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So my husband arrived 5 days ago. I knew before he arrived that things would be complicated to a certain extent as he was hesitant to come in the first place and he had been "acting out" or "rebelling" gradually for the last 5 months prior to arrival.

Now he's here and his actions are very immature. He is doing things that my own teens don't do. Mocking, giggling, obsessed with the internet and games, etc.... Things that make you feel somewhat embarrassed to have that person as your husband.

He had one friend in the same city I live in, someone I didn't realize would become an issue, but already has. As soon as I'm home from work, he's out the door 30 minutes later, with his friend, doing who knows what. I don't have a way to contact him, other than to call his friends phone, and I honestly have no interest in chasing him around.

On day 3, he became extremely angry because the father of my children called to speak to my daughter. This is a relationship that has been over and done with for over 10 years. My husband was very much aware of this, as they are from the same city in his home country, and they know each other. He was so furious, he told me he didn't want to be with my anymore and that he did not want to be here. He left for 6 hours with his friend, then returned to get his things. I told him to at least stay the night, then in the morning he could do as he pleased. I'm not going to force him to stay. I slept in my daughters room and let him have his space.

He decided to stay but I'm not sure why. We haven't spoken much since that happened.

When I returned yesterday from work, he was preparing some food and when I walked in the door he expected that I run into his embrace and forget everything that had happened the day before. Unfortunately for him, I don't function that way. Everyone is responsible for their actions and words. Brushing your wrongdoings off is not only immature but a coward move, not to mention unattractive. He left with his friend for about 45 minutes, then returned and asked if I minded if he stayed out longer. I told him he's free to do as he wishes. He opted to stay home and I went to sleep.

I overheard a conversation between he and his cousin last evening about him needing a cell phone. I have a pre paid phone that is brand new that I was willing to connect for him. Since his actions are very unpredictable, I'm reluctant to add him to my phone contract. If he leaves I'm stuck paying an unused line for 2 years. Not going to happen. The phone has all the bells and whistles one would want ..... but he says no, he is having a family member send him money so he can get the newest Iphone. He says he doesn't want anything other than this. I cannot afford it, nor will I encourage this type of greedy lifestyle.

I'm discouraged because I thought that he would be more appreciative, more understanding and more considerate. This is not the case. I hated to have to air out my dirty laundry but I need input from people who have gone through similar situations to give me advice. I cannot count on the "give it time, maybe he will change" thing......

Married: 6/17/11

I-130 Sent: 7/9/11

NOA1 : 7/14/11

I-129F Sent: 7/21/11

NOA1: 7/21/11

NOA2: 8/22/11

NVC Received: 8/24/11

NVC Left: 8/26/11

Consulate Received: 9/5/11

Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11

Medical Done: 11/7/11

Interview: 11/23/11

Approved: 11/23/11

Changed to CR1: 12/16/11

Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12

Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........

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My dear friend you know I love you to death cuz you have been of great help to me and to many here in this website.. And as a friend you know what my advice to is and always have been regarding him. You a wonderful smart beautiful woman who deserves a man that will treat you like a queen and is willing to help you out and not give you more problems. WHAT DOESN'T KILL YOU MAKES YOU STRONGER

Thanks luv......I know this wont kill me. I've been through much worse in my life. I'm just so disappointed. It's a shame someone can take this gift and misuse it :/

Married: 6/17/11

I-130 Sent: 7/9/11

NOA1 : 7/14/11

I-129F Sent: 7/21/11

NOA1: 7/21/11

NOA2: 8/22/11

NVC Received: 8/24/11

NVC Left: 8/26/11

Consulate Received: 9/5/11

Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11

Medical Done: 11/7/11

Interview: 11/23/11

Approved: 11/23/11

Changed to CR1: 12/16/11

Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12

Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........

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im sorry that u been going through a taugh time.. well i think u should speak to him and try to make him understand what u been going through.. well just be strong..and god is there he knows and he watch us every moment..god bless u my dear..u doing hard to be happy in ur happy.. u be happy trust me :)..just be strong..

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Hey I am so sorry to hear what is going in but sometimes is good to let things out in the air. I have never met you in person but what i read in your blog and how much you have helped me and other i know that you are not a person that deserves this. If he cant see how you feel about him and all you went through to be with him then he does no deserve a person like you, and i dont think you should give him time, you have you children and and it not good to be in a relationship that you deep down know that maybe it wont work. You have already given him time to be ready to come and settle in and he does not seem to appreciate nothing to settle for what you are able to give him, which if it was someone that really loved you will cherish. I am no one to tell you what to do, i hope that everything works out for the best :)

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Hey I am so sorry to hear what is going in but sometimes is good to let things out in the air. I have never met you in person but what i read in your blog and how much you have helped me and other i know that you are not a person that deserves this. If he cant see how you feel about him and all you went through to be with him then he does no deserve a person like you, and i dont think you should give him time, you have you children and and it not good to be in a relationship that you deep down know that maybe it wont work. You have already given him time to be ready to come and settle in and he does not seem to appreciate nothing to settle for what you are able to give him, which if it was someone that really loved you will cherish. I am no one to tell you what to do, i hope that everything works out for the best :)

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Your Relationship is your Relationship. Based on your post: RUN Like Hell. Do not offer any means of Support for Continuing the Immigration Process. Will it get better, yes when you tell him this. After that. Its a guess is'nt it!

RUN

Hope you can work things out but I see No Avail from an outside point of view.

TIM/MAV K1-JOURNEY
3/27/2007....We first met on myspace
1/30/10 ......My Honey proposed
8/15/10 ......He visit Philippines(2wks) & met my family
12/17/10 ....USCIS received the Filed I-129F for K1-visa
12/21/10 ....Received hard copy,NOA1
5/25/11.......Received RFE
6/09/11.......NOA2 approved
12/07/11.....Visa fee paid at BPI

6/11/13.......2nd visa fee payment
7/10-11/13.. Medical Exam completed@St.Lukes Clinic
1/15-16/14.. 2nd Medical exam updated
1/21/14...... k1 interview-Visa Approved
.....................................................................
8/29/14...... Submitted AOS application
10/03/14.....Biometrics
01/07/15.....Received my EAD card

01/31/15..... I got my SSN from the mail

04/20/15......AOS Interview - Approved :star:

4/24/15 .......Got the Driving Permit Card

4/30/15 .......Green Card Received :) (Exp.4/20/17)

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awww.. man.. that really is a terrible situation :(

K101/17/2012.....I-129F ..... sent to Dallas, Texas

01/25/2012.....NOA1 (text & email) ..... sent to Vermont Service Center

01/28/2012.....NOA1 Hard Copy in Mail

07/31/2012.....NOA2.. 188 days update@USCIS

08/03/2012.....NOA2.. Hard Copy

09/04/2012.....Sent Email to Caracas Embassy for Interview date.. they had not contacted her

09/05/2012.....Embassy response.. with interview date!!

10/17/2012.....INTERVIEW @Caracas Embassy!

10/17/2012.....INTERVIEW @Caracas Embassy... APPROVED!!

12/31/2012.....POE.. Miami, arrived to AUSTIN next day smile.png

02/16/2013.....Married!!

AOS - K1

05/06/2013.....I-465 & I-765 sent USPS priority mail

05/14/2013......Email, Text of Receiving package on 5/11

05/16/2013......Hard Copy of NOA1 received: I-465 and _I-765 Application for employment

05/20/2013...... Bio-metric hard-copy.
05/29/2013...... Biometric scheduled. . Austin office

07/15/2013...... EAD card arrived in mail today smile.png

10/20/2013...... Green Card approved! NOA hardcopy received!

10/31/2013...... Green Card Delivered!!

ROC-I-751
07/21/15 90 day Window Opens

07/24/15 I-751 Mailed to Cali. Service Center
09/03/15 Biometeric scheduled and completed

01/26/16 ROC Letter arrived
01/30/16 10 yr Green Card arrived

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So my husband arrived 5 days ago. I knew before he arrived that things would be complicated to a certain extent as he was hesitant to come in the first place and he had been "acting out" or "rebelling" gradually for the last 5 months prior to arrival.

Now he's here and his actions are very immature. He is doing things that my own teens don't do. Mocking, giggling, obsessed with the internet and games, etc.... Things that make you feel somewhat embarrassed to have that person as your husband.

He had one friend in the same city I live in, someone I didn't realize would become an issue, but already has. As soon as I'm home from work, he's out the door 30 minutes later, with his friend, doing who knows what. I don't have a way to contact him, other than to call his friends phone, and I honestly have no interest in chasing him around.

On day 3, he became extremely angry because the father of my children called to speak to my daughter. This is a relationship that has been over and done with for over 10 years. My husband was very much aware of this, as they are from the same city in his home country, and they know each other. He was so furious, he told me he didn't want to be with my anymore and that he did not want to be here. He left for 6 hours with his friend, then returned to get his things. I told him to at least stay the night, then in the morning he could do as he pleased. I'm not going to force him to stay. I slept in my daughters room and let him have his space.

He decided to stay but I'm not sure why. We haven't spoken much since that happened.

When I returned yesterday from work, he was preparing some food and when I walked in the door he expected that I run into his embrace and forget everything that had happened the day before. Unfortunately for him, I don't function that way. Everyone is responsible for their actions and words. Brushing your wrongdoings off is not only immature but a coward move, not to mention unattractive. He left with his friend for about 45 minutes, then returned and asked if I minded if he stayed out longer. I told him he's free to do as he wishes. He opted to stay home and I went to sleep.

I overheard a conversation between he and his cousin last evening about him needing a cell phone. I have a pre paid phone that is brand new that I was willing to connect for him. Since his actions are very unpredictable, I'm reluctant to add him to my phone contract. If he leaves I'm stuck paying an unused line for 2 years. Not going to happen. The phone has all the bells and whistles one would want ..... but he says no, he is having a family member send him money so he can get the newest Iphone. He says he doesn't want anything other than this. I cannot afford it, nor will I encourage this type of greedy lifestyle.

I'm discouraged because I thought that he would be more appreciative, more understanding and more considerate. This is not the case. I hated to have to air out my dirty laundry but I need input from people who have gone through similar situations to give me advice. I cannot count on the "give it time, maybe he will change" thing......

I have never been through something like this, but all I can advice you is to remember your worth. Remember you come first. Do not put your foot down on how things are going to be or else he will try and take advantage of you if you let him. I wish you all the luck in the world, don't give up, it's too soon. Keep working on it, but sometimes it's a lost cause. As a woman I am sure you know if it ever gets to that point. God bless. :star:

01/01/2008 - Met
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail

04/24/14 - Sent I-751 to remove conditions

06/09/14 - Biometrics

11/2014 - RFE from USCIS requesting more evidence before approval

Late Jan - Sent further evidence of marriage

03/05/2015 - Got letter of approval for removal of conditions

03/15/2015 - Permanent 10 yr green card received via mail

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Thanks everyone for your input....very much appreciated. I needed some outside advice because this is not an easy decision to make one way or the other.

We'll see what happens......:blush:

Married: 6/17/11

I-130 Sent: 7/9/11

NOA1 : 7/14/11

I-129F Sent: 7/21/11

NOA1: 7/21/11

NOA2: 8/22/11

NVC Received: 8/24/11

NVC Left: 8/26/11

Consulate Received: 9/5/11

Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11

Medical Done: 11/7/11

Interview: 11/23/11

Approved: 11/23/11

Changed to CR1: 12/16/11

Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12

Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........

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Big red flag here.

Huge sea of red.

Bright red, the exploding kind.

The red monster hopes you can be manipulated easily.

Yes, manipulative people are fundamentally cowards. That's why they work at the level of underhanded, dirty emotional plays instead of honest above-board communication.

Him needing to conceal his actions.

The problem is projecting your own empathy, compassion, and understanding on to someone who has none of those traits.

I know you because I'm one of you. With one post I know. We have a disability others don't have: too much trust, naiivite', and gullibility, because we would never tell the lies and put on the phony face of the manipulator. We wear our hearts on our sleeve and do not realize a certain kind of predator is constantly on the hunt for people like us and once they zero in on us they go through the "evaluation phase" where they come to an understanding of all the buttons to push with us to get what they want. It's pretty easy for them to put on an act for a while, but in the long run their colors are going to shine through bright red.

We are people that will knock ourselves out to fix a problem that can't be fixed, and that's why manipulative people select us as targets. The innate trust and hope for good within us causes us to listen to words and see only the smiling face instead of watching the actions and the hands that are gripping our throat. You will have had trouble all your life with manipulative people whereas others for some reason don't.

There is an outstanding book for you called "In Sheep's Clothing" by Dr. George Simon. Please get this book in paperback online, the most recent edition. It is inexpensive and will answer so many questions for you. It will give you the ability to detect these kinds of people and categorize every single tactic they use by name. He's seen bright, beautiful people of accomplishment - PhD's, Corporate presidents, champion athletes, etc. that have been ground into dust by manipulative people because they have a defect they didn't understand about themselves and how to fix it. The irony is that these are the very kinds of people that instantly acknowledge error, have no problem admitting where they are wrong, are into self-improvement and can overcome Olympic-level obstacles. They just don't have the training. So that's what you need, and I promise you it is in this book. It is a very quick read, I did it in a day. I had read four by then but this is the best one for you.

Once I discovered this problem in myself I read voraciously and kept on reading, one book after another, until I understood every variant of manipulator from emotional vampires, to con-men, serial killers, etc. What you are going to discover is that you actually do have internal radar that you have been suppressing because of your warm, forgiving nature and boundless optimism. Your "gut instincts" are there. You just have to learn to pay attention to them.

In the short run you have to protect yourself from this person. This is the enemy, and one that has no scruples and will stop at nothing to get what he wants. The most dangerous possibility is setting you up for a VAWA claim if he gets the right coaching on it, although it is far harder for a man to do than a woman. Spend a little time on the Effects of Major Changes page here and there will be excellent advice on withdrawing your papers from USCIS, telling them it is over and getting him out of your life. I'm just the manipulator specialist and when I see people like me I want to put them on the road to recovery from this disability we share. There are some internet "Cliff's Notes" on "In Sheep's Clothing", and you can go through that while waiting for the paperback to arrive. But get started because I can clearly see that your radar was blinking red before he came here, and you suppressed that radar as you will have done with other manipulators who abused you.

A huge thanks to you for taking the time to respond like this.

I have to say I am very much as you explained. I am a former victim of 10 years of Domestic Violence as well as familial abuse my entire life up until last year when I put a complete stop to this. I have always been a "fixer". I find a friend or man with a serious problem and want to fix them and their life. It's something that I get nothing out of but feel I can provide or guide people to better options or paths in their lives, so I try my best to stay by their side. In the end I am ALWAYS the one who is taken advantage of....clearly by my own fault. From doing this I have major trust issues so this is why, when he came into my life, and I felt as though I could trust him (which is something abnormal for me to feel about anyone) I assumed there was a stronger connection. My ex-abuser and father of my children is a manipulator, as you had explained. He has been diagnosed as a sociopath. Of course, no one believes this since he does a wonderful job in covering this up .... but I am very much aware of it. I had seen some similar characteristics in my husband but I wasn't sure if that was me assuming or if that was a cultural thing (they are from the same country). So I gave it a chance. My husband is not a bad person to others.....but in a relationship he does not understand how to function, take responsibility and be considerate. I have a HUGE problem with this. I am a selfless person who is always willing to help people...I am empathetic and sympathetic. I definitely understand everyone cannot or will not be the same as I am, but it's hard for me to understand a personality that is so very much different than mine.

Everyone is saying it is an adjustment period...and this may be the case. But if it is, then his actions should change...and if they don't I will then know 100% that his agenda was to manipulate me.

Married: 6/17/11

I-130 Sent: 7/9/11

NOA1 : 7/14/11

I-129F Sent: 7/21/11

NOA1: 7/21/11

NOA2: 8/22/11

NVC Received: 8/24/11

NVC Left: 8/26/11

Consulate Received: 9/5/11

Packet 4 Received: 10/4/11

Medical Done: 11/7/11

Interview: 11/23/11

Approved: 11/23/11

Changed to CR1: 12/16/11

Medical Re-Done: 1/5/12

Waiting for Issuance of Visa.........

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A huge thanks to you for taking the time to respond like this.

You're welcome. I won't bore you with much of what I've been through. But I know you by walking in the same shoes.

Of course, no one believes this since he does a wonderful job in covering this up .... but I am very much aware of it. I had seen some similar characteristics in my husband but I wasn't sure if that was me assuming or if that was a cultural thing (they are from the same country). So I gave it a chance.

I didn't state I know full well this goes all the way back to your childhood, but the literature will explain this to you. We can be so screwed up that when someone does something abusive to us, we actually feel a warm glow of the familiar and are attracted to it instead of running from it. At a minimum though we are capable of rationalizing away things that other people would never put up with.

My husband is not a bad person to others.....but in a relationship he does not understand how to function, take responsibility and be considerate. I have a HUGE problem with this.

Manipulators are chameleons. They adjust their behavior according to who they are interacting with. At work they are blowing smoke up the bosses butt. They're smiling to co-workers' faces while stabbing them in the back and sabotaging their efforts. They lay long-range plans and work methodically, using people against one another in subtle but malicious ways. They are adept at keeping people from talking to one another so that they cannot compare notes and discover what the manipulator is really up to (divide and conquer).

In bringing them into my life I have had friends of many years that they managed to turn against me. It took one of them five years of subtle but relentless secret work to accomplish this, and I'm so stupid that I helped him out because he would tell me to hold things in confidence - money I had loaned him, the truth about his work history, the truth about where he was and what he was doing - because he asked me. So after five years of relentless paving of a storyline, you can't even hand these friends the bankruptcy court papers of the manipulator to show them that the manipulator owed you seven thousand dollars he never repaid. Because they won't even look. They believe the opposite: that he rescued you from financial ruin when he's been unemployed the whole time owning nothing and you have airplanes (plural), trucks, boats, property, buried cash, and fly all over the world every year for months at a time. That's how good they are.

I am a selfless person who is always willing to help people...I am empathetic and sympathetic.

I know that hon. More than anything else, this is the most outstanding thing about you and my heart goes out to you. It is like a bright shining beacon that manipulators are constantly on the hunt for. They'll use your empathy against you by accusing you for lack of empathy - because they know how much that will affect you.

I definitely understand everyone cannot or will not be the same as I am, but it's hard for me to understand a personality that is so very much different than mine.

I have the same handicap. But I trained myself to just accept they exist, and most importantly to understand that these people are actively hunting for us every moment of their lives. You are like a flower for the bee and the drink for the alcoholic. A malicious manipulative employee at a fast food joint can tell in one glance when you enter the door that he can turn his back on you, get you frustrated and angry, and get away with it.

Everyone is saying it is an adjustment period...and this may be the case. But if it is, then his actions should change...and if they don't I will then know 100% that his agenda was to manipulate me.

Forget it. Get the book. You are going to go right down the list of manipulative tactics and see how he deployed them: shaming, guilt-tripping, false flattery, evasion, diversion, playing dumb, selective attention/inattention, playing the victim, playing the servant, lying by omission, lying by inclusion of extraneous information, etc.

The one huge mistake you absolutely cannot make is thinking their manipulative behavior just needs to be "explained" to them or that they can be reasoned with. Nobody knows better than them what they are up to. It's just that they have absolutely no empathy for you, no scruples - they are more like machines than people. We are instructed to get them out of our lives and then learn how to avoid them. For the ones that have to be dealt with in cases of a boss or a family member the way you deal with them is tedious and draining, but the book will show you how.

You deserve someone like yourself. I have that now and I accomplished it by taking control instead of allowing manipulative people to ensnare me in their web. Please get this book, and also don't stop there. It sounds like you might enjoy "Nasty People" too. That's free and online. You will learn about the Invalidator in that book. Whenever my wife and I see one now, we turn to look at each other and laugh. We don't need to say "Invalidator" because we both know what we're thinking.

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Reading your post I could be detailing myself and my adult life. You may also want to do some research on narcissitic personality disorder which extends beyond just being a manipulator. Once I understood what I was dealing with it made it easier for me to cope....and to understand that this will not change within the relationship....

<hugs>

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OUR TIMELINE

K1 VISA & MARRIAGE - 8 MONTHS

17 February 2004 Sent I-129F petition CSC - It was APPROVED in 147 days

3 September 2004 INTERVIEW IN LONDON SUCCESSFUL VISA APPROVED! MARRIED OCTOBER 16, 2004

ADJUSTMENT OF STATUS - 5 MONTHS

4 January 2005 - Submitted applications for AOS and EAD - 12 May 2005 Conditional Permanent Residency Approved - interview in Santa Ana

4 June 2005 CPR 2-year Green Card arrives in mail

REMOVAL OF CONDITIONS - 3½ MONTHS

8 May 2007 - I-751 sent to CSC - 23 August 2007 - Approved - Card production ordered

30 August 2007 - 10 year Green Card received

K2 TIMELINE (Stayed behind in UK to finish school)

28 March 2005 - embassy interview & medical London - visa granted

01/18/06 Applications for AOS/EAD sent - 03/28/06 EAD approved

4/3/06 - RFE for AOS - requested new medical and vacc supplement

4/26/06 - approved without interview and welcome letter sent

05/02/2006 - Greencard arrives in mail

03/14/08 - Petition to Remove Conditions mailed to CSC delivered - 7/2/08 APPROVED

NATURALIZATION TIMELINE (for myself and son) 5 MONTHS

April 18, 2011 - N-400 Applications Mailed to AZ lockbox

April 21 (received April 25) NOAs

May 12 - FP Letters mailed

May 16 - Received FP appointment letters for June 8 at 11am

August 1 - Interview - approved for Oath Ceremony - OATH CEREMONY 28 SEPTEMBER

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