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Assiya/Jeremy   3

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Sorry to hear that things didn't turn out how you wanted, but you have nothing to be embarrassed about or ashamed of. Talk to your family and friends,they will not judge you. Everything is harder if you chose to deal with alone...that's what family and friends are for! All things hurt more when they are fresh, time heals all wounds, I know its a cliche, but when something is true for long enough it becomes cliche! Stay strong.

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pietrocrazy
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What a rough way to end it It probably doesn't help to hear the old cliche that it's better this way (obviously he wouldn't have made a great husband if this is the way he treats you on your birthda

happiestmanalive
happiestmanalive

It breaks my heart to hear this. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I'm glad that you can look positively upon such a negative circumstance. Happy Birthday! Another year of life added to th

DazednConfused31
DazednConfused31

Thanks everyone for all of the support and kind words. He is 26 and not ready to be a man, I guess. He may have realized that a real woman requires a real man and wasn't ready. But once I get over som

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shefellfromheaven   18

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We all at certain times in our lives find ourselves broken. True strength is found in picking up the pieces. Be strong and be positive! It shall come to pass.

Thanks everyone. I have spent my 30th birthday in my bed crying my eyes out. I really thought that I had my happily ever after. I don't deserve this.

In your Strength, I can crush an army; with my God , I can scale any wall .....2nd Samuel 22:30

For God did not give us a spirit of fear and timidity, but a spirit of power, of love and of self discipline}... 2 Timothy 1 :7[/i]

Set me as seal over your heart. Solomon 8:6

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AOS

08/03/2009 - AOS Approval

08/13/ 2009- GC in mail

ROC

09/01/2011 - Roc Approval

N - 400

06/15/2012 - Mailed N - 400 package to Phoenix

06/19/2012 - Notice of Action

07/20/2012 - Biometrics

08/20/2012 - Interview: PASSED

09/21/2012 - Oath Ceremony :)

09/21/2012 - US Citizen

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Every good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows James 1 : 17[/center]

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StephanieM   60

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Ugh. I am sorry this is happening to you. Only God knows what is truly best.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, maybe this was a blessing in disguise!!

01/01/2008 - Met
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail

04/24/14 - Sent I-751 to remove conditions

06/09/14 - Biometrics

11/2014 - RFE from USCIS requesting more evidence before approval

Late Jan - Sent further evidence of marriage

03/05/2015 - Got letter of approval for removal of conditions

03/15/2015 - Permanent 10 yr green card received via mail

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rlogan   2,036

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It's always darkest before the dawn. The light is so imperceptible at first, but inexorably it gathers strength and soon the sun is shining again.

If you look at how you would be in a few years with a failed marriage instead of getting a better start, you'll be glad this day happened, hard as it was.

DazednConfused31 Contributor

DazednConfused31   2

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Thanks everyone for all of the support and kind words. He is 26 and not ready to be a man, I guess. He may have realized that a real woman requires a real man and wasn't ready. But once I get over someone, I never look back. He offered to be "really good friends". How could I be really good friends with someone who has no regards for my feelings. He needs to grow up.

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teg   6

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wow but if you guys REALLY loves each other WHY NOT move there???? i mean if you love this guy either u or him will make way..why give up?

goodluck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I liked this response. Who says anybody's partner has to move here? When interviewed by the police, to get consent to marry, they had all the questions placed toward a move to the United States not the other way around. Just because two people marry from different countries doesn't make it a marriage based on a VISA.

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United1878   1

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Not like it would have made a lesser difference if he'd done it before or after your birthday... either ways, he's scumbag for thinking marriage/relationships is just about him alone. Sorry this happened to you... I would think it's for the best it happened now. Someone deserving of your love and kindness is out there waiting. Be happy and smile cause it's your birthday!

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3/21/2012 (Day 0) - I-130, I-485 and I-765 sent.

3/23/2012 (Day 1) - Delivered to USCIS.

3/27/2012 (Day 5) - E-Notification that paperwork received.

3/28/2012 (Day 6) - One check for $1,490 cashed & cleared for I-130 and I-485.

4/02/2012 (Day 11) - NOA hard copies received (x3), case status available online & bio appt. also received, dated 04/12 @ 8:00 AM.

4/10/2012 (Day 19) - Case status online says changed to RFE received.

4/12/2012 (Day 21) - Successful biometric done.

5/11/2012 (Day 50) - Complete RFE (I-864) received. Case status online changed to RFE received.

5/16/2012 (Day 55) - Online case status says: Card/ Document Production.

5/21/2012 (Day 60) - Online case status says: Card picked up by USPS.

5/24/2012 (Day 63) - EAD card in hand.

6/12/2012 (Day 82) - Testing and Interview.

7/12/2012 (Day 112) - Interview date!

7/12/2012 (Day 112) - Approved.

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Obc333   24

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HAPPY BDAY. You might not think so but this is probably the best present he could have given you. Better now than after the wedding. God will heal your broken heart continue to trust Him and take it one day at a time

AOS APPROVED MAY 19, 2012

GREENCARD RECEIVED MAY 31, 2012

TIMELINE UPDATED

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joonphon   7

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I'm glad so many positive responses and support you have from the VJ. You're right about him not deserving your friendship. You don't need a friend like him. I hope you feel better and heal that wound soon. "The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly."

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idalmi & luis   0

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don't think about the past, the present is right now and don,t worry about the future because is not here yet, god has a way of making things happened and they all have a reason as to why, tomorrow you may think about it and realized that it was for the best, Happy b-day.. today you're hurting tomorrow yopu might be smiling and him regreting he's decision.

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Paisana I'm so sorry that happened to you but God has better plans for you and at least it happened now rather than later... May God give you the strength you need and we are all here to support you.

Happily Married ** January 8, 2011 **

** CR-1 JOURNEY **

Sent I-130 ** July 27, 2011**

Chicago Lock box Received ** July 31, 2011**

Priority Date ** August 1, 2011**

NOA1 Received ** August 2, 2011**

NOA2 ** February 21, 2012 **

NO RFES!!! THANKS GOD!

NOA2 Hard Copy ** February 26, 2012 **

AOS fee Paid ** March 5, 2012 **

Paid IV Bill ** April 4, 2012 **

Case Complete ** May 2, 2012 **

Interview date received ** May 10, 2012 **

Interview date ** June 15, 2012 **

Interview Results ** APPROVED!!!! **

 
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