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It seems like a case that you are making more complicated than it should be. Having said that, maybe there is more to it. You seem to focus a lot on yourself and what you are doing for her. I don't think that necessarily proves a valid marriage.
 
You also mentioned something very interesting in that "she's not super interested in going to USA but doing it more for me." Is she doing that maybe because you are paying for her daughter's schooling? If you did not, would there still be love?
 
I hope that you are not buying her love. She clearly wanted to stay in her country but it seems that you have convinced her to join you in the US. 
 
That is just my assessment. That does not necessarily mean that is the case. 

My fiance was refused for her visa and given a pink slip.  They officer said she passed everything, but I didn't and am ineligible because of 2004, 2005 and 2007 misdemeanor convictions.  I provided all information related to them with the original application so there was no fraud on my part, nor any new evidence brought up from the officers interview/research.  They told her they are sending the papers back to USA and that they cannot give her a visa.  My convictions were Public Intoxication, Disorderly Conduct, Possession of Marijuana (none are Adam Walsh Act things that make me truly ineligible.  Instead she was using her own power of "immigration God" where she can decide whatever she wants without any real accountability (anways, hehe).
 
So, on their FAM handbook, and other government sites, it says I can reapply again, and that if I do it within 1 year I don't have to do another application or pay the fee again.  However, when I try to schedule an appointment it's trying to make me pay the fee.  How do I reapply?
 
I have new evidence.  The difficult thing is one of the charges was an arrest for strangulation that resulted into a charge of disorderly conduct.  I have a 2008 affidavit that I didn't provide where the witness (my mother) said that the police misrepresented her in his written statement and that she did not see strangulation.  Also, I have documents showing the charges were dropped to disorderly conduct and the order of protection was dropped.  The victim was my father, who ran into the woods and hid (he ran and hid because he kicked me first, then I hit him and penned him by the shoulder against the wall for a few seconds.  Yes, something very terrible, but not strangulation, and 14 years ago, and not a conviction).
 
They say innocent until proven guilty by a court of law, HOWEVER, with IMBRA you are guilty of something that the court determined you weren't.  The officer is misunderstanding IMBRA thinking it disqualifies me, when all it does is require a disclosure, which I did.
 
Funny, the law is 60% talking about a pamphlet that they should give you at the interview regarding domestic violence.  They did not give my fiance such pamphlet (so I followed the law and they didn't).  Has anyone else either received or not received the pamphlet)?

The record isn’t an issue. People actually in prison for murder have petitioned spouses. My husband has a felony and also a history of addiction. 
 
The consular Officer is likely to ask you about his record, the assault with a deadly weapon would probably be what they are particularly interested in, just to make sure you understand exactly what you are getting into. See my profile for a summary of my interview. I was asked more than once about my husband’s felony and whether I was fully aware of what it means, what happened, etc. 

In the interview, straight from the CO's mouth.

Yes, but it is much more common to be in AP for months vs years.   

If you knew jan22's background, you'd view him as a "VJ god" in this area.
Good luck, and definitely report back!

Is this sarcasm? I don’t understand 
I’m gonna go to the interview, wish me luck every one

In general yes.  Essentially you go to the interview, meet all the requirements to get the visa with the exception of the bar, but since the end of the bar is so close, you will be put in "Refused" or "Administrative Processing" status until the bar is completed.
 
Good Luck!

Chiming in to say this would be a case not to DIY it and to hire a qualified lawyer with experience in waivers.

That is not a risk if the visa is not issued until after the potential ban is up.  

Or, you could go to the interview if it’s scheduled before Jsnuary and find out if, in fact, you have a ban.  If you don’t, and everything else is good in your case, you’ll get a visa.  
 
If you do, they will give you a 221g refusal until either a) you get a waiver approved, or b) the ban is over.  You do not have to apply for a waiver just because you went to the intervie.  You can still wait out the ban, which will overcome the 221g refusal much sooner than getting a waiver, and the visa will be issued.  You might have to update your medical; however, that’s likely still cheaper than the waiver fee. 

To state the obvious she swore under oath twice that she was married.
 
Probably does not help that you did not know, questions the relationship.
 
I assume they returned the case to USCIS as they approved the I 130 not knowing about these issues.
 
There are two options in my mind.
 
Refile an I 130 being upfront about her past situation.
 
File a Writ of Mandamus to get action on the current case.
 
Either way this is going to be a long and expensive process with possibly an insoluble road block. I would also be working on a plan B.
 

Thanks everyone for their responses. 

Thanks everyone for their responses. 

No.  Contact NVC and tell the not to schedule the interview until after the date the bar ends.  No need to explain why.  Just give them and "after date".

Another vote to IMMEDIATELY contact NVC to delay the interview until after the ban ends.  .  Otherwise, it will be a very cumbersome process. 

Me  too,  dely the case at NVC
Case can be kept open a year just write and let them know to dely interview
 
You need to notify them once a month (according to a notice i received for my case )
short note with case #, both names and both DOB's to say , please continue to keep my case open
 
you will also need to send notice in January that you are ready for interview

This is where to contact NVC - And another vote from me to do this ASAP before they schedule the interview

https://travel.state.gov/content/travel/en/us-visas/visa-information-resources/ask-nvc.html

So me working for Immigration is not sufficient. Well than I will rest my case.
But if you will search the forum, you will see a person being denied citizenship, because USCIS did find out that he made a false claim being a citizen, and he already had a permanent green card, and guess what he will be facing deportation.
The only thing I can tell you good luck!!!

i meant beacuse this case seems complicated could they find a reason to deny us. Only cited fraud or misrep. as an example.

Not sure I understand the relevance of the flight conformation in May.