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Guys, I need your honest opinion on this matter. I have asked my fiance to change his mattress but I am feeling funny about it.

The only reason i am asking him to change it is because he's had if for a few years now and I know his ex slept there many times. Do you think i am being childish, has any of you felt like that too?

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Seems reasonable to me....

Lady, people aren't chocolates. Do you know what they are mostly? Bastards. ####### coated bastards with ####### filling. But I don't find them half as annoying as I find naive bobble-headed optimists who walk around vomiting sunshine.
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Nope, you're not being silly

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I would do the same. A mattress is different that a chair or plates! I would want a new mattress for new hot memories. :devil:

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Does he need to change out all the other furniture in the house because she might have sat on it?

What about the plates, silverware and cups?

No I dont have a problem with the other funitures as i am not sleeping in/on them..I am a religious person and I think your marital bed should be sacred, so I am a little uncomfortable knowing i am sleeping in a bed the hes had sex in before.

I dont have a problem with his ex, please bear that in mind

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not silly. I made Charles buy us an entire new bed :thumbs:



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Does he need to change out all the other furniture in the house because she might have sat on it?

What about the plates, silverware and cups?

No I dont have a problem with the other funitures as i am not sleeping in/on them..I am a religious person and I think your marital bed should be sacred, so I am a little uncomfortable knowing i am sleeping in a bed the hes had sex in before.

I dont have a problem with his ex, please bear that in mind

I agree, the marital bed is special...should be treated as sacred.

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not silly. I made Charles buy us an entire new bed :thumbs:

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i can't say how i'd feel in that situation.. i doubt i would request a new bed (unless it wasn't comfy!!!)

but for you: unless he used a mattress protector... get rid of it! if so, just get a new mattress protector and sheets. :)

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Hahaha... i never thought about it like that, but you know what?

Yes! Get the new mattress. :thumbs: You are newlyweds... out with the old and in with the new!

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Does he need to change out all the other furniture in the house because she might have sat on it?

What about the plates, silverware and cups?

No I dont have a problem with the other funitures as i am not sleeping in/on them..I am a religious person and I think your marital bed should be sacred, so I am a little uncomfortable knowing i am sleeping in a bed the hes had sex in before.

I dont have a problem with his ex, please bear that in mind

I agree, the marital bed is special...should be treated as sacred.

I think marriage is sacred, but to me, the mattress is just furniture. And potentially an expensive purchase.

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