am I cheap?

[dogspot 90]

I'm glad my lady is as "cheap" as me

[southcalhog 43]

I am a woman from Philippines with 3kids ....please don't generalized all the woman in Phils with kids coz every individual has differences... I'm a College degree holder and to the fact that i have kids ..i never obligued my fiance to support my kids , it's his choice to help me and i really appreciate it so much ....MONEY can just ruin one's relationship if u always demand for money all the time....just my opinion:)

Otey..Tallcoolone is not saying anything wrong with a Woman in the philippines having Kids, its not in his gudielines of what hes looking for.And you know what? its not in mind either.I myself would never file for a woman with kid(s).Thats my choice, not saying anything wrong with filing for a Woman with kids...........BUT to my Man! like the Other Poster said.."U being Played" my friend! Find another lady thats looking for LOVE ONLY! NOT MONEY!

[Messybrownhair 251]

She is nothing but a cunning and manipulative woman who is out to milk you for all your money. You need to use your head, you already know the answer to this, and when she's done with you and she has her greencard and you've filed for bankruptcy, watch her leave you for the next rich man she can target in America. There are girls like this and everyone here (except you) can smell her from a mile away. Sorry to be blunt, but you don't deserve this and you are just putting yourself in the path of the regret. I hope you realize this before its too late!

[southcalhog 43]

She is nothing but a cunning and manipulative woman who is out to milk you for all your money. You need to use your head, you already know the answer to this, and when she's done with you and she has her greencard and you've filed for bankruptcy, watch her leave you for the next rich man she can target in America. There are girls like this and everyone here (except you) can smell her from a mile away. Sorry to be blunt, but you don't deserve this and you are just putting yourself in the path of the regret. I hope you realize this before its too late!

AMEN..............Brother!

[Mariye & Ky 172]

Wow! You spent $3500 USD in the PI in one week???? Twice no less? You must have had an very extravagant and luxurious time because that's a heck of a lot of money for 7 days there!

Tell her to send you some $$ bank $$ because you need it to help for "HER KID" and his immigration. Tell her to ask "HIS DAD -- HER EX" for the money too. And lastly, she's a gold digger.

LOL if she calls you cheap again, just agree and say, Yes, I am. You have a problem with that?

She's out of her mind... she's GREEEEEEEDY! And you can tell her that too!

[Ban Hammer 12,857]

it seems to me that you'd spend lots of time, effort, and money to make her happy - to the point to where it would make you miserable.

[Tahoma 2,291]

She is nothing but a cunning and manipulative woman who is out to milk you for all your money. You need to use your head, you already know the answer to this, and when she's done with you and she has her greencard and you've filed for bankruptcy, watch her leave you for the next rich man she can target in America. There are girls like this and everyone here (except you) can smell her from a mile away. Sorry to be blunt, but you don't deserve this and you are just putting yourself in the path of the regret. I hope you realize this before its too late!

Agreed, sister!

[Mariye & Ky 172]

Mine works and is college educated. A very nice girl and funny. The only thing about her is that she does not want to understand that I am not a rich guy.

LOL... oh she understands you alrighty! You just underestimate HER.

Some times, I feel it is my fault. I think I am the one trying to offer her things to make her happy. It is as if I am scared not to see her happy.

Accountability is a good thing. Now what will you do about it?

Too Bad your not like Me, I am full of Confidence, I am very Good Looking and Woman find me irrestable..........

Woman Want Me and Men Want to be like Me <<<<< :rofl:

It's Good to be the King Of Philippines

Ok you need to get a grip on yourself! You're not all that for God sakes! But your little dog is cute! Geeze...

She is nothing but a cunning and manipulative woman who is out to milk you for all your money. You need to use your head, you already know the answer to this, and when she's done with you and she has her greencard and you've filed for bankruptcy, watch her leave you for the next rich man she can target in America. There are girls like this and everyone here (except you) can smell her from a mile away. Sorry to be blunt, but you don't deserve this and you are just putting yourself in the path of the regret. I hope you realize this before its too late!

LOL yes she reeks of that stinky kind of fish when you fry it... what's the name ?? The dried ones that make people run out of a house when cooking?

<<<<<<< ACH I HATE THAT SMELL! Ewwwwwwwwwwwwww!

[marklovetina 52]

devastatedme...I would like to introduce you to Gilles.

to the OP, i think the best thing you can do for your relationship at this time is to make sure she reads this entire post!!! Just my 2 cents.

it seems to me that you'd spend lots of time, effort, and money to make her happy - to the point to where it would make you miserable.

[Mike&Cherry 45]

The next time she asks you for money, don't tell her that your not rich. But tell her that you don't have any money at all and that you may loose your house. See what she does then. I'm sure you will finally see her true colors. If she really loves you she will stay by your side, richer or poorer. I predict that she will definately not stay with you. This will be a good test. I predict that she will leave you. By what you say here, I don't see any relationship bases on love. It's all about money, greed and all about her. She will use you until you can't give anymore. Girl's like her will come up with every excuse to drain you while at the same time they have a boyfirend in Phil that your supporting. Many guys have gone through what your going through. Check out this scammer website. http://www.dragonladies.org

You can definately find a Good Filipina and you will know when you do because she will be the total opposite of the girl you have now. Learn your expensive lesson and move on to greener pastures. You deserve so much better; any good guy does.

[southcalhog 43]

The next time she asks you for money, don't tell her that your not rich. But tell her that you don't have any money at all and that you may loose your house. See what she does then. I'm sure you will finally see her true colors. If she really loves you she will stay by your side, richer or poorer. I predict that she will definately not stay with you. This will be a good test. I predict that she will leave you. By what you say here, I don't see any relationship bases on love. It's all about money, greed and all about her. She will use you until you can't give anymore. Girl's like her will come up with every excuse to drain you while at the same time they have a boyfirend in Phil that your supporting. Many guys have gone through what your going through. Check out this scammer website. http://www.dragonladies.org

You can definately find a Good Filipina and you will know when you do because she will be the total opposite of the girl you have now. Learn your expensive lesson and move on to greener pastures. You deserve so much better; any good guy does.

Amen..........Brother! Well said!

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

devastatedme...I would like to introduce you to Gilles.

Poor Jasman.

[queenofharts 1]

First, let's review our vocabulary.

1. If you are giving somebody money or buying them things then you are "generous" not "cheap". You are very generous.

2. If somebody does not appreciate your generosity then they are "selfish" and "greedy". Is this who you want to be with?

Whether the girl from the Philippines is college educated, has kids, or is poor is irrelevant. Selfish and greedy can come from anywhere. Those are the people you should avoid.

And somebody said that good girls from the Philippines do not ask for money. That is very true. When my fiance and her family have a financial problem, it is incredibly difficult to get them to tell me about it and to find out how much would help them. I always get the same answer "don't worry, we'll be okay." You are simply being used for your money. What is going to happen when you run out?

If I were you, I'd be very very worried. She already has her visa in hand? There are plenty of women in the Philippines, and in other countries, who just want a loving relationship and don't care about money and appreciate generosity. You have a very serious problem.

And by the way, did you say you sent $100 for her and her kid to go to Jollibee? Really? That's insane.

You need to really think about what your future is going to be like. If things don't change, you need to run from this as fast as you can.

Best of luck.

VERY TRUE I help out as much as i can but i can never get a word out of my fiancee if she needs money for a bill or whatever and when i do finally get it out of her she is so shy and hates the fact that i am sending her help. I think everyone has pretty much told this guy how it is or atleast how it should be. This topic makes me sad can we all stop ruining this guys day now Goodluck Man !

[southcalhog 43]

VERY TRUE I help out as much as i can but i can never get a word out of my fiancee if she needs money for a bill or whatever and when i do finally get it out of her she is so shy and hates the fact that i am sending her help. I think everyone has pretty much told this guy how it is or atleast how it should be. This topic makes me sad can we all stop ruining this guys day now Goodluck Man !

Enough Said!

[B_J 2,752]

This topic makes me sad can we all stop ruining this guys day now Goodluck Man !

Good idea.

I'm letting this topic go now and I really hope things work out for this guy; one way or another. Good luck.