She's doing it again.

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

Hmmm...Heartbroken Romeo poisoned himself to death and heartbroken Juliet stabbed herself to death.

Hmmm....I'm thinking most couples would be happier than that!

Hmmm...I guess some trolls are smarter than others.

that's enough.

Edited April 4, 2012 by charles!

[sunandmoon 450]

please make it stop...

[Ban Hammer 12,845]

one post removed for continuing. have requested an id check with higher, be patient.

[sunandmoon 450]

Maybe there is some confusion. Maybe I, don't know all the story. I know she is not a little girl. But for some reason, I believe that she is doing is just some playful thing. Don't be surprised that in two years from now those two will be happier than romeo and juliet and will laugh at this post.

You got to love'em when they act like that...so cute, sweet, and innocent.

you can call puppies playful and cute, not the situation described by the OP of this thread.

[duriantaste 44]

Well, my now wife has done many things to me and I just laugh. She did something to me that I would not allow any one to do it. I was a fanatic BMW owner. One day a girl said a comment. Actually one of her friend. She said something about that I look cool in my car. My wife smiled at that moment. Guess what she did? She made me change my car to one she likes. I really don't she likes the new car much. I think she just did it because she did not like the fact a girl said I look cool. Don't you think that is cute?

I miss my BMW. Oh well, as long that she is happy I can play her games.

One day, I will tell you the story about how many times she makes me change my clothes when we need to go out. It is annoyed but what else can I do?

I got to tell you, they are adorable. Even when she makes me mad deep in side I feel like smiling.

Edited April 4, 2012 by duriantaste

[Laser1 63]

I got to tell you, they are adorable. Even when she makes me mad deep in side I feel like smiling.

If you enjoy those antics and laugh at them, then congratulations, that's all that matters.

The O.P. does not appreciate his wife's tantrums, and is crying for help, so his situation is different.

Edited April 4, 2012 by Laser1

[Ron and Rhea 42]

Brother, whew, where to start, hahaha.

Well, my now wife has done many things to me and I just laugh. She did something to me that I would not allow any one to do it. I was a fanatic BMW owner. One day a girl said a comment. Actually one of her friend. She said something about that I look cool in my car. My wife smiled at that moment. Guess what she did? She made me change my car to one she likes. I really don't she likes the new car much. I think she just did it because she did not like the fact a girl said I look cool. Don't you think that is cute?

I miss my BMW. Oh well, as long that she is happy I can play her games.

One day, I will tell you the story about how many times she makes me change my clothes when we need to go out. It is annoyed but what else can I do?

I got to tell you, they are adorable. Even when she makes me mad deep in side I feel like smiling.

[duriantaste 44]

Need clarification:

About husband and wife

1. No body said been married is easy.

2. There are a lot of ups and downs in the lifetime of a husband and wife journey.

3. For some of us is tougher than others. (Don't ask me the reason behind that)

About the OP:

1. He sounds like a very smart guy. He works as an I/T. Capable of solving complex problem. So the suggestion of he going to the'rapist is a none sense. It is as if some one is saying, look you are incapable of solving your own problems.

2. this will not be the first of last time you will be in this situation. So enjoy the ride while you are at it.

To the forum:

I know you guys are trying to help him but it sounds as if you want to disconnect him from his wife instead of connecting him. This is not a game. They got married they need to deal with their problems. I know I know it is easy to say than do but hey one way or another we all go through this.

Conclusion:

Don't let the stress or the form convince you that some of the things she is doing is not cute. YOU guys got married and I can sense the love between you two. The stress is on the way and once that kicks in, you better know how to deal with it. It is that simple. My parents 65years together. Ask them if it is easy? They will laugh at your face. But that laugh shows some kind of natural happines. Some kind of natural happines that no therapist can you get it.

Your job is very complex, this situation is a piece of cake for it.

Now tiger, go and handle that peace of cake.

Best of luck.

Oppss..I need to get back and deal with my own issues. I am already smiling before confronting her, if I don't do that, the things can escalate. We don't want that.

Edited April 4, 2012 by duriantaste

[Hank_ 9,173]

I find that interesting how you used the word, 'they' and said 'they are cute and playful'....who is this 'they' sir? That's the same as saying blacks are like this, or that, or Japanese men are like this or that....I am not a fan of stereotyping people sir.

Those dam ( ) bikers... always causing trouble.... THEY are all alike!!!

[rlogan 2,036]

I have a heart to do good in life and a mind to think correctly.

I have some empathy for the mods, but that's why we pay them the big bucks.

[Ron and Rhea 42]

And to think, Rlogan, your post will prob just fly overhead...hahah. I like it....

Bro Hank, I keep getting put into 'time out' in this joint with me expressing my feelings on 'this or that'....so I am trying to keep it as non offensive as I can. But some of these posters make it SOOOOOO difficult, sorta drives me kookoo hahah

I have some empathy for the mods, but that's why we pay them the big bucks.

[duriantaste 44]

I have some empathy for the mods, but that's why we pay them the big bucks.

If that is you thrill, have fun with it.

Have a good day.

[duriantaste 44]

I really hope three-five months from now, the OP comes back and tells us what was his decision.

Best of luck to both. Hope the baby comes out very healthy.

[Hank_ 9,173]

Bro Hank, I keep getting put into 'time out' in this joint with me expressing my feelings on 'this or that'....so I am trying to keep it as non offensive as I can. But some of these posters make it SOOOOOO difficult, sorta drives me kookoo hahah

I mod a couple motorcycle forums, it can get dicey at times keeping the "line"

Edited April 5, 2012 by Hank_Amy

[Darnell 8,478]

Well, my now wife has done many things to me and I just laugh. She did something to me that I would not allow any one to do it. I was a fanatic BMW owner. One day a girl said a comment. Actually one of her friend. She said something about that I look cool in my car. My wife smiled at that moment. Guess what she did? She made me change my car to one she likes. I really don't she likes the new car much. I think she just did it because she did not like the fact a girl said I look cool. Don't you think that is cute?

I miss my BMW. Oh well, as long that she is happy I can play her games.

One day, I will tell you the story about how many times she makes me change my clothes when we need to go out. It is annoyed but what else can I do?

I got to tell you, they are adorable. Even when she makes me mad deep in side I feel like smiling.

you let your girl have friends? What are you thinking? You just lost a BMW because of it.

Refactor your homelife, soonish, aye?