Child died in Vietnam before DNA sample

[clayr 35]

Old VJer here, some of you know my history and I haven't posted in a awhile. My fiance went to interview (2nd K1) in JAN 2011 pregnant with our child. The consulate asked for DNA to prove the child was mine and told the baby would have to be born in Vietnam. Quynh Giao was born 6/17 and the DNA kits were at the consualt 6/24. Wife rec'd a letter to come submit to Dna test but was turned away at the window because she didn't have the birth certificate, couple weeks later she showed up at the window with our baby and the birth certificate and was turned away again and told to wait for appointment letter. Our child contracted foot and mouth disease sometime 2 weeks ago and passed away on 9/9/11. Last monday the consulate called her for DNA appointment time and she told them the child has already died. They told her to bring the death certificate which she did wednasday and a Viet man at the consulate called her in without her parents to answer questions. I arrived fri pm because the airline would not accept me to fly without the visa to Viet which took 3 days to get. I am here now but can't go to consulate until Monday at earliest. Our hearts are broken over our daughter and I see on internet 40k children have foot and mouth disease in Viet now and over 100 have died, US consulate had to know. What happens to my wife's visa now? its Sat in Viet now I don't know what to say to my wife our case is 40 months old now

[tcTTct 37]

I am so sorry to hear about that. No parent should ever have to outlive their child. My deepest condolences to you and your family. My prayers are with you.

Edited September 16, 2011 by tcTTct

[AMP 54]

My deepest condolences, also.

[hikergirl 277]

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.

[Ronnie&Hang 12]

OMG ...I'm so sorry to hear about your news, and my deep condolences are with you and your SO.

I hope you will go into the Consulate next week to straight things out and hopefully they will expedite the visa to ease your pains...I have a child coming soon so I do feel your suffering right now..hang in there Clay!!

[Dana-Mića 51]

I am so so so sorry about your loss. Im hoping the embassy gives your wife her visa and you guys can try to cope through this together and not on two different continents.

[jac_chappin 24]

I'm sorry to hear about you loss. My condolence to you and you SO. I hope consulate has compassion towards your case.

[Josie-Be-Happy 11]

I know how hard an unexpected loss is. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy during this tragic time of your lives. I pray that God will remain with your family and bring your wife home.

[Kevin and 10]

Oh man, my heart goes out to you and your fiance.

[EmYeu 3]

Stay strong.. don't give up Hope.. She will get her visa soon.

Good Luck.

My condolence to you and your wife and family.

[luckytxn 2,263]

God bless you and your wife. My heartfelt condolences. I will say a prayer for y'all

[sara..... 371]

May God help you and your wife thru this .....I am very sorry to hear about your child

sara

[dinhdung 0]

I am so sorry to hear that. That was a big lost for both of you. I hope the VN consulate will approve for her visa. Will your love to each other will healing the suffer? stay strong and think positive. Wish you with all of the best.

[tuandanh 3]

Sorry to hear about your painful loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

[mike42979 57]

Very tragic can someone please answer the mans question!!!