/27/20: Sent forms to Dallas lockbox, 7/30/20: Received by USCIS, 8/10 NOA1 electronic notification received, 8/1/ NOA1 hard copy received



AOS (I-485 + I-131 + I-765):

9/25/17: sent forms to Chicago, 9/27/17: received by USCIS, 10/4/17: NOA1 electronic notification received, 10/10/17: NOA1 hard copy received. Social Security card being issued in married name (3rd attempt!)

10/14/17: Biometrics appointment notice received, 10/25/17: Biometrics

1/2/18: EAD + AP approved (no website update), 1/5/18: EAD + AP mailed, 1/8/18: EAD + AP approval notice hardcopies received, 1/10/18: EAD + AP received

9/5/18: Interview scheduled notice, 10/17/18: Interview

10/24/18: Green card produced notice, 10/25/18: Formal approval, 10/31/18: Green card received




12/1/16: sent, 12/14/16: NOA1 hard copy received, 3/10/17: RFE (IMB verification), 3/22/17: RFE response received

3/24/17: Approved! , 3/30/17: NOA2 hard copy received



4/6/2017: Received, 4/12/2017: Sent to Riyadh embassy, 4/16/2017: Case received at Riyadh embassy, 4/21/2017: Request case transfer to Manila, approved 4/24/2017



5/1/2017: Case received by Manila (1 week embassy transfer??? Lucky~)

7/13/2017: Interview: APPROVED!!!

7/19/2017: Visa in hand

8/15/2017: POE


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Filed: Lift. Cond. (apr) Country: China

Moved from Progress Reports to Process & Procedures.

Our journey:


September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

January 28, 2014: Production of new Green Card ordered

February 3, 2014: New Green Card received; done with USCIS until fall of 2023*

December 18, 2023:  Filed I-90 to renew Green Card

December 21, 2023:  Production of new Green Card ordered - will be seeing USCIS again every 10 years for renewal


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