Jawaree

Dude she is pregnant....All this sounds like high school kids just not
communicating well and needle-ing each other...Are there other
underlying issues...do you act like the macho man or state what you
paid for, is she acting like only she run things because you are not yet
assimilated ?
Pregnancy I suspect (from my own wife) brings dis-comfort, weight, hormone
changes, being anxious to drop the load etc So treat her with care & respect,
things was nice you got a baby I there, she is still the same woman, rub her
back, stomach & feet.
Not judging or blaming you, but its a fact some men don't have patience of
dealing with a pregnant female , especially the first time, have you lost interest
and she picked up on that? most pregnant female are highly ^^^^^ well you know
need attention in that dept to feel beautiful still and cared for, You nudging her
should be done in a loving way with a smile, being always serious & nudging will
come off as just shoving.
Have you pastor or family member mediate. try to understand you are both new
to it, and I wish you both a bouncing baby and that you go on to a long & happy
married life

Dude she is pregnant....All this sounds like high school kids just not
communicating well and needle-ing each other...Are there other
underlying issues...do you act like the macho man or state what you
paid for, is she acting like only she run things because you are not yet
assimilated ?
Pregnancy I suspect (from my own wife) brings dis-comfort, weight, hormone
changes, being anxious to drop the load etc So treat her with care & respect,
things was nice you got a baby I there, she is still the same woman, rub her
back, stomach & feet.
Not judging or blaming you, but its a fact some men don't have patience of
dealing with a pregnant female , especially the first time, have you lost interest
and she picked up on that? most pregnant female are highly ^^^^^ well you know
need attention in that dept to feel beautiful still and cared for, You nudging her
should be done in a loving way with a smile, being always serious & nudging will
come off as just shoving.
Have you pastor or family member mediate. try to understand you are both new
to it, and I wish you both a bouncing baby and that you go on to a long & happy
married life

Thanks Simon THIS SHOULD BE PINNED this is great info some attys even may not be familiar with .

You and mate will be stoked...stay calm, take all evidences to interview,
they expect real answers as lovey dovey couples would chit chat about
because they cant be together, EX.an incident when younger (not all) best
friends, family members,even schools you attended, don't try to appear to
younger but dress in a way that you compliment each other , most of all get
rid of the nerves & smile ,real couples would not bat an eye...Good luck

There is no harm trying, last yr our neighbors mom passed , she and all
siblings lived in the US for yrs, but thereother that lives in the family ho,e
in JA with no interest to even visit the USA, her mom while visiting passed
and sending her back was too expensive.
The brother had no bank account, kids or wifehe just power of atty (limited)
for the home, they think it was impossible, I toldry with his job letter & P of A
This was sent Hospital letter that she passed, letter from the under-taker that
got the body, letter from pastor where she would be churched.
He got a one entry visa the same day he applied in the afternoon, he returned
home in 2-3 wks, he renewed his visa in July got 10 yrs is presently visiting and
is packing to leave for home this wkend.
,
He can try, the difference is that he was denied visa to visit & currently a petition
is pending for him that's where he will have to convince the CO he will do the right
thing and return home after the funeral.
A congress-person cannot really help unless it was a situation that she had passed
due to a criminal situation or some major event like terrorism etc..May she RIP
my condolences to your family

Sorry to hear, marriage may be the route to take, however these ppl are very verse/trained
on the culture of the country They are aware most Jamaican men prefers a mate of their age
group or younger (not saying that's your case) but there are also a large percentage that have
an older woman for benefits. so if this CO was adamant about no believing I the relationship
then you have to address the reason for your denial in front-loading and prove its authentic

Sorry to hear, marriage may be the route to take, however these ppl are very verse/trained
on the culture of the country They are aware most Jamaican men prefers a mate of their age
group or younger (not saying that's your case) but there are also a large percentage that have
an older woman for benefits. so if this CO was adamant about no believing I the relationship
then you have to address the reason for your denial in front-loading and prove its authentic

I concur....less hassle upon return

OP you are over thinking because you developed a dependency on Benadryl to sleep,
Its an over the counter drug that many uses to sleep & cannot without it. Its not
a question they will ask at medical if you take Benadryl, but neither should you
bring up the subject of Benadryl. Hard drugs & marijuana is what they look for

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

Dude slow your roll ,if you petition K1 in 2015 & now looking to
do another they may check you for human trafficking. If you want to
spend your life with this lady take time to cancel first petition,
and put time between both....She will be with you if its love, doing
it this quick is a huge red-flag

Dude slow your roll ,if you petition K1 in 2015 & now looking to
do another they may check you for human trafficking. If you want to
spend your life with this lady take time to cancel first petition,
and put time between both....She will be with you if its love, doing
it this quick is a huge red-flag

Very vindictive, maybe uneducated too and god bless this father, however
I think she will sign the 2nd letter with "full custody" removed, also why not
have hubby present her the letter? many times these mothers are not receptive
in anything a new wife or g/friend is involved with..I hope it gets done as you seem to
have a good heart.
On the flip side many here speak of a better life for the kid & sure this kid will be
better off than the position he was in, but many Jamaican kids sent abroad thinking
life will be better get killed, molested & oppressed, so not all that glitters is gold
Don't know if anyone remembers that 9 yr old in Toronto beaten by dads wife to
death & a tooth she knocked out found in his stomach, so I applaud you for your
concerns & others but we at times have to think..Best wishes going forward

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

OP clearly you are hurt understandable, but do you really want to work things out?
seem like pushing back some dates should be what you want to do, but you just
want to go home to your parents, maybe some counseling is what you should try
if you both want to save the marriage, because you cant run away from the reality
of his indiscretion or any disagreements all the time. Wishing you the best

So OP you have a job dude why not move out, you were told get a room
you have a job, ppl really should know a person well B4 marriage especially
where theres an age & culture difference....which lend credence to 2 sides
to a story.

Drop the spouse reference until married, a slip of the tongue & you got probs with the CO

Drop the spouse reference until married, a slip of the tongue & you got probs with the CO

Petitioners are mot needed at interviews
& yes OP should know his total criminal
history for the interview. I wont give advise
on relationship since it was just info regarding
the immigration process requested

He can petition you for K1 if his parents will be co-sponsor
If his conviction is not Adam Walsh Act
Since you saw him in the last 2 yrs & this is what you want and its your life.
He has 90 days to be married after you arrive, so check with his institution
on marriage procedure way before your arrival. If he is in FEDS check it
out thoroughly federal inmates are like property of the state.
Live & let Live!