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Hello VJ’S.

I caught my wife recently exchanging explicit content. Sex positions images  (the guy replied let’s add it to our list), the positions they both enjoy etc.

im in a very conflict situation right now. I spoke to her about it but she denied point blank and they never exchanged or talk about anything like that (I felt like a fool that she will lie about something I saw with my own eyes)

Her counter is they were school mates and have known each other for a long time. So they just but nothing explicit and having an affair.

To cut long story short, I am in a foreign country and have no support or so ever apart her obviously,  I do want to talk to her mom about this new development but not sure if it’s the right thing to do.

My removal of conditions is due in 3 months 

please advice

 

Thank you

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Divorce and move on.


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26 minutes ago, ToBeHappy said:

Hello VJ’S.

I caught my wife recently exchanging explicit content. Sex positions images  (the guy replied let’s add it to our list), the positions they both enjoy etc.

im in a very conflict situation right now. I spoke to her about it but she denied point blank and they never exchanged or talk about anything like that (I felt like a fool that she will lie about something I saw with my own eyes)

Her counter is they were school mates and have known each other for a long time. So they just but nothing explicit and having an affair.

To cut long story short, I am in a foreign country and have no support or so ever apart her obviously,  I do want to talk to her mom about this new development but not sure if it’s the right thing to do.

My removal of conditions is due in 3 months 

please advice

 

Thank you

Do what you think is best. You can file ROC with a divorce waiver, so if you're worried about not maintaining your LPR status, don't worry. In the end it's your marriage, and only you can know if this is something you guys can work out or not.

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1 hour ago, C90 said:

Do what you think is best. You can file ROC with a divorce waiver, so if you're worried about not maintaining your LPR status, don't worry. In the end it's your marriage, and only you can know if this is something you guys can work out or not.

Thank you...

I just spoke to mom... she’s gonna talk to us both over the weekend.

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Gather evidence NOW that you married in good faith and put it in a safe place for ROC

 

Sorry this happened to you and good luck


Spoiler

My timeline:
2011-10-31 US Entry with CR1
2013-09-02 ROC filed
2013-09-12 NOA
2014-03-05 Biometrics
2014-03-24 Approved
2014-05-05 Green card received
2015-04-23 Divorced
2015-06-17 Remarried
2016-08-02 N400 filed under 5 year rule
2016-08-12 NOA
2016-09-02 Biometrics
2017-05-04 Interview
2017-07-05 Oath Ceremony
Husband's timeline:
2013-01-16 US Entry
2017-07-05 Filed for AOS
2017-08-07 NOA
2017-08-23 Biometrics
2017-10-30 Received approval letters for EAD & AP
2017-11-02 Combo Card received
2018-12-13 Interview date
2019-01-02 Approved
2019-01-09 10 year Green Card received
Stepson's timeline:
2019-01-17 Filed I-130
2019-02-04 NOA


 

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