MiriamK

He is threatening to find me and snap my neck, all texts and recorded messages, plus more texts about how stupid, ugly and fat I am, he said that he cheated on me with 3 different women while I was in my country and then he started saying that I should pay him if I want to keep my green card. 

Can he do something to me? he keeps texting me that he is going the the police to file a police report and say that I used him for immigration.

Do I have to wait 6 months to file? 

I asked a friend to use his address I hope they'll deliver it to the right place

He keeps texting me that he has my SSN and he will find me,  No this is not teasing. 

He called me sand *** and only today I learned what this means, I am from the middle east. 

1 hour ago, Duke & Marie said:

Given we’ve only got one side of the story and that it’s odd that his attitude has changed so drastically so soon after your arrival I’d recommend family and/or marriage guidance. 

 

If you dont understand what’s being said, how do you know they were making fun of you? Of course your accent is different, many of us have that same issue, it may well become a point of fun... ive been asked to read a phone book just so people can hear it, is it making fun? Are you a foreigner? Yes you are, it’s a factual point..j is it mean or embarrassing no, they’re just having fun or teasing..  I think a lot of miss communication going on.. 

I don't think you understood what I wrote, who is they?

my husband embarrassed me in the middle of the store, he yelled "are you a moron? can't you understand what he said?" and then kept yelling at me that I am stupid while I was at the cash register trying to pay.

Everyone at the store were staring at us, at me, probably feeling sorry for me.

20 minutes ago, Boiler said:

A month rental makes you a tenant, anyway rent a PO Box and have it delivered there.

Do they send to PO boxes? 

How about those virtual address services? can I use one of those? 

I read that in NY I have to wait six months before filing a divorce 

33 minutes ago, portorusa said:

Sorry to hear what's happening to you. Do you have a plan? What do you want to do, divorce him and go back to your country? Or do you want to stay in the US? Do you have a place to stay?

He cannot keep your green card, it's illegal.

No, I have a job but don't know what I will do next 

33 minutes ago, Boiler said:

File an AR 11 so that your GC is delivered to your new address.

I don't have a permanent address, I am staying at an airbnb for one month and have no idea where I'm going to go after 

We got married 2 and a half years ago and I arrived in the US last month on IR1 visa.

As soon as I arrived my husbands behavior changed from loving and caring to abuse and mostly mental abuse, he kept making fun of me, my accent, my clothes, calling me foreigner that without him I'd be nothing.

I found a job and he started making fun of my job as well.

We went to the store and he embarrassed my in front of everyone when I didn't understand what the person at the store said, he had an accent and I have hard time understanding heavy accents.

Then when I asked him why he embarrassed me like that he started yelling at me and calling me names like (removed) and slime ball and said I was his property.

2 days ago I've had enough and I rented an airbnb and left in the middle of the night.

Now he keeps texting me that he is going to contact immigration and report me and tell them to send me back to my country.

I still don't have my GC and he said when it comes in the mail he won't give it to me.

I don't know what to do.