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  1. 1. how often do you argue with your partner

    • once a day
      20
    • once a week
      62
    • once a month
      74
    • once a year
      26
    • never argue
      47
    • we argue all the time
      19


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just was wondering if i could do this poll correctly this time


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We argued as to which one we should select. That should tell you which one I selected.


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We argued as to which one we should select. That should tell you which one I selected.

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No, we don't argue most of the time. Rarely. Honnestly. I'm unsure on whether we will or won't argue once he is here? :rolleyes:

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We have a serious argument about once a month, even though there's some bickering going on more frequently.

I think arguing is an important part of any healthy relationship, but the important thing is to not take it too personally when it happens and to try to move beyond it once it's over. Once you start getting hung up on your arguments, it's time for marriage councelling.


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probably more than once a week, but its over the stupidest ####### :lol:


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I voted once a week although they aren't screaming rows....rather heated discussions. I have learned that a good 'airing' of views is healthy....In my first marriage we NEVER EVER had an agruement....therefore he never knew how unhappy I was until the day I walked out of his life.....I am older and wiser now and say if something is bothering me, he does the same.

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Who are the weirdos who never argue? Identify yourselves so I may mock you.

Oh and I forgot to say.. once a day. Maybe skip a day sometimes but mostly once a day. Almost always minor stuff, quickly forgotten. Interesting thing is, she always gets around to saying sorry way before it even occurs to me that maybe I should.


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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: United Kingdom
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We don't argue that often. We get annoyed with each other sometimes and don't say anything, that's only about once a month. We only have one big argument a year so that's what I chose. We have had an all out screaming match, but those are rare. We usually say what we mean, and sometimes what we don't mean. But we try not to "let the sun set on our anger." LOL@my cheesy quote.


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June 12 2006 ~ Interview Date (APPROVED!)

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July 06 2006 ~ JOP marriage

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Agent Smith, you may mock me. I voted "never argue" because, while we do voice our disagreements whenever it is necessary, we never raise our voices, throw things, or leave the room and slam the door. We debate, that's it, debate! :D And we sometimes snap at each other, but apologise right away. Since we never argue, I guess we sort of miss out on the make-up sex, though... :whistle:


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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Venezuela
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We argue once at day for minor stuff and at least a big one at month... that is part of any relationship, very common... after a while everything is forgotten.

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meh, we argue 1-2 times a week, nothing heated, just a little, u feel like this and i dont, or u said this and i dont like it, etc


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Agent Smith, you may mock me. I voted "never argue" because, while we do voice our disagreements whenever it is necessary, we never raise our voices, throw things, or leave the room and slam the door. We debate, that's it, debate! :D And we sometimes snap at each other, but apologise right away. Since we never argue, I guess we sort of miss out on the make-up sex, though... :whistle:

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we used to ~fight~ ... but now we just argue/discuss about things. so i put once a month .. because that's usually how often something big comes up

venting when things come up is a great way to stay away from the big fights :thumbs:

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Who are the weirdos who never argue? Identify yourselves so I may mock you.

Oh and I forgot to say.. once a day. Maybe skip a day sometimes but mostly once a day. Almost always minor stuff, quickly forgotten. Interesting thing is, she always gets around to saying sorry way before it even occurs to me that maybe I should.

never argue with my bingo. I dread the day it happens.


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