MarrIage and Visa Fraud

[DarkKiss 45]

Many of you will probably not remember me but I applied for fiancée for man from DR. Everything went well. He was approved interview in Nov 2014. He came to US Dec 2014. We married the same month. I did all of his paperwork, he received his permit to work, SSN, Drivers license. I got him a job and bought him a car. He received his Green Card in April 2015 WITHOUT INTERVIEW due to an expedite request that I submitted based on medical. As soon as he received his green card, he left the marriage and started living with another man. It took me a few months to get past the deception that he had most likely planned from the beginning of the relationship, in order to obtain a visa and green card. I filed for a divorce. I didn't know where he lived so I had him served but Sheriff at his place of employment. He did not file an answer to agree or contest the divorce . The judge granted me a divorce in February 2016. People like HIM are the reason why honest and sincere people have such a hard time being approved in the DR!!! I'm happy though because he only has the 2 year green card and next year he will have to either return to DR or stay here illegally. Not a smart move on his part since you can not apply for citizenship until you've been here for 5 years. I recently heard some info about him from one of his co-workers and it appears he is having a bad time at work and no longer has a place to live. He is sharing an apartment with two other coworkers and that's not working out well. YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

[Ontarkie 13,975]

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits, from K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures - As similar topics are discussed here.~~

[shsl73 29]

Many of you will probably not remember me but I applied for fiancée for man from DR. Everything went well. He was approved interview in Nov 2014. He came to US Dec 2014. We married the same month. I did all of his paperwork, he received his permit to work, SSN, Drivers license. I got him a job and bought him a car. He received his Green Card in April 2015 WITHOUT INTERVIEW due to an expedite request that I submitted based on medical. As soon as he received his green card, he left the marriage and started living with another man. It took me a few months to get past the deception that he had most likely planned from the beginning of the relationship, in order to obtain a visa and green card. I filed for a divorce. I didn't know where he lived so I had him served but Sheriff at his place of employment. He did not file an answer to agree or contest the divorce . The judge granted me a divorce in February 2016. People like HIM are the reason why honest and sincere people have such a hard time being approved in the DR!!! I'm happy though because he only has the 2 year green card and next year he will have to either return to DR or stay here illegally. Not a smart move on his part since you can not apply for citizenship until you've been here for 5 years. I recently heard some info about him from one of his co-workers and it appears he is having a bad time at work and no longer has a place to live. He is sharing an apartment with two other coworkers and that's not working out well. YOU REAP WHAT YOU SOW.

WOW...God looks high and low. Although this was a horrible experience, I hope that you remain open to love...you will be blessed.

[Boiler 43,788]

He can file to remove conditions as soon as the divorce was complete.

[EJAI 3]

Yes I remember you! We were going through the process at the same time. Sorry to hear about your situation, you found out in time. It is unfortunate but everything happens for a reason.

[Transborderwife 4,666]

He can file to remove conditions as soon as the divorce was complete.

This is true. If he has any evidence of a real marriage in good faith he could receive his 10 year card

[DarkKiss 45]

WOW...God looks high and low. Although this was a horrible experience, I hope that you remain open to love...you will be blessed.

Thanks and Amen. Edited May 11, 2016 by DarkKiss

[DarkKiss 45]

He can file to remove conditions as soon as the divorce was complete.

can you explain? My divorce states that the marriage was based on fraud. I also documented all incidents, photos, recorded statements made by him to me, statements from other women and me about his intentions. Oh yes, he was so stupid to admit everything. I called him after he left and got him to admit everything while I recorded the conversation!!! So tell me how can he remove conditions, if anything I should have had him removed. We lived together for 8 months. He abandoned the marriage by moving in with someone else. I'm ex-military so I keep RECORDS of everything!

[Transborderwife 4,666]

can you explain? My divorce states that the marriage was based on fraud. I also documented all incidents, photos, recorded statements made by him to me, statements from other women and me about his intentions. Oh yes, he was so stupid to admit everything. I called him after he left and got him to admit everything while I recorded the conversation!!! So tell me how can he remove conditions, if anything I should have had him removed. We lived together for 8 months. He abandoned the marriage by moving in with someone else. I'm ex-military so I keep RECORDS of everything!

If he has statements of co mingling finances or anything like that he can use it. Fraud is not a legal ground for divorce in Texas (adultery, cruelty, felony conviction and abandonment). If it's mentioned in the final divorce decree then he may have difficulty. I'm sorry that you had to deal with this. If you are concerned about him being here, feel free to provide USCIS with any information.

The sad, hard truth is that he likely could live under the radar using his SSN permanently providing he doesn't want to leave the country or commit a crime.

[Boiler 43,788]

can you explain? My divorce states that the marriage was based on fraud. I also documented all incidents, photos, recorded statements made by him to me, statements from other women and me about his intentions. Oh yes, he was so stupid to admit everything. I called him after he left and got him to admit everything while I recorded the conversation!!! So tell me how can he remove conditions, if anything I should have had him removed. We lived together for 8 months. He abandoned the marriage by moving in with someone else. I'm ex-military so I keep RECORDS of everything!

Once divorced you can file to remove conditions on your own, you do not need your ex spouse.

[DarkKiss 45]

Yes I remember you! We were going through the process at the same time. Sorry to hear about your situation, you found out in time. It is unfortunate but everything happens for a reason.

Thanks so much. I'm happy now. I'm involved with a wonderful loving man and I feel very blessed to be out of that relationship. I invested over $10,000 dollars in him, the whole process, paid by me. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world, but it happens to the best of us. I'm better off now!

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

Did you submit the evidence to a fraud investigator at USCIS ?

[DarkKiss 45]

Once divorced you can file to remove conditions on your own, you do not need your ex spouse.

well if he decides to do that, good for him. I'm done with that situation and I have put it behind me. Thanks for your input though.

Did you submit the evidence to a fraud investigator at USCIS ?

Yes I did. Sent copies of divorce also.

[EJAI 3]

Thanks so much. I'm happy now. I'm involved with a wonderful loving man and I feel very blessed to be out of that relationship. I invested over $10,000 dollars in him, the whole process, paid by me. I feel like the biggest idiot in the world, but it happens to the best of us. I'm better off now!

Look at your messages. I would take all the evidence to USICS and place it on his file.

[shsl73 29]

can you explain? My divorce states that the marriage was based on fraud. I also documented all incidents, photos, recorded statements made by him to me, statements from other women and me about his intentions. Oh yes, he was so stupid to admit everything. I called him after he left and got him to admit everything while I recorded the conversation!!! So tell me how can he remove conditions, if anything I should have had him removed. We lived together for 8 months. He abandoned the marriage by moving in with someone else. I'm ex-military so I keep RECORDS of everything!

And if the military teaches you nothing else...document, document, document!

It's easier said than done, especially when it comes down to matters of the heart, but you have cut all ties...and just move forward with your head hailed high. Do what you need to do to heal your heart and press forward.