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I guess this is not a question i should be asking but i just wanted to share and see if anyone has have this problem. Well my wife will be coming up soon for her interview in the Dominican Republic next month. We where having this talk about when she should leave her job. Yes i would love to have my Wife my love of my life here with me. But at the same time you never know what will happen at the interview. I feel very strong about us and our relationship and the many times i have visit that country sense 2009 over 15 times. But my question to all is should i tell her to let her job know

now that she is putting in her notice or just wait? My wife work in Punta Cana and have a good job. Her job told her if she put in her notice she has to work 15 days in order to received her money she save with the company. I do not want her to lose her money and i don't want her to tell her job at this time she is planning on leaving soon, but because they told her if she was to leave they can not guarantee her job back. Yes i do want my wife here with me as soon as the interview if done. But i guess i waited this long i can wait 3 weeks to a month for her to come to the USA.

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Wait. You'll never know if you have AP, or if the visa system crashes, or what else.

Edited by Harpa Timsah

AOS for my husband
8/17/10: INTERVIEW DAY (day 123) APPROVED!!

ROC:
5/23/12: Sent out package
2/06/13: APPROVED!

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I would advice to wait til she get the visa on hand, you don't know something might come up like system crash or ap but hopefully no delays tho. I left my job with Bank of America overseas after I got my visa.


ROC
08.11.2014 - Sent I-751
08.13.2014 - NOA
09.12.2014 - Biometric Appt
02.23.2015 - Card on Production (Decision Letter)
03.09.2015 - Greencard received

N-400

07.27.2016 - Sent Application for Citizenship

07.29.2016 - NOA1

08.15.2016 - Fingerprint

02.13.2017 - Interview Date

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I thought the visa/passport turnaround time is about 2 weeks after passing the interview.

So if I was her, I would quit right after I get approved but not before.

My fiancee was approved last Thursday, and we are not even going to book the airplane ticket

until she receives the passport/visa in her hand. Just trying to play safe all the way.


10-04-2013 We met online
11-21-2013 We met in person in Shanghai for 2 weeks

12-13-2013 I-129F packet sent via express

12-19-2013 USCIS NOA #1 (text and email) received

12-24-2013 USCIS assigns Alien Registration Number
12-31-2013 USCIS NOA #1 hard copy received
06-02-2014 USCIS web site shows NOA #2 approval
06-06-2014 USCIS web site shows case sent to NVC

06-xx-2014 Fiancee acquired birth, marriage, and police certificates from local police station (wrong)

06-16-2014 NVC creates case with GUZ### number

06-19-2014 NVC sends case sent to Guangzhou, China
06-24-2014 Received packet 3 express mail from embassy
06-25-2014 Completed DS-160 and paid K1 visa fee

06-26-2014 Mailed packet 3 response back to Embassy

06-26-2014 Requested police certificate from Russian embassy

07-08-2014 Received packet 4 email from Embassy

07-17-2014 Picked up Russian police certificate

07-25-2014 Fiancee medical exam (received MMR & Varicella, but they missed required TD shot)

07-31-2014 Picked up medical exam reports

08-01-2014 Request (correct) birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service (GongZhengChu)

08-06-2014 Picked up birth, marriage, and police certificates from Notarial Service

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09-13-2014 POE

09-17-2014 Went to CBP office to get (US entry) I-94 updated correctly

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09-19-2014 Applied for Marriage License (via online)
09-25-2014 Received Social Security Card
09-30-2014 Picked up Marriage License
10-09-2014 Marriage by Justice of Peace
10-09-2014 Got Certified Marriage Certificate Copies
10-17-2014 Received a letter from SS office that they need the marriage license
10-09-2014 Applied to change the social security card name
10-24-2014 Went back to SS office to provide the marriage certificate documents again!!!
12-09-2014 Submitted AOS, EAD, and AP
12-16-2014 Received 16 emails and 16 text NOA messages
01-05-2015 Received Biometrics appointment letter for (01-12-2015)
01-12-2015 Had Biometrics (fingerprint & picture) - Required Marriage Certificate!!!
02-17-2015 EAD and AP is approved
02-23-2015 Received AP is approval letter
02-25-2015 Received EAD/AP combo card (expires 02/16/2016)
02-27-2015 Applied for SS card name change (they took her SS card)
02-27-2015 Driver's learner permit test was denied since the SS card was given to SS office for name change
03-17-2015 Received SS card with married name
03-17-2015 Started to change all her accounts to married name
03-23-2015 Received potential interview waiver letter
03-27-2015 DMV rejects learner's permit due to "legal status=pending" and vision test failure
04-05-2015 Vision test for learner's permit
04-06-2015 DPS sent us letter that DHS cleared my wife's status to acquire driver's license.
04-10-2015 Passed Driver Learner's Permit
04-22-2015 Received Driver Learner's Permit ID card (expires 02/16/2016)
08-27-2015 Green Card approved
08-31-2015 Received Green Card "Welcome Notice Was Mailed" letter
09-05-2015 Received Green card
10-26-2015 Passed Driver's License Road Test (on 3rd attempt)
11-03-2015 Received Driver's License (expires 02/16/2022)
11-06-2015 Applied to remove conditional work remark on SS card
11-23-2015 Received updated Social Security Card.
- - - - - - - - - - Pending Future Processing - - - - - - - - - -
05-27-2017 File 10 Year Green Card
08-27-2017 2 Year Green Card Expires
05-27-2018 File USC

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I thought the visa/passport turnaround time is about 2 weeks after passing the interview.

So if I was her, I would quit right after I get approved but not before.

My fiancee was approved last Thursday, and we are not even going to book the airplane ticket

until she receives the passport/visa in her hand. Just trying to play safe all the way.

yes many of my family has told me the same thing to do to. it would also give her time to pack and send off what ever she want to bring here to the U.S. thank you

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thank everyone for replying back to me. the one thing i think about is if she was to go back to work for the 15 days she will not be around to get her visa. tell me will they still leave her visa at her home or will she have to pick it up? Because she will have to work 15 days straight before she will be able to come back home to her house.

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She could wait until the visa is in her hand and then give her notice.


AOS for my husband
8/17/10: INTERVIEW DAY (day 123) APPROVED!!

ROC:
5/23/12: Sent out package
2/06/13: APPROVED!

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Moved from Progress Reports to Process & Procedures.


Our journey:

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September 2007: Met online via social networking site (MySpace); began exchanging messages.
March 26, 2009: We become a couple!
September 10, 2009: Arrived for first meeting in-person!
June 17, 2010: Arrived for second in-person meeting and start of travel together to other areas of China!
June 21, 2010: Engaged!!!
September 1, 2010: Switched course from K1 to CR-1
December 8, 2010: Wedding date set; it will be on February 18, 2011!
February 9, 2011: Depart for China
February 11, 2011: Registered for marriage in Wuhan, officially married!!!
February 18, 2011: Wedding ceremony in Shiyan!!!
April 22, 2011: Mailed I-130 to Chicago
April 28, 2011: Received NOA1 via text/email, file routed to CSC (priority date April 25th)
April 29, 2011: Updated
May 3, 2011: Received NOA1 hardcopy in mail
July 26, 2011: Received NOA2 via text/email!!!
July 30, 2011: Received NOA2 hardcopy in mail
August 8, 2011: NVC received file
September 1, 2011: NVC case number assigned
September 2, 2011: AOS invoice received, OPTIN email for EP sent
September 7, 2011: Paid AOS bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 9, 2011)
September 8, 2011: OPTIN email accepted, GZO number assigned
September 10, 2011: Emailed AOS package
September 12, 2011: IV bill invoiced
September 13, 2011: Paid IV bill (payment portal showed PAID on September 14, 2011)
September 14, 2011: Emailed IV package
October 3, 2011: Emailed checklist response (checklist generated due to typo on Form DS-230)
October 6, 2011: Case complete at NVC
November 10, 2011: Interview - APPROVED!!!
December 7, 2011: POE - Sea-Tac Airport

September 17, 2013: Mailed I-751 to CSC

September 23, 2013: Received NOA1 in mail (receipt date September 19th)

October 16, 2013: Biometrics Appointment

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2 weeks is nothing in confront of a lifetime together... Wait till visa is in hand... Give her time to wrap up,her old life before starting her new one...


10/14/2000 - Met Aboard a Cruise ship

06/14/2003 - Married Savona Italy

I-130

03/21/2009 - I-130 Mailed to Chicago lockbox

11-30-09: GOT GREEN CARD in mail!!!!!!

Citizenship Process;

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3/11/2013: interview.. Approved

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I had to put resignation letter a month before the actual date for resign otherwise I wouldn't received any benefits from the company. The good thing was that my bosses already knew about my visa process and communicated with them and prepared the replacement worker for me. I had to train my replacement prior my resignation.

I was resigned officially per February 1 2014, I put my resignation letter on December 31st, 2013, my then- fiancé ( my now husband) came to Jakarta on January 20th, my interview on January 21st, visa was received on January 24th and flew out to the US with him on February 8th. I was considered myself quite lucky seemed everything went smooth but I already had back up plan in case my visa was denied at that time.

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I know many have already said it, but I will provide my 2 cents. My wife and I had already gotten plane tickets and she quit her job. We were to have the interview in September 2013 and fly out in mid October 2013. We went in for the interview and she was denied the visa. This came as a shock but we made due(still trying to get the visa now). Not trying to scare you, but this can be a reality. I would wait until you are officially approved for the visa.

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sorry to hear that UH60Chief , hope your wife will get her visa soon.

that's quite a scary info. -_-

Im still far from getting the visa yet cause we just got approval from USCIS recently. But me and my hubby already discussed about not going to put in my resignation until I have the visa on hand. My company has 45-60 days notice policy but we have waited this long already so another 45 days wont hurt if we will wait.


Sept 2011- Met Online

May 16, 2014 - Wedding Date

USCIS

July 13, 2014 - I-130 NOA1 receipt (Nebraska Service Center)

July 30, 2014 - I-130 approved-NOA2 (17 days from NOA1)

NVC

Sep 03, 2014- Case # & IIN received

Nov 13, 2014- Case Complete (9/14/14 & 10/14/14 ; AOS & IV scan date )

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Dec 03, 2014 - Received P4 letter ( interview on Jan 29, 2015 )

Feb 03, 2015 - Visa on hand ( Thank You Lord )

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I know many have already said it, but I will provide my 2 cents. My wife and I had already gotten plane tickets and she quit her job. We were to have the interview in September 2013 and fly out in mid October 2013. We went in for the interview and she was denied the visa. This came as a shock but we made due(still trying to get the visa now). Not trying to scare you, but this can be a reality. I would wait until you are officially approved for the visa.

Also not wanting to scare you but we have a similar shock for us...

My Fiance and I thought it would go quickly once we were approved but he actually lost his job when they found out we were approved for the visa. A little later his savings ran out and he went to live with family to wait for the interview and got sick with TB just before our interview and medical exam.

He just finished his 8 months of treatment and retesting... Ojala we will receive the visa soon!!

Things happen... let it unfold as it should... God knows what best and why...


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I know many have already said it, but I will provide my 2 cents. My wife and I had already gotten plane tickets and she quit her job. We were to have the interview in September 2013 and fly out in mid October 2013. We went in for the interview and she was denied the visa. This came as a shock but we made due(still trying to get the visa now). Not trying to scare you, but this can be a reality. I would wait until you are officially approved for the visa.

thank you. and we will do that because i feel it will be for the best.

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