Anujra

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Wow.!!! Today is super Wednesday. Many many congratulations on your approval. God is great.! More good news to follow soon.! Amazing..!😊 Things will be great for you and enjoy your day today..!😊

Super exciting afternoon!🤩 Congratulations! It’s approval after approval! More wins dear!🥳😊

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Hi guys….
my i-360 finally was approved!
It has been indescribably difficult in many aspects in life…
At least, this approval notice means a lot for me to heal my soul.. Somebody really listens to my story and acknowledges all the heartbreaking moments….
As many of you, I didn’t have any support when I was in the abusive situation.. I felt like I was alone.. Here I am today still alive and try my best to live fully as much as I can with my wounded heart. If there is any progress for i-485, I will keep posting.
🙏🏻 for all of us who are waiting for the news. You are not alone..!
 
I-360, i-485 filed in October 2019
3 PF
Ead c31 seemed to be approved on 8/31 
i-360 approved 10/13/2021
 
 

Goo morning everybody ! 
There is an update in my I-360 today . What does this mean ? 
New card is being produced !! This is not i-765
 

Hi there,
 I went through the exactly same situation just few weeks earlier than you. I reached out to the congressperson in my area like I was advised by somebody here in this forum. I filled out the privacy release form the office asked but I have not heard anything after. 
 
Funny thing is that my mail was delivered to my lawyer’s office 35 days after the message was shown. According to USPS tracking(after the fact, I mean I did not get the tracking number on my case status history), they attempted to deliver to my lawyer’s office 3 days after the message “card was mailed to me” on USCIS. But for some reasons, my lawyer said she never received any notice from the USPS. And the USPS held my mail for a month and delivered it to the office again.
 
I hope your mail is delivered soon.
As I read through this forum, to get the approval letter after ead (c31) was issued, it takes sometimes like 3 months. So I know how desperately you want to see the card and check if it is true that your case is approved.. but I (we) probably need to step back and stay focused on what I (we) can do at the moment along the way to heal. Sending a big support!

so great to see people getting their greencard and end to the journey of continuous abuse Cant wait for our days 

You'll be fine.  The secret to having "butterflies in your stomach" is to get them to fly in formation.

Hi there,
 I went through the exactly same situation just few weeks earlier than you. I reached out to the congressperson in my area like I was advised by somebody here in this forum. I filled out the privacy release form the office asked but I have not heard anything after. 
 
Funny thing is that my mail was delivered to my lawyer’s office 35 days after the message was shown. According to USPS tracking(after the fact, I mean I did not get the tracking number on my case status history), they attempted to deliver to my lawyer’s office 3 days after the message “card was mailed to me” on USCIS. But for some reasons, my lawyer said she never received any notice from the USPS. And the USPS held my mail for a month and delivered it to the office again.
 
I hope your mail is delivered soon.
As I read through this forum, to get the approval letter after ead (c31) was issued, it takes sometimes like 3 months. So I know how desperately you want to see the card and check if it is true that your case is approved.. but I (we) probably need to step back and stay focused on what I (we) can do at the moment along the way to heal. Sending a big support!

Hi there,
 I went through the exactly same situation just few weeks earlier than you. I reached out to the congressperson in my area like I was advised by somebody here in this forum. I filled out the privacy release form the office asked but I have not heard anything after. 
 
Funny thing is that my mail was delivered to my lawyer’s office 35 days after the message was shown. According to USPS tracking(after the fact, I mean I did not get the tracking number on my case status history), they attempted to deliver to my lawyer’s office 3 days after the message “card was mailed to me” on USCIS. But for some reasons, my lawyer said she never received any notice from the USPS. And the USPS held my mail for a month and delivered it to the office again.
 
I hope your mail is delivered soon.
As I read through this forum, to get the approval letter after ead (c31) was issued, it takes sometimes like 3 months. So I know how desperately you want to see the card and check if it is true that your case is approved.. but I (we) probably need to step back and stay focused on what I (we) can do at the moment along the way to heal. Sending a big support!

Guys!!!!! My I-360 was approved yesterday.
I am so happy. Getting closer to the end of this long  journey. Thank you everyone on this platform., you guys are the BEST!!
 
I-360, I-485 was received  Nov 8 2019
RFE for good moral character was received Dec 11 2019
RFE response was received Feb 4 2020
First PF was sent to me March 2020
PF renewal was not sent to me automatically but I applied for it around May 2021
 

You are really not alone feeling that way. And honestly....being forced to talk about things you just wish were gone, things that make you wish like you could disappear...it's just....it's just a paradox...when it comes to some things, you cannot get "justice" and "protection" without reporting, talking, being exanimated, being interrogated, etc, etc. All of this it's a violation in itself. It is just a paradox...like you have to get more abused to repair the abuse.... So, you really are not alone in your feelings...
 
As for the I-864, do you have the receipt number? Can you check the status online? But in the end, it does not really matter...you file your petition and fight on your own to stay here. You will make it!
 

Thank you. Your comment means a lot to me. It actually lifted up my bad mood after talking to my therapist this morning. I was able to start working on my declaration that I have been putting off, thanks to you. As I articulate what happened to me in a written way, it is clear that what my abuser did to me is disturbing and I’m justified to feel the way I feel. I felt guilty even going for VAWA because part of me somehow questions myself what if I’m just overly antagonizing my spouse or somehow even tricking myself to just obtain green card. Your comment made me feel a lot better and gave me the courage to not give up and carry on.

Been there, done that. Rest assured, you’re not alone. My darkest moments were talking about the abuse in therapy and during the psychological examination/ evaluation. The entire process from a-z is a conducted tour of hell. 
Eventually, we move on and someday somewhere it will all make sense. We wouldn’t know joy without sorrow and hardship. I’m in no way justifying abuse. I just want you to know that you will be okay. Everything will turn out great. Focus on yourself:)
Feel free to DM me if you want to talk. 

 

I received my EAD card(c31) yesterday. My lawyer told me that USPS “attempted” to deliver the mail on 9/8 after her working hour to her office. The USPS held the mail and dropped the mail at her office 10/7. The waiting was obnoxious but anyway it arrived… so next step is the approval letter… Hopefully, the mailing does not get messed up when my time comes 🤞 
 
Good luck everyone. You are not alone. We all go through this well.
 

I received my EAD card(c31) yesterday. My lawyer told me that USPS “attempted” to deliver the mail on 9/8 after her working hour to her office. The USPS held the mail and dropped the mail at her office 10/7. The waiting was obnoxious but anyway it arrived… so next step is the approval letter… Hopefully, the mailing does not get messed up when my time comes 🤞 
 
Good luck everyone. You are not alone. We all go through this well.
 

Hi guuuuys! OMG OMG 
I haven't checked my case for a few weeks, and today im seeing that MY CASE IS READY TO BE SCHEDULED FO INTERVIEW!!!!!!!!
I am so excited,, happy  there is a step forward, but also I am a little scared AND NERVOUS  about the interview ( as the one with my husband didn't go well) 
Any suggestions? 
Should I pay lawyer to come with me? WHAT SHOULD I DOOOO HEEEELPPP

Do anybody here find just going through filing VAWA extremely hard and mental draining? I actually felt a lot better after separating with the abuser. However, talking about my experiences with therapists & lawyers just brings me back to where I was.
Since I was never subjected to physical abuse, having to prove that I was actually abused messes me up. I don’t feel like nobody would validate my feelings or experiences. I know therapists & lawyers I spoke with intended to help me, but hearing stuff like ‘you need more evidences’ hurt me deep down. part of me is still questing if I was actually abused or I am just over-reacting, dramatic, and whiny. (as my abuser used to claim)
I sort of just want to leave everything behind and move on, but the process itself doesn’t let me do so. It requires me to assert I was victimized so bad, but I don’t want to feel victimized. I want to focus on good parts of my life moving forward. Whenever I talk to therapists or lawyers, I feel low all day. It’s hard to dig through all the memories I would rather forget, then try to document them so that I would be able to build a stronger case.
I am scared of eventually getting denied VAWA, not just because I’ll have to leave the states, but mainly I don’t know if I’ll be able to handle that feeling of ultimate invalidation on my experiences. Since big essential part of the abuse was invalidating my feelings, making me feel nothing I feel is eight, and I’m just crazy.