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Yes, and today I received a little more information needed to report. It burns me up that he entered this country and did not have the decency to be a real man and attend the birth of his child. I can only hope someday he will be held accountable for his wrongdoings. But for now, I have to focus on the important things and that is making sure he does not get a green card with my help. I wish I could get his location. All of his numbers, emails, and forms of social media he has not attended to since entering this country.

I was with him when he was issued the emergency travel visa as he got it because of me losing a baby while I was there with him and needed to travel back here for possible medical care. His I-94 states B2 as the entry visa and that is the best I can find out and he is able to stay 6 months and it is goof for 5 years (4 more remaining. What happens if he is on the birth certificate?

Oh, really, he could possibly kidnap her? Yes, that is what concerns me. I feel like he is plotting to do something really dirty. Somebody asked had he planned this all along. I would say he was using me for benefits and after he found out somebody else could offer him more, he fled from the scene to be with them instead. I feel like he eventually would have left me for somebody else no matter what and that he never loved me. He started calling me really degrading names over the past few months. He had booked a flight back in July for another city in the same state of his POE. So, I can only assume he was planning to be with whomever he is with for a long time. He told his mother he was coming here to earn money and that he would not live with me. On the website for department of state it says updated October 11 and it says "ready". Would it say "issued" if he got the visa? His family lies so much that I cannot separate the lies from the truth. I asked his brother where he was when I knew the truth and he said, "he is in his room in bed". Yes, I can only assume he was in bed with somebody aside from me here in the USA. I have not been able to eat in 4 days and this entire betrayal has changed my entire idea about him and his family.

Thank you again for advice. I am doing it but it will be hard. My heart is breaking. I just had mental setbacks and that was the reason for my delay. I have to push through it and do what I have to do. Ironically, our baby turns two months old on our 3rd wedding anniversary. That alone will be a heartbreaking day for me. But I am thankful for the blessing of my child. I guess in short, I got the better end of the deal. He walked away from a family for somebody else. Life will eventually show him his errors. I know his family begged me to let him stay here they just wanted him gone for their safety. I know they feel free and easy now. I hope they are happy, but my daughter and I are very much affected by this situation. What should I tell her when she comes of age to know? Also, someone said he could try to take her from me. Is this possible? I am going to the post office tomorrow to send off my letter. Wish me well that this turns out in my favor and his case gets withdrawn. I heard I have to withdraw both the I-130 and the sponsorship for me and my father. I should have done it long again, but my heart still was attached to him and his family. It was all a big deception and none of them ever loved me. As you said we have gotten away from the no-good man, and I need to stay away forever and let him be somebody else's problem and move on.

I did call and got the ICE officer voicemail. He has yet to return my call. I am emotionally drained, so I am trying to keep my focus here without falling to pieces. I think he did do the religious marriage as stated. Although, I suspect he is living with someone who he was friends with prior to meeting me. She is an older lady roughly 65 and he was in contact with her. She lives in the same state that he did POE. So, I do have an address for her that I will try to serve the papers to. I believe he was plotting to do this to me for a while now. I think it is very disgusting that he snuck back into this country on the visa that we got for our child we had previously lost. Then he never had the decency to even come meet this baby. I had my delivery without him and that makes me feel stupid. He was fooling around in another state enjoying life while I was in the hospital having his child. It cuts like a knife. I am very hurt. I will do what is best for me and the baby. I am going to my attorney tomorrow and I also will be seeking therapy as this has mentally affected me as he is a narcissist. I never knew this was going to be in my destiny. I feel like my entire world is crumbling down before me and nothing will ever be normal again. Looking back, I went through old emails, and he was always running away and blocking me during important events in my life. I should have known better. I hope his new victim finds out how he is fast before she gets pregnant, and he leaves her as well (if it is not the 65-year-old). He was also talking to daughter, so I suspect she left her husband for mine. That is what I have come to believe after some investigating and talking to his best friend via my Pakistani brother-in-law (sister's husband) and a friend. Sorry to rant, but I needed to let it all out. Thank you all for the advice. I do have an old account here but due to feeling ashamed I wanted to be anonymous in case he reads this to protect myself.

I have no address at all. The last time he texted me was September 29 and that was just the words "you got what you wanted" (as in a baby). I kept texting him and by that time he was already here, and I was a fool thinking he was still in Pakistan. His brother kept lying to me because he wanted me to buy him a cell phone. So, he was only planning to tell me he left after he got what he wanted. So, I feel overall betrayed by the entire family. They told me they wanted him to leave to get out of their way because he was abusing all of them. Then there is an allegation that he was doing something wrong with one of his small students at the mosque he was over. He was working as an imam but was fired there due to this allegation. Is there any way I could mention this in the letter as well? Would that be of interest to the USCIS?

Will take your advice. Just wish he had been a reasonable man and at least came to see our child. But you are right I have to let go as he is not my future.

Ok, then. I will visit a lawyer tomorrow. I have an appointment already.

Hello. So, it seems as though holding off on the divorce would be useful until I get everything together to withdraw the I-130. I am planning on going to the local office if possible. Is that something still available to do? If not, I am going to send the letter off. I already sent emails to the embassy and other useful branches of the government. I will just try to withdraw, file for a temporary child support order, temporary custody if possible, and maybe a restraining order as he is unsafe.

Yes, the interview was supposed to be rescheduled but was not. I emailed the Senator, and they told the USCIS that I intend to withdraw. I did this prior to his entry, and he rushed here on the visa. I think he has no intent to return to his country and will live here until I divorce him and remarry to use this woman, he is cheating on me with. He told me he is allowed to have 4 wives, so he does not need my permission. So, the last contact I had with him was in September and he texted me asking for $2000 (he already had a ticket so he did not need it) to come to the baby delivery. But I did not send him, so he went to the other woman. I will proceed to sending the formal letter as directed. I just was hoping he could be sent back home for doing this to me. Afterall, he left me stranded with a newborn baby and has made no contact at all. Thank you for your replies.

The status says Ready online at the US Embassy. He is from Pakistan. He had a scheduled interview but was here on an emergency tourist visa. Then he later went back during my pregnancy (early on). He decided to re-enter on the same tourist visa so he can work here under the table. He does not have work authorization on the B2 visa. I just found out this week that he was here two days before my baby was born by scheduled cesarean section. So, he entered pretending to be coming to me and then he went off to another state with another woman. I do not think it is really fair to me that I gave him 6 years of my life and then he had been cheating on me the entire time with this lady. I think his sole intent to marry me was to enter into the USA.

I married my husband soon to be 3 years ago. He and I filed an immigration petition, and it was approved for expedite but he had entered USA due to an emergency on a tourist visa last year as we lost a child. Now we just had a baby, but he did not come to the delivery despite having a tourist visa and ticket. I came to find out he was actually here in another state living with another woman and working on the tourist visa under the table. He came two days prior to our child's delivery and never told me. His family had been lying to me saying he was asleep in his bed. He has not been in contact with me whatsoever. Is there anything I can do about him being here living with another woman? I want to also withdraw my I-130 but will it be too late due to being married for close to three years? I need to also know what to do because he is in another state, and I need temporary child support but have no idea how to get his address. I found out he entered USA by a friend of his, so I checked his I-94 and was so saddened that he was in USA with another woman while I was giving birth to his first child, and we had lost two children last year. Is this immigration fraud and what can I do about it?