weekend pity party K3 VSC'ers

[Y's_habibitk 2]

ok guys,

Lets try this again..... I liked the weekend party thread idea

[Robina 0]

I'm K-1, but deffinitely up for a pity party. We've been in AP over a year now.......

[Courtney08 0]

Hey, Just wanted to swing by and say hey to everyone. I am hopeing I dont end up a regular visitor to this pity party, but just in case I might as well get aquainted now. Sorry for lightening the mood

Have a great weekend guys !~~!

[daboyz 36]

Hey, Just wanted to swing by and say hey to everyone. I am hopeing I dont end up a regular visitor to this pity party, but just in case I might as well get aquainted now. Sorry for lightening the mood

Have a great weekend guys !~~!

That picture of the temple? What is that place?

[pushbrk 12,154]

Hey, Just wanted to swing by and say hey to everyone. I am hopeing I dont end up a regular visitor to this pity party, but just in case I might as well get aquainted now. Sorry for lightening the mood

Have a great weekend guys !~~!

That picture of the temple? What is that place?

See, once a party gets pooped, it loses it's luster.

[notime4haterz 0]

What the hell happened yesterday? I go out to dinner with colleagues and I come into work this morning and some trouble maker got our thread shut down? She says she's observed my behavior for years? LOOOL I haven't even been on VJ a year yet. She said my question was out of line? All I asked the lady was how come her husband wasn't here yet? That was me, being sympathetic to someone who was upset by being away from her spouse. Since she had her approval a long time ago, I was asking why he's not here. How is that inappropriate??? LOOOOL I can't believe the ignorance of some people. I need to change my name to notimeforignorantpeople. As for my behavior on MENA, if you're talking about jealous, hateful, bitter women with issues because they've been used, abused, or mistreated by MENA men and hate on me for having a sincere, loving relationship with a husband who spoils the hell out of me... Okay, talk about it. Bottom line is anything you say, means absolutely nothing to me. You and the clique that go around defending each other (sharing a brain maybe?)...

The only people I care about are the ones who are with me, going through the same situation, who can feel my pain. That's my K-3 family of Lisa, CJ-G, CJ Vasani, Robbyrob, antiwaiting, Birchbeer, Mahitab, Monica, and all the others in our K-3 family.

Thank you my darlings, for defending me while I was gone. I do appreciate it. I had a funny story to share with you guys about my dinner last night, but I think I'll save it for later, when I'm a little less pi$$ed off.

Lisa, CJ-G, I love you dearly!

Narina

Hey, Just wanted to swing by and say hey to everyone. I am hopeing I dont end up a regular visitor to this pity party, but just in case I might as well get aquainted now. Sorry for lightening the mood

Have a great weekend guys !~~!

That picture of the temple? What is that place?

It's a picture of Petra, Jordan. It was up for being voted as one of the 7 wonders of the world. Google it, it's awesome!

[andreea 0]

Narina, life is too short to get mad at meaningless stuff. best is to just ignore them. a cool feature here would be an "ignore user" option. ud just push the button and not see any of their posts. that way would be no need to close threads. anyways, I think u better share the funny dinner story. will cheer u up, will cheer us up.

[notime4haterz 0]

Narina, life is too short to get mad at meaningless stuff. best is to just ignore them. a cool feature here would be an "ignore user" option. ud just push the button and not see any of their posts. that way would be no need to close threads. anyways, I think u better share the funny dinner story. will cheer u up, will cheer us up.

It involved dinner and guns LOL

Maybe I shouldn't post it. I might be accused of being a terrorist by "the group" and get banned for life LOOOOL

[andreea 0]

lets call the guns pencils. and now u can tell the story and be safe. did anyone point their pencil in a threatening way?

[rebeccajo 14]

Narina, life is too short to get mad at meaningless stuff. best is to just ignore them. a cool feature here would be an "ignore user" option. ud just push the button and not see any of their posts. that way would be no need to close threads. anyways, I think u better share the funny dinner story. will cheer u up, will cheer us up.

The feature is already available.

[rebeccajo 14]

What the hell happened yesterday? I go out to dinner with colleagues and I come into work this morning and some trouble maker got our thread shut down? She says she's observed my behavior for years? LOOOL I haven't even been on VJ a year yet. She said my question was out of line? All I asked the lady was how come her husband wasn't here yet? That was me, being sympathetic to someone who was upset by being away from her spouse. Since she had her approval a long time ago, I was asking why he's not here. How is that inappropriate??? LOOOOL I can't believe the ignorance of some people. I need to change my name to notimeforignorantpeople. As for my behavior on MENA, if you're talking about jealous, hateful, bitter women with issues because they've been used, abused, or mistreated by MENA men and hate on me for having a sincere, loving relationship with a husband who spoils the hell out of me... Okay, talk about it. Bottom line is anything you say, means absolutely nothing to me. You and the clique that go around defending each other (sharing a brain maybe?)...

The only people I care about are the ones who are with me, going through the same situation, who can feel my pain. That's my K-3 family of Lisa, CJ-G, CJ Vasani, Robbyrob, antiwaiting, Birchbeer, Mahitab, Monica, and all the others in our K-3 family.

Thank you my darlings, for defending me while I was gone. I do appreciate it. I had a funny story to share with you guys about my dinner last night, but I think I'll save it for later, when I'm a little less pi$$ed off.

Lisa, CJ-G, I love you dearly!

Narina

I wasn't speaking about observing your behavior for years, Narina. The comment was not directed at you personally. I was speaking categorically of behavior of persons on this site who are extremely agitated about the separation from their spouses or fiances. I would not for a moment condemn being upset, sad or unhappy during the period of separation. But I do believe there are ways of handling of those emotions that are more productive than others.

Insofar as your comment towards the other member regarding her husbands arrival in the US, if I misunderstood your 'support' of her then I apologize. Again it is my observation that not all couples rush to be together immediately after the visa is issued. Some have loose ends to tie up before they move.

[notime4haterz 0]

Okay, since it's supposed to be a pity party, let me get a question going...

What song do you think represents your feelings for your SO while you're waiting for them?

OR

What song do you like that you think represents your lover? or even something that reminds you of them???

Here are 2 songs that I love which I think tell how much I love my husband:

Don't wanna miss a thing by Aerosmith

Insatiable by Darren Hayes

Let's keep it goin'... write as many as you like!

[cris11 0]

Now I give up! I throw in the towel for good! My application is in the famous que yet. I unpack the bags, sell the house and taking time off from work now, although no clear.

I had not intended to be away from my husband anymore, I will try to stay there on my tourist visa 90 days… wish me good luck,,, I need that guys, I had travel to US before when my case still pending.

Anyway, my mother in law asked me to send my list to her, what I wish me from Santa Claus,,, You know what… a given application, APPROVED! If not, its ok with a flannel pajamas too….

People, hang with me on the Lucia celebration this evening, some light in the tunnel from her....I know you are tired too, I wish we could do a big party next year and celebrate now its over with VSC..

Im going to dance the whole night when my case tell me, APPROVED,,,so give me idea on the BESt party music,,,, Have a good weekend!

[Courtney08 0]

Hey, Just wanted to swing by and say hey to everyone. I am hopeing I dont end up a regular visitor to this pity party, but just in case I might as well get aquainted now. Sorry for lightening the mood

Have a great weekend guys !~~!

That picture of the temple? What is that place?

It is a photo of Petra, in Jordan. It is one of the seven wonders of the world. VERY beautiful it was carved into the sandstone by hand. It isnt just the main building either there are many beautiful things to look at there. Long walk though 3km to the main building and another 2km to the roman theater.

[notime4haterz 0]

Now I give up! I throw in the towel for good! My application is in the famous que yet. I unpack the bags, sell the house and taking time off from work now, although no clear.

I had not intended to be away from my husband anymore, I will try to stay there on my tourist visa 90 days… wish me good luck,,, I need that guys, I had travel to US before when my case still pending.

Anyway, my mother in law asked me to send my list to her, what I wish me from Santa Claus,,, You know what… a given application, APPROVED! If not, its ok with a flannel pajamas too….

People, hang with me on the Lucia celebration this evening, some light in the tunnel from her....I know you are tired too, I wish we could do a big party next year and celebrate now its over with VSC..

Im going to dance the whole night when my case tell me, APPROVED,,,so give me idea on the BESt party music,,,, Have a good weekend!

If you can come here for 90 days and stay, do it! Why not???

I think you can leave every 90 days, go to Mexico or Canada and then come back.

I told my husband to come here and just stay a few months (he's also visa waiver) but he said "No" because he doesn't feel good to not work while I'm going to work everyday.

Okay, another question:

What's a good party/celebration song to dance to once we get our spouses here with us???

I like Arabic and Latin music...so I would probably be dancing to that LOL

For a slow dance, how about "At Last" by Etta James??? (At last...my love has come along...my lonely days are over...and life is like a song...)