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Anyone on VJ ever gone through a divorce? What did it teach you?

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

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Evidently, something happened, Spooks, because you stopped getting free milk.

maybe he mistook the bull for a cow. :unsure:

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I carry a gun because a cop is too heavy.

 

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Ban Hammer Grand Master

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never trust a redhead

My baby is a redhead !!!

reels this one in and rebaits the hook........

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one...two...tree Grand Master

one...two...tree   2,762

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never trust a redhead

My baby is a redhead !!!

Ah, she's a cutey! :D(F):thumbs::luv:

I've been married 4 times. I've learned alot.

Mainly, that men will fall for any old ####### they're told, as long as it strokes their egos! :lol:

:o:lol:

:P

< suspicious of all future compliments from spouse > :jest:

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Just like the topic title reads. I'm sure everyone at VJ has some great stories to share. This should make Saturday night an interesting one! :thumbs::dance:

Hahahahaha ! It taught me to stay away from old drunks !

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

100% Al Ahly Fan Proficient

100% Al Ahly Fan   53

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women suck.

and sometimes, that's why we marry them :devil:

LOL, Charles you are too funny!

What I learned is that I am GLAD that I am no longer married to him! It also taught me that just because it ends in divorce doesn't mean something wonderful can't come from it....my son :wub:

Blessed are the heart that can bend, they can never be broken - Albert Camus

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women suck.

And that's why men love us so ! :dance:

May 7,2007-USCIS received I-129f
July 24,2007-NOA1 was received
April 21,2008-K-1 visa denied.
June 3,2008-waiver filed at US Consalate in Panama
The interview went well,they told him it will take another 6 months for them to adjudicate the waiver
March 3,2009-US Consulate claims they have no record of our December visit,nor Manuel's interview
March 27,2009-Manuel returned to the consulate for another interrogation(because they forgot about December's interview),and they were really rude !
April 3,2009-US Counsalate asks for more court documents that no longer exist !
June 1,2009-Manuel and I go back to the US consalate AGAIN to give them a letter from the court in Colon along with documents I already gave them last year.I was surprised to see they had two thick files for his case !


June 15,2010-They called Manuel in to take his fingerprints again,still no decision on his case!
June 22,2010-WAIVER APPROVED at 5:00pm
July 19,2010-VISA IN MANUELITO'S HAND at 3:15pm!
July 25,2010-Manuelito arrives at 9:35pm at Logan Intn'l Airport,Boston,MA
August 5,2010-FINALLY MARRIED!!!!!!!!!!!!
August 23,2010-Filed for AOS at the International Institute of RI $1400!
December 23,2010-Work authorization received.
January 12,2011-RFE

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Ok,

First marriage lasted for 6 years if you count the year and 8 months we didn’t live together... that he wouldn’t sign the stupid papers...

I take full blame for my first marriage reasons being ..

1 don’t get married at 17 (and the guy is way older or the inverse)

2 don’t think you can change the person you are with

3 marry a man that you can be with your WHOLE life not just one you like to look at (this applies to both sexes just reverse it)

4 find someone you can sit in a room alone with for 12 hours and not want to harm physically

5 remember the ultimate goal in marriage is to settle down have kids buy a house... so if those are things you don’t want talk about it first.

6 make sure your mother likes them first **found that to be key because even if you don’t really think so MOM IS ALWAYS RIGHT**

Now that the divorce is final and I am re-married ... I and my X are fine again. Our children are both very happy and life couldn’t be any better.

I had a great marriage for 4 years it was the last 1/2 year together that ruined our relationship. Sometimes small things that are insignificant to your SO are VERY important to you and vice versa.

I believe honesty is the most important thing, he didn’t think honesty was important.

He thought kids were important, well I kind of gave in on that one (I think 7 year difference in age made that difference)

beyond that I don’t talk much about the last year of marriage and the serious issues ....I try to remember the good times so that I don’t want to re-think how nice I was in settling marriage issues. :)

BTW did I mention I am HAPPILY REMARRIED to the bestest person ever lol

trinket Experienced

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After reading this thread, I told my husband, lets try to be civilised if we ever get divorced in 10 years time or whenever. He said -- It will be all my fault if we ever get divorced -_- because he is an angel.

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women suck.

and sometimes, that's why we marry them :devil:

LOL, Charles you are too funny!

What I learned is that I am GLAD that I am no longer married to him! It also taught me that just because it ends in divorce doesn't mean something wonderful can't come from it....my son :wub:

Great story! Congrats on starting Chapter II so successfully :thumbs:

scandal Grand Master

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After reading this thread, I told my husband, lets try to be civilised if we ever get divorced in 10 years time or whenever. He said -- It will be all my fault if we ever get divorced -_- because he is an angel.

Trinket, if your husband is anything as sweet as you are, you guys have a match made in heaven. :star:

spookyturtle Grand Master

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Interesting. I haven't read anyone admitting to their contribution of why their first marriage failed. I guess it is easier to lay the blame entirely on the other spouse.

It is always the other spouses fault isn't it?

Obviously.

I had a lot, PLENTY, to do with my marriage breakdown. I'm not going to share details here on VJ though. And my admitting guilt doesn't mean SHE has none of her own.

Tell us all the nasty little details. We love gossip.

Yes, please, Ron...do tell.

Fvcking voyeurs getting cheap thrills from other people's misery. :angry:

Is that what this website is really all about? :P

:lol: I'm kidding. But seriously...how about a synopsis? You can leave out the juicy details?

I screwed around.

She caught me.

I then tried to be a good and faithful husband for about 3 years. Marriage counseling, the whole nine yards.

Packed up stakes in the states to move to Israel just to get a clean start. Wasn't enough.

That's it fellas. End of story.

Did you screw around with other women or sheep?

R.I.P Spooky 2004-2015

 

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