Me and my wife got married September 18th 2012, we filed for the green card pretty late but I finally got it in November 2013.
We have been married for over 2.5 years. But I have only had the green card for around 1.5 years and It's still on conditional status.
As the topic says. I work nights and I come home late. I usually walk my dog when I get home.
When I was on the street I noticed my wife making out and hornying up against another guy inside a car. I was shocked and my entire body became weak. I've never experienced anything like this before.
Our relationship has been good and bad, but mostly bad. Despite this we never gave up, until she did the last few months, she became distant and always came home drunk or high. And yes she's an aggressive drunk.
When she cheated on me this Sunday, things felt bad, but in a different way, I kept trying in my way, but she had totally given up. I didnt understand what was going on until I saw her with the other guy.
We had talked about taking a break from each other the same day. But seeing her doing this, one exactly the same day.. heartbreaking and devastation is not enough words for it.
She said she will move out, but she's still staying here until she can find an apartment. And while shes doing so she keeps justifying her cheating on me and keeps telling me that its been my fault that it happened.
She makes me depressed and I cant stand her, especially when shes still staying under the same roof.
She says legally Im gonna have to pay for the deposit of her new apartment and some of the rent.
I just want to not be with her anymore, I rather die than to ever see her again.
For the greencard, the proof I have of Bonafide marriage is:
- Joint signed lease for apartment
- Joint car insurace
- Joint bank accounts.
- pictures of me and her together (recent ones)
- pictures of me,her and her family together (also recent ones)
We went to couples counceling about 1 year into the marriage, I might be able to get those papers, but Im not sure.
Im anxious, depressed and now terrified that ill lose my ability to stay. I've built myself a career that I couldve never achieved in a country like Sweden that I'm from.
Am I going to be safe If i divorce her and file the I-751 early??? What should I do???
Please help me
I forgot to say we filed joint tax return for 2014. I didnt have any taxes to file for 2013.