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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Senegal
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Hello all

If you remember me I was here before for quite some time during the 20 months of processing it took to get my husband his visa forom Senegal to the USA .... we finally were awarded the visa and he arrived here 4 months ago in april..... I might add that everly living second of those long months were spent in anticipation of his arrival ... he claimed to feel the same way but unfortunatley I have was fooled. ... as soon as he arrived I sensed someithing was different and occasionally would stumble upon suspicious things like phone calls, excessive skype credit used by him, his advertising on dating sites and porn ..... but with each accusation I made, he came back with such an innocent response that I ended up beating myslef up for having supposedly misjudged him ........ I love him so much and really didn't want to let my doubts get in the way, however I still had my intuition to contend with and did look into matters further believing he had someone else.... I just prayed to God for the truth to come out so that if he was innocent< I could began to trust him.

Unfortunately, as of two weeks ago I discovered that he had began a relationship with another young woman just 4 months after I left Africa .... she has just given birth to their baby in May!!!!!!!! .....they have continued a beautiful passionate relationships both there and here for 18 months now.... I have read countless intimate skype conversations that completely shocked me .....most in french which I can speak ... .I literally felll apart and gave him some money and a train ticket to go and stay with family ... I didn't have the heart to put him o the street and tried to at responsibly .... I could not function for the last 2 weeks ... I am devastated......... I've recently returned to work and every day is so empty without him ... I am trusting in God Who is my constant strength ....

My reason for posting here is to ask for some help .......... I need to know more details about his relationship with her at to whether it existed from before our marriage or if this was all a plan to use me to get a green card etc.... and basically I want to know as much as possible before filing the divorce .... According to USCIS he won't be in any trouble until he has the adjustment of status but they have told me that I need to give an accurate account of all that happened.

SInce some of the phrases of my husband's conversations were in wolof I will need some translation help .... I am looking for someone to translate the audio recordings he left on my skype which I had allowed him to use because he didn't have enough credit ... ironically my skype automatically records my calls ... without my knowing, the conversations they had were stored on my PC ......... I would like to hire someone to translate them ... perhaps someone from here ... I am willing to pay .... so please let me know if you would be interested.

FOR NOW HERE ARE THE PHRASES THAT I HAVE NOT BEEN ABLE TO TRANSLATE ....PLEASE, PLEASE ..... IF ANY WOLOF SPEAKING PERSON CAN TRANSLATE THESE PHRASES ... PLEASE HELP ... I AM DESPERATE AND NEED TO KNOW THE WHOLE TRUTH ......................... PLEASE IF YOU CAN HELP, PLEASE TRANSLATE THESE PHRASES ... thank you so much in advance.... God Bless You

* comment tuvas nakka souba si namnalla yaw ak maman (maman = their baby’s name)

* goor goorloul boubakh ba personne doula dougueul si ay detail, je vous aime plus quetout

* yalla nayalla deugueureul sougnou sey bi te meusal gnou seytanee te tekk gnou si yonousiratikkal moustakhima amin je t aime

* c dieynaba

* diewo dieng

* beugue nallatedoumalla bayal darra si adouna khanna louma amoul, tu es la plus importantedans ma vioe maint et ma fille

* je suis icinama am louma donn dieund

* que tudisait comme tekk kosi boukko dougga laguoum

* manne amoumakene koulen eup si adouna te so beuguee ma wan la sama mbeugueel noumou tol si yaw

* je t aime tues ma canni khingne et mon dakhar hahaha

* je t avaisdit kaolack bakhoul baye niass rekk moffi bakh mais je te sor de la bientot

*bisous partout fo khlat rek tek nafa sama lamay bi sisa yaram bi

* merci de mavoir soutenue a ses moment durs yalla nalla yala fay sa tionno , gueureum nalla boubakh

* mm si c est60 ou 50 milles sax bakhna mou diokh la khalix bi nekko dagga am urgence, mallanionni wakh koko je t aime tu me manque

* pour toipartout fo khlat rek

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Cyprus
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You can go to the Senegal portal and pm several active members for help with the translations.

I am very sorry that you are going through this.

Spoiler

 

I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Senegal
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thank you all for your kindness ....and perhaps these words may mean nothing but definitely what I read in french was the real thing and they are very much in love and determined to make a future together with their new baby .... at this point I need to determine if there was a former marriage between them in order to file my divorce correctly .... I am already certain from what I read in french that she is to reunite with him here ..... perhaps marry at that time, but he already calls her his wife so who knows ..... I will try the senegal portal ....... God bless and thanks again

Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Cyprus
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If you have solid proof you can take all the evidence to USCIS by making an info pass. It sounds like you do have such proof

with all the passionate skype conversations.

It would be even more so if you could proof their(marriage?)relationship happened before you petitioned him. Perhaps it was a traditional marriage. If so then his family and friends must have known all along.

Don't feel like your days are empty without him....he can not possibly fill that void doing what he has done, that is an illusion. You deserve so much more than that.

You are in my prayers (F)

Spoiler

 

I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Senegal
Timeline
Posted

If you have solid proof you can take all the evidence to USCIS by making an info pass. It sounds like you do have such proof

with all the passionate skype conversations.

It would be even more so if you could proof their(marriage?)relationship happened before you petitioned him. Perhaps it was a traditional marriage. If so then his family and friends must have known all along.

Don't feel like your days are empty without him....he can not possibly fill that void doing what he has done, that is an illusion. You deserve so much more than that.

You are in my prayers (F)

Thank you Ebunoluwa for your sound advice and tender encouragement .... you're right he isn't equipped to fill this void and he is an illusion ... so true and so very scary in a way .... I will do my best to put all the pieces together ....I don't feel vindictive just scared of what may happen in future if I don't do all this now ... he may end up hurting others like me ..... God bless you and yours

Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Senegal
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I am so sorry to hear about this. You deserve better. Right now, it sounds as if you need to separate emotions from reality just a bit. You are right; he is an illusion, so you can't actually feel empty without him. Without a doubt, based on the evidence you have in French and of his use of dating and porn sites "AS SOON AS HE ARRIVED", you can say for certain that he used you for papers. It's extremely common!

Regarding the messages, I can have them translated completely for you in a private message. Some of them I understand, so I'll message you now. Basically, yes, he's married, which disqualifies him from being in this country with you, as a matter of federal law.

I sincerely hope you are not trying to protect him from deportation. Obviously, he should go back home so he can be with his wife and daughter, and so you can move on with your life. Don't reward his evil.

All the best to you. I am messaging you now.

Edited by Ohemaa
Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Cyprus
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They are married. And if u love him that much I think u will need a descent conversation wit him b4 it's too late. I speak Wolof and yeah u will have a Woudj

He is "married" to someone else. There is no decent conversation needed. He scammed her and it is too late...way past midnight.

She needs to protect her assets,change the locks and not allow him around her whatsoever.

Spoiler

 

I-129F Sent : 3-31-2014, NOA2: 4-6-2014

NVC Received : some dinkelsberry yehoo in the house of clingons send our petition to the wrong consulate.

Consulate Received : July 30,2014 Transfer to right embassy complete.

Interview Date : Oct 22, 2014

Interview Result : AP , requesting another PC (not expired) and certified divorce decree (was submitted)Stokes interview via phone for petitioner 4 hrs after interview.

Oct 23 email notification visa approved.
Visa Received : Nov. 3 , 2014 VISA IN HAND.

US Entry : Nov. 21, 2014

Marriage : Dec 27, 2014

AOS send : May 12, 2015, received May 14, 2015 USPS priority

Email &text : May 18, 2015, check cashed May 19,2015, return receipt May 21, 2015 stamped USCIS Lockbox, NOA1 (3x) May 22,2015

Biometrics : June 1, 2015 letter received for appointment June 8, 2015, successful walk-in June 1, 2015

RFE : June 12, 2015 for income not meeting guideline. Income does ( ! ) exceed guideline.

RFE response : June 26, 2015 returned with a boat load full of financial evidence.

UPDATE: July 5, 2015 updated on all 3 cases, RFE received June 30, 2015.

Service request : Aug 12, 2015, letter received that it will be processed within 90 days from receipt of RFE.

UPDATE: Aug 24, 2015, EAD card being produced/ordered. ( 102 days from AOS receipt day and 55 days from RFE response received.) Thank you Jesus !

Emails : Aug 24, 2015, EAD approved, EAD card ordered.

I-797 EAD/AP approval notice received : Aug 27, 2015

EAD/AP combo card mailed : Aug 27, 2015, EAD/AP combo card received: Aug 31, 2015

Renewal application send for EAD/AP : May 31,2016 (AOS pending over 1 year). Received June 2, 2016,Notice date June7, 2016, emails,texts, NOA1 hard copy

Service request for pending AOS April 21, 2016, case not assigned yet.
Service request for pending AOS June 14, 2016, tier 2 said performing background checks.
Expedite request for EAD/AP Aug 3, 2016, Aug10 notification >request was received, assigned, completed. RFE letter requesting evidence for expedite, docs faxed Aug18

*Service request for I-485 Aug 3, 2016, Aug11 notification> request was assigned. Service request Dec 2, 2016.
AOS Interview letter received Aug 12, 2016

AOS Interview September 21, 2016.

Second Biometrics appointment letters received for EAD and AOS on Aug 15, 2016 for Aug 17 ( 2 day notice).

Second Biometrics completed Aug 17, 2016

Third Biometrics appointment letter received Aug 19, 2016 for Sept. 1, 2016. WTH ?!

EAD/AP (renewal) approval Aug 22, 2016, NOA2 received Aug 25, 2016

Renewal EAD in production notification text and online, expedite successful 4 days after RFE request response was faxed, Aug25mailed,Aug29received.

Sept. 21 Interview, 2 hour interview, we were separated and asked about 50 questions each for an hour each. IO was firm but professional, some smiles.
Several service requests made, contacted Senator and Ombudsman. Background checks still pending.
July 21, 2017 HOME VISIT.  Went well. Topic thread in AOS forum.
Waiting to skip ROC and get 10 yr GC due to over 2 year while pending AOS
AOS APPROVED Oct. 4, 2017 * Green card in hand Oct 13, 2017 !!!!!

First K1 denied after 16 month of AP. Refiled. We are a couple since 2009. Not a sprint but a matter of endurance.

 

Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Australia
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If he is married in his home Country then your marriage is null and void.If you have prove of his marriage you can file for your marriage annulment.Send to USCIS and ICE all documents you have now and please kick his #### to the curb.

Not necessarily. It could be the OP was married to her husband BEFORE he married this other woman, making the second marriage null and void. Either way it proves fraud and I would definitely let ICE and USCIS know that he married someone else either before or after her (whatever the case), that he has a child to another woman and that she was obviously used for immigration purposes.

 
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