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Yes, a 25 year age difference can be an issue, especially if the man is younger and/ or it is not culturally appropriate in the beneficiary's country. It can be overcome though. What helps are a lot of "face time", it time spend together, especially if you live together for a while, Family having met, and being is support, can also help.


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If the age difference is such that the woman is beyond the age that would be reasonable for her to bear children (or nearing the end of it) and the man is much younger with no children, this can be a red flag and he may well be asked to explain how he feels about never being able to experience fatherhood.

We have an 8-year age gap and my husband thought this would be a problem but we are in our 40s and in western countries this gap is not considered unusual.

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What if there is a 25 year age difference?

With HK and the man is older, not likely to be much of an issue ;)


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Depends on the embassy. I am 29 years older than Joan. No issues at all. Good luck.


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For most of the Asian countries, if the Man is the older of the 2 in the age separation, there is little to no issue, as this is common practice.


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11/11/14 - Met online through eHarmony
11/12/14 - Started communication through email (1-2 emails daily)
12/20/14 - Communicating through Phone Calls and Video Calls
07/04/15 - First Trip to China to visit her (spent time at her home, her hometown, and Beijing), Met the whole family.
07/18/15 - Sadly I had to return back to the US
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